Do you get hit on?

KechiiCoo · April 2015

I'm not sure if I can call it being hit on, maybe? Whenever I'm in school, people from the ME department would holler at me and always call my name, countless hi's and hello's from them actually. Then some would actually add in some compliments.

DanielGadsden2015 · April 2015

LyndseyLovesToLift wrote: »

I can honestly count the number of times I've been hit on in the past 7 years (since I met my husband) on one hand. I'm far from cocky, but I'm not ugly and I've got a decent body, especially with clothes on....

(No, I don't dress like this daily. It was a country-themed bachelorette party this past weekend.)

But I never get hit on. The girls I'm with get hit on, I see other girls getting hit on. But not me. I'm not exactly heartbroken about it, being married and all, but it does make me wonder what kind of look or vibe I've got going on that causes men to not approach me. In some cases, it''s probably the wedding ring. However, I asked my husband what he thought and he said, "You just look too smart and high maintenance. Guys probably think you're either going to reject them or make them spend all of their money before they can get into your pants." Say whaaa? Haha!

So, do you get hit on a lot? What is there to say about decent-looking girls that don't get creepy guys trying to hit her up in bars?

I don't go to bars anymore. But if I seen you out I would flirt with you. Your very attractive. One other thing you might want to consider. How big is your husband? Is he intimidating? Do the people you hang around know him?
My wife is hot, I am big, intimidating and own lots of guns and a back ho. She never gets hit on. And I even tell folks feel free, she's coming home with me. They even know we are swingers. Only people that do flirt are the ones that actually know us. But as far as a bar goes or anywhere else, they take one look at me, then see my 1911, then I guess they just don't want to get hit or shot. Me personally I would not care in the least if a dude flirted with her in front of me. Or even tried to pick her up. Lol. I know where she will be sleeping.

But she asks the same thing sometimes. Just wondering if your in the same boat.
But if it makes you feel better, I think your smoking hot and I'll take your number if you want to give it out. Lol. Don't let it get you down.

your hot, you know it, strut it!!

mamabearbartlett · April 2015

I do not get hit on a lot. But then again, I am married and I like what I have at home, so I don't always notice when I am being flirted with.

bestintheworld842 · April 2015

Hit on?! what's that

gonebeast · April 2015

So so, both genders...

ElizabethKalmbach · April 2015

I do not get hit on unless I actively cultivate a slightly less intense vibe. Which I usually don't, because there have been about 4 times in my life when I felt like I could handle being hit on well enough to put my book down and take the head phones off.

On the other hand, when someone actually DOES hit on me, I often don't notice, until one of my friends elbows me in the gut and tells me that I'm missing social cues.

velocityc6 · April 2015

Never happens

christinelyn · April 2015

I do at times.

La_Malfaisante_ · April 2015

I might...but I'm so clueless when it comes to that stuff. I think people are just nice

therealklane · April 2015

Ha. I don't know that I've ever been hit on IRL. That happens? Lol.

You're looking hot though girl. You're out of their league

ncboiler89 · April 2015

How could this not get hit on?

katnroyal87 · April 2015

therealklane wrote: »

Ha. I don't know that I've ever been hit on IRL. That happens? Lol.

You're looking hot though girl. You're out of their league

I agree. They might just think they don't have a chance!