Since thick is in, should I stay at 145 on my 5'2 frame
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Personally, I'm maintaining at a BMI of 25 rather than 20 because I don't think I could lose any more weight and have it look good without either a) surgery or b) lifting weights. And I don't fancy doing a) or b).
As long as you're a healthy weight for your height and build, maintain at what feels right for you. Healthy is quite a wide range.0 -
TitaniaEcks wrote: »jenniferjohnsonament wrote: »TitaniaEcks wrote: »angellll12 wrote: »I rather have some fat then be skinny with small breast, it's not womanly since we're being honest. I don't mind a little stomach, I'll probably go down to 130 and stop there and just workout to maintain and be healthy, I can look hot still without looking like I try so hard at the gym.At least my 38A's won't be down to my knees in 20 years. I'll take that over being "womanly" anyday.
Both of your statements make me sick. What is wrong with people who think like you and who do this to other women?? Don't we already have it bad enough that guys are constantly objectifying us and telling us our boobs have to be this way, our butts have to be that way, and so on? Do we really have to do it to each other as well??lydiakitten wrote: »There isn't a quota of sexiness, that different body types need to fight each other for the rights to.
Like... 80% of this thread is women trying to tell other women they are "doing it wrong". Please stop throwing shade all around.
THANK YOU! Who the F is anyone to tell someone else that her smaller/bigger breasts are better than the other woman's bigger/smaller breasts? GTFO of here, please, for the love of Zeus.
Yes! I couldn't agree more with this. I am a curvy build which I base on my waist/hip ratio....BUT I don't have large breasts by any means (34C...34B after weight loss not that it matters.) I have actually been told that I am not curvy because my breasts aren't large even.
There is too much judgment out there...and unfortunately I find that much of it DOES come from other women. We should be building each other up (especially in a fitness and weight loss community) rather then telling one another that our boobs or butts are better then theirs. We're all built differently...that's what makes it interesting
Men MAY objectify at times due to their acute visual senses...but I find that men (especially with a woman they care about) are much more forgiving in thinking that a woman's body (perceived flaws and all) is beautiful.
Hear hear... I mostly have male friends because I find them to be less catty and pointlessly critical than most women, but I still try to take care of my fellow women because I believe that much of inter-woman shaming is a product of patriarchal culture pitting us against each other, whether we realize it or not... but that's a topic for another day, lol...
I'm disappointed, again. This time because of seeing stuff like the bolded (because of the bolded/italics). I know a lot of awesome women. In fact, very few of the women I am friends with are pointlessly critical or catty. I think if people know people like that, they should make new friends.0 -
I think a person's weight is highly personal and it's just a number. The "correct" weight is one that results in a sense of well-being, stamina, and personal satisfaction. I'm 5'1" and my current 105 is that weight for me.0
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people said I looked my best when I was 145pds. I'm 5'3 and a friend of mine visiting from Costa Rica said he was gonna take me back with him so I could make money being a prostitute! I didn't know how to take that, so it has to be a compliment. Guys love a little meat on the bones!
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Personally, I'm maintaining at a BMI of 25 rather than 20 because I don't think I could lose any more weight and have it look good without either a) surgery or b) lifting weights. And I don't fancy doing a) or b).
As long as you're a healthy weight for your height and build, maintain at what feels right for you. Healthy is quite a wide range.
Exactly how I'm feeling. I think I'll need surgery if I go smaller then 130. I'll see as I go. I also hate lifting weights omg, I hate it, I do them but I'm so miserable in the process I'm like a crazy lady lol. And to think I'll have to do this for the rest of my life, lord. And what's even more frustrating, I'm going to lose all this weight and then in a couple years very soon I'm gonna need to push out kids. I should've started earlier # regrets. Rant done.
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rocknlotsofrolls wrote: »people said I looked my best when I was 145pds. I'm 5'3 and a friend of mine visiting from Costa Rica said he was gonna take me back with him so I could make money being a prostitute! I didn't know how to take that, so it has to be a compliment. Guys love a little meat on the bones!
I thought my face looked better at 150, when I look at pictures. Looked more youthful even tho I'm still in my 20s. Now My nose looks larger LOL. Oh and my feel got smaller too, didn't even know that was possible.
