WhAT sHe ReaLlY MeaNs WHen shE SaYs " iT's NOt yoU It's ME"

shizzlenitts
shizzlenitts Posts: 149 Member
edited November 15 in Chit-Chat
I want to know what your ridiculous interpretation is of this phrase.

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  • stephaniejsharp
    stephaniejsharp Posts: 1,568 Member
    Haha..it's a nice way of basically saying it's not her, it's you...as to not hurt your ego and such. For whatever reason she's not feeling you (or whoever) so she places the blame on herself.
  • urloved33
    urloved33 Posts: 3,323 Member
    Its a cowards way of getting out of a relationship without giving the other person a valid reason why...or closure!
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  • MireyGal76
    MireyGal76 Posts: 7,334 Member
    Maybe it means that she thinks you're a good guy, but really, her heart just isn't in the relationship. The fireworks aren't flying and she doesn't think it's right to carry on pretending any more. There may NOT be anything wrong with you, but still, it just isn't working for her.

    Chalk it up to a bad fit and carry on.

    Unless you know it is you, in which case...

    Chalk it up to a bad fit, and carry on.
  • salembambi
    salembambi Posts: 5,585 Member
    m0ij0 wrote: »
    it means its not your fault she thinks your crap in bed ;)

    <3 yup
  • Timshel_
    Timshel_ Posts: 22,834 Member
    It's you based on her expectation.
  • La_Malfaisante_
    La_Malfaisante_ Posts: 1,064 Member
    She wants to bang someone else
  • Bugdude54
    Bugdude54 Posts: 137 Member
    m0ij0 wrote: »
    it means its not your fault she thinks your crap in bed ;)

    :D:D
  • kinkyslinky16
    kinkyslinky16 Posts: 1,469 Member
    Chaelaz wrote: »
    It's you based on her expectation.

    Yes
  • Sinistrous
    Sinistrous Posts: 5,589 Member
    I'm NoT EntIrElY suRe, hoWeVer ThE TitlE of YouR thReAd Is OnLY A BiT AnnOyInG.

    SO, lEt Me HELp yoU oUt.


    ThErE.

    MoRe AnNoYINg.
  • kelis_74
    kelis_74 Posts: 60
    It means either there is no "spark" or your sexually not up to their standard when you get that line
  • Huerita_Sarinana
    Huerita_Sarinana Posts: 1,048 Member
    edited April 2015
    Means i have no valid reason to break up with you so why not say this
  • christinelyn
    christinelyn Posts: 85 Member
    It's over!
  • barbecuesauce
    barbecuesauce Posts: 1,771 Member
    edited April 2015
    shizzlenitts wrote: »
    I want to know what your ridiculous interpretation is of this phrase.

    iT mEaNs sHe dOeSn'T dig dudes who type like they're 2004 MySpace scenekids. I don't blame her. Imagine someone accidentally picking up her phone and seeing texts from you.

  • dpwellman
    dpwellman Posts: 3,271 Member
    edited April 2015
    Firstly, love is a choice not "chemistry". Love is something one does, not something one feels. Love doesn't require anything in return. Secondly, two imperfect people cannot form a perfect relationship. At best, the relationship will be no more imperfect than at most one of the participants. On average, the relationship is at least as imperfect as all the imperfections together. Lastly, instead of answering the question, "what do I want?", answer the question "what am I willing to give?"

    Thus the "it's you not me is" a person who, for whatever reason hasn't got past the first step and you need to think about the last step.
  • lisalips30
    lisalips30 Posts: 1,520 Member
    dpwellman wrote: »
    Firstly, love is a choice not "chemistry". Love is something one does, not something one feels. Love doesn't require anything in return. Secondly, two imperfect people cannot form a perfect relationship. At best, the relationship will be no more imperfect than at most one of the participants. On average, the relationship is at least as imperfect as all the imperfections together. Lastly, instead of answering the question, "what do I want?", answer the question "what am I willing to give?"

    Thus the "it's you not me is" a person who, for whatever reason hasn't got past the first step and you need to think about the last step.

    well said.
  • Northernlight03
    Northernlight03 Posts: 1,980 Member
    It means she doesn't want you in the nicest way
  • ninerbuff
    ninerbuff Posts: 49,024 Member
    That it really is you.

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