Yes or No : would you be pissed

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keef1972
keef1972 Posts: 411 Member
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425am here. My pal calls me up, tells me he just found out his wife cheated on him before they got married 10 years ago. She also got an STD, which she covered up(told him the pill was for some type of infection).

My question: would you be pissed..? Yes or No.

Yes, was my reply.
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  • dgoodie92
    dgoodie92 Posts: 624 Member
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    Yeah, but I've a short fuse
  • g44219
    g44219 Posts: 3,665 Member
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    oh yea. I'd be pissed. I think he has a hall pass now. I'm not sure I would get divorced or anything. do they have kids together?
  • keef1972
    keef1972 Posts: 411 Member
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    Yes, kids.
    griffk00 wrote: »
    oh yea. I'd be pissed. I think he has a hall pass now. I'm not sure I would get divorced or anything. do they have kids together?

  • tanklifetj
    tanklifetj Posts: 184 Member
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    Nah, not after 10 years. Disappointed though, certainly.
  • arian10daddy
    arian10daddy Posts: 2,758 Member
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    What's the whole point of getting angry on something that happened 10 years ago... Although about the STD, I'd be f**kin pissed! I would just hope this thing hadn't passed on to the children!
  • keef1972
    keef1972 Posts: 411 Member
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    I have to confess, I am curious how it plays out this weekend.
    The girl, has a guy she almost married, that pops in and out of the picture all the time. Was he the deed that had to be done 10 years ago..?

    LOL, it's soap opera like.
  • TripZeros
    TripZeros Posts: 144 Member
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    I'd be very disappointed, but not pissed.
  • duckykissy
    duckykissy Posts: 285 Member
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    I'd be pissed and I'm not one to really get pissed.

    I would be upset for 2 reasons: (1) they felt they couldn't tell me (I think I would be more disappointed than pissed), (2) they jeopardized my health by not fessing up and lying about an std (I would be very angry). Seriously, I hope your buddy has had an STD test because it's not uncommon for males to be asymptomatic.
  • susiebabygirl
    susiebabygirl Posts: 68 Member
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    I'd be disappointed and pissed! They lied for all that time and were clearly unsure about getting married....what else have they been lying about? I'd want to know what STD it was too and if it was gone or not. Some can be treated but never go away.
  • lookin4gains
    lookin4gains Posts: 1,762 Member
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    I would be hurt, but I mean 10 years together. They obviously love each other. Something that happened a decade ago is not something to jeopardize a life together. It could however be used for a bargain chip for a threesome. >:) jk. :p
  • getitamb
    getitamb Posts: 2,019 Member
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    Id be more pissed about the std than the cheating. What else will they lie about.
  • SummerLovin0x
    SummerLovin0x Posts: 481 Member
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    Oh god. I'd lose it.
  • KrissyRawrz
    KrissyRawrz Posts: 342 Member
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    Yes, I would
  • 999tigger
    999tigger Posts: 5,235 Member
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    probably yes, but id go back to sleep if its waited ten years, then it can wait till morning.
  • Misshodge64
    Misshodge64 Posts: 8,588 Member
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    I would more hurt than anything. However 10 years later, that's a decade ago. I probably wouldn't end the marriage. Especially if she hasn't been cheating. But at the end of the day, they are the two in the covenant joined by God

    My best wishes and regards goes to them.
  • horrorninjazombie
    horrorninjazombie Posts: 3 Member
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    I'd be more pissed about the STD than the 10-year-old cheating. I would be very disappointed in the cheating, but it obviously did not mean anything to her - it was a stupid mistake. If she hadn't loved your friend she wouldn't have married him. It would put a bit of a trust issue in for me, though. If I'd found out that my partner had cheated on me at the beginning of our relationship I would have a harder time trusting him now, even though it's been many years. It's a sucky thing to do, no matter what.
  • RedRockChic
    RedRockChic Posts: 69 Member
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    So out of curiousity... what brought it up at 425 am? Or really I guess my question would be what happened last night to generate this disclosure? Obviously he (the friend) hasn't figured it out on his own in 10 yrs, so there must have been something said or something that happened that caused this conversation to occur.
  • LiLly_Mayy14
    LiLly_Mayy14 Posts: 6 Member
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    Yes, I would be. That's stupid.
  • zoeysasha37
    zoeysasha37 Posts: 7,089 Member
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    Yes I would be. Even though it was ten years ago, I'd still be mad
  • 4ever420
    4ever420 Posts: 4,088 Member
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    I'd still be pissed, probably not as much as I would if it was more recent though. It definitely would make me question the last 10 years of our relationship.

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