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MissKriss3 wrote: »I'm extremely confident weighing 174# at 5'1". Thanks to strength training. #thickchick
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Childfree1991 wrote: »DawnieB1977 wrote: »almostplenty wrote: »Please someone show me a person with a BMI of 24 who looks anorexic.
My BMI was 24.9 here. Clearly I look nowhere near anorexic, but I don't look approaching overweight either. Imagine what I'd look like at a BMI of 20?
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You would look fine at a BMI of 20 too. My BMI is 20 and I'm lean (profile pic). It also depends on body fat.
My face starts to look gaunt if I drop below this weight. I think I lost a little bit more after this photo and people were commenting how thin my face was. I'm 37 now and I don't want to look older
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angellll12 wrote: »Personally, I'm maintaining at a BMI of 25 rather than 20 because I don't think I could lose any more weight and have it look good without either a) surgery or b) lifting weights. And I don't fancy doing a) or b).
As long as you're a healthy weight for your height and build, maintain at what feels right for you. Healthy is quite a wide range.
Exactly how I'm feeling. I think I'll need surgery if I go smaller then 130. I'll see as I go. I also hate lifting weights omg, I hate it, I do them but I'm so miserable in the process I'm like a crazy lady lol. And to think I'll have to do this for the rest of my life, lord. And what's even more frustrating, I'm going to lose all this weight and then in a couple years very soon I'm gonna need to push out kids. I should've started earlier # regrets. Rant done.
There is nothing that says you are going to 'need' to push out kids. I don't have kids and I don't plan on having kids(of course what you plan and what takes place isn't always similar).
After reading all that I have read, I hope it is more than a 'couple years' before you 'push out kids'. Get your head on straight. Become like those women you admire and become proud of your body and stop giving so much thought to what other people think about how you look.
Realize that you can still lift weights/exercise while pregnant and you shouldn't use being pregnant as an excuse to 'let yourself go' and eat whatever.
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DawnieB1977 wrote: »Childfree1991 wrote: »DawnieB1977 wrote: »almostplenty wrote: »Please someone show me a person with a BMI of 24 who looks anorexic.
My BMI was 24.9 here. Clearly I look nowhere near anorexic, but I don't look approaching overweight either. Imagine what I'd look like at a BMI of 20?
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You would look fine at a BMI of 20 too. My BMI is 20 and I'm lean (profile pic). It also depends on body fat.
My face starts to look gaunt if I drop below this weight. I think I lost a little bit more after this photo and people were commenting how thin my face was. I'm 37 now and I don't want to look older
It does also take time for people to adjust to your new, lower weight. I got a lot of criticism masked as compliments when I started transitioning into maintenance. It's part of the process though so you take the good with the bad. For me personally, when my bmi got down to 18.9, that's when I began to feel uncomfortable/knew I was too low. I gained a few pounds back and found my perfect spot at a bmi of around 19.4 (what I am today/in my profile picture). Everyone will have a different comfort level/preference on how they look and as long as they're a healthy weight it's all good (and I'll be 37 yrs old this year, also a mom of three kiddos ). 0 -
TitaniaEcks wrote: »jenniferjohnsonament wrote: »TitaniaEcks wrote: »angellll12 wrote: »I rather have some fat then be skinny with small breast, it's not womanly since we're being honest. I don't mind a little stomach, I'll probably go down to 130 and stop there and just workout to maintain and be healthy, I can look hot still without looking like I try so hard at the gym.At least my 38A's won't be down to my knees in 20 years. I'll take that over being "womanly" anyday.
Both of your statements make me sick. What is wrong with people who think like you and who do this to other women?? Don't we already have it bad enough that guys are constantly objectifying us and telling us our boobs have to be this way, our butts have to be that way, and so on? Do we really have to do it to each other as well??lydiakitten wrote: »There isn't a quota of sexiness, that different body types need to fight each other for the rights to.
Like... 80% of this thread is women trying to tell other women they are "doing it wrong". Please stop throwing shade all around.
THANK YOU! Who the F is anyone to tell someone else that her smaller/bigger breasts are better than the other woman's bigger/smaller breasts? GTFO of here, please, for the love of Zeus.
Yes! I couldn't agree more with this. I am a curvy build which I base on my waist/hip ratio....BUT I don't have large breasts by any means (34C...34B after weight loss not that it matters.) I have actually been told that I am not curvy because my breasts aren't large even.
