When to start lifting?

LinzNicholeV
LinzNicholeV Posts: 133 Member
edited November 19 in Getting Started
This might get a little lengthy, so if you want to skip ahead to the point, it's: How soon into beginning exercise would you start incorporating strength training?

So I'm right at 299lbs. I just started taking my weight loss seriously, as in actually putting in effort, about 3 weeks ago. I've lost 6 lbs. by walking 2 miles 5-6 times a week, drinking a ton of water every day, and trying to stay within my calorie limits (which has proven to be the hardest part).

I'm only walking for exercise right now because I have a bad habit of trying to do too much too fast. There's been several times my 300lb self has gone outside to "run" because "I'm going to start running" when I've never ever done any real exercise, at least before a few weeks ago. And I'm finding that walking isn't too strenuous on me, but it still gets my heart rate up and I can feel the good in my leg muscles so I know it's helping.

That being said, I really want to start lifting. I know at the end of my journey I'm going to have a ton of extra skin, and I'd like to do some work along the way to help prevent as much of that as I can. Is it too soon to start? I really want to work with a personal trainer who can teach me what I need to do, but I'm worried about diving in too soon and making a fool of myself if I'm going to feel like I'm dying after 5 minutes.

Any thoughts or advice?

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  • livingleanlivingclean
    livingleanlivingclean Posts: 11,751 Member
    edited June 2015
    Start yesterday! :)

    The good thing about weight training is that you do exercises at your level. You increase weight or reps as you go to make progress.
  • malibu927
    malibu927 Posts: 17,562 Member
    It's never too soon to start. Lifting helps you retain muscle mass as you lose.
  • Burt_Huttz
    Burt_Huttz Posts: 1,612 Member
    Today.
  • LinzNicholeV
    LinzNicholeV Posts: 133 Member
    That's good to know. I'm just really clueless about this so I wasn't sure if lifting was going to be one of those things that "my body wasn't ready for" like me trying to go from no exercise to running 5 miles lol. Is there anything I can read to learn about a good starting point, as in how many reps/weight I should start with?
  • malibu927
    malibu927 Posts: 17,562 Member
    Look up the book New Rules of Lifting for Women. I bought it and it really helped, even though I don't follow their program (instead I do Stronglifts 5x5, another great beginning lifting program).
  • Emilia777
    Emilia777 Posts: 978 Member
    edited June 2015
    Definitely start asap. The first time around I lost weight (calorie deficit + running) I did no resistance training and I shudder to think how much lean mass I lost. I discovered lifting about a year ago and it’s become my main fitness focus.

    There are a number of good programs out there. Starting Strength is available in a book and is summarized on the bodybuilding forum here. Others are Stronglifts 5x5, New Rules of Lifting for Women (I hear the book is good, but the program not the best), or Strong Curves (which is focused on one’s butt). They’re premised on doing few repetitions but with high weights (i.e. 5 reps), and increasing the weights as you progress and gain strength.

    For running, I’d definitely take it slow. A lot of people seem to like the Couch to 5k program, so you could always look into that.

    Best of luck :smile:
  • Stephcrane14
    Stephcrane14 Posts: 6 Member
    Start today!! Strength training is THE MOST IMPORTANT aspect of maintaining a healthy lifestyle and being a woman is great because it will give you womanly curves. Trust me, you will not get huge from weightlifting! My goal is to gain muscle mass and it's so hard being a woman just because of the lack of hormones we have in order to bulk in muscle.

    What helped me start my weight lifting journey, and what really helped me learn A LOT is Jamie Eason's LiveFit Trainer on bodybuilding.com, here is the link:

    http://www.bodybuilding.com/fun/jamie-eason-livefit-trainer.html?searchterm=jamie eason livefit

    Whether or not you follow her routine, you will find that reading some of what she has written and by watching the videos, she really empowers both men and women to find their own starting points and to build your base from there. I used her trainer and followed it twice instead of consulting a trainer, they can get very pricey and her information is as good or better than a lot of trainers out there.

    No matter what you choose to do, always know that you should NEVER feel like you're making a fool of yourself for starting your journey to a healthier you. If you are in the gym or outside exercising, you are one step ahead of those who you think may be judging you so always know that.

    Also a fun fact that I hope will inspire your weightlifting start, the more muscle your body has, the more your metabolism works to burn fat on your body. You will notice that missing a day or two of exercise won't be as detrimental than when you had very little muscle because your body is working harder to sustain bigger muscles. Strength training also burns more calories than cardio