There is too much judgment out there...and unfortunately I find that much of it DOES come from other women. We should be building each other up (especially in a fitness and weight loss community) rather then telling one another that our boobs or butts are better then theirs. We're all built differently...that's what makes it interesting
Men MAY objectify at times due to their acute visual senses...but I find that men (especially with a woman they care about) are much more forgiving in thinking that a woman's body (perceived flaws and all) is beautiful.
Hear hear... I mostly have male friends because I find them to be less catty and pointlessly critical than most women, but I still try to take care of my fellow women because I believe that much of inter-woman shaming is a product of patriarchal culture pitting us against each other, whether we realize it or not... but that's a topic for another day, lol...
I'm disappointed, again. This time because of seeing stuff like the bolded (because of the bolded/italics). I know a lot of awesome women. In fact, very few of the women I am friends with are pointlessly critical or catty. I think if people know people like that, they should make new friends.
I agree. I hate the "I don't have female friends, they are so catty!" BS. Guys never say they don't have male friends because they've met so many *kitten*, and you know you cant throw a rock without hitting one of those.0 -
HeySwoleSister wrote: »TitaniaEcks wrote: »jenniferjohnsonament wrote: »TitaniaEcks wrote: »angellll12 wrote: »I rather have some fat then be skinny with small breast, it's not womanly since we're being honest. I don't mind a little stomach, I'll probably go down to 130 and stop there and just workout to maintain and be healthy, I can look hot still without looking like I try so hard at the gym.At least my 38A's won't be down to my knees in 20 years. I'll take that over being "womanly" anyday.
Both of your statements make me sick. What is wrong with people who think like you and who do this to other women?? Don't we already have it bad enough that guys are constantly objectifying us and telling us our boobs have to be this way, our butts have to be that way, and so on? Do we really have to do it to each other as well??lydiakitten wrote: »There isn't a quota of sexiness, that different body types need to fight each other for the rights to.
Like... 80% of this thread is women trying to tell other women they are "doing it wrong". Please stop throwing shade all around.
THANK YOU! Who the F is anyone to tell someone else that her smaller/bigger breasts are better than the other woman's bigger/smaller breasts? GTFO of here, please, for the love of Zeus.
Yes! I couldn't agree more with this. I am a curvy build which I base on my waist/hip ratio....BUT I don't have large breasts by any means (34C...34B after weight loss not that it matters.) I have actually been told that I am not curvy because my breasts aren't large even.
There is too much judgment out there...and unfortunately I find that much of it DOES come from other women. We should be building each other up (especially in a fitness and weight loss community) rather then telling one another that our boobs or butts are better then theirs. We're all built differently...that's what makes it interesting
Men MAY objectify at times due to their acute visual senses...but I find that men (especially with a woman they care about) are much more forgiving in thinking that a woman's body (perceived flaws and all) is beautiful.
Hear hear... I mostly have male friends because I find them to be less catty and pointlessly critical than most women, but I still try to take care of my fellow women because I believe that much of inter-woman shaming is a product of patriarchal culture pitting us against each other, whether we realize it or not... but that's a topic for another day, lol...
I'm disappointed, again. This time because of seeing stuff like the bolded (because of the bolded/italics). I know a lot of awesome women. In fact, very few of the women I am friends with are pointlessly critical or catty. I think if people know people like that, they should make new friends.
I agree. I hate the "I don't have female friends, they are so catty!" BS. Guys never say they don't have male friends because they've met so many *kitten*, and you know you cant throw a rock without hitting one of those.
I also agree. I don't have any female friends who make critical/catty remarks. I wouldn't stay friends with someone like that.
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angellll12 wrote: »I rather have some fat then be skinny with small breast, it's not womanly since we're being honest. I don't mind a little stomach, I'll probably go down to 130 and stop there and just workout to maintain and be healthy, I can look hot still without looking like I try so hard at the gym.
At least my 38A's won't be down to my knees in 20 years. I'll take that over being "womanly" anyday.
Oh, honeychild, that was completely uncalled for.
GROW UP.
My large tatas might sag after nursing two kids for extended lengths of time but at least I've never resorted to body shaming other women to make me feel better about them.
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If you feel like your health and joints want a few less lbs. then try strength training. Squats and deadlifts can sculpt a nice thick booty.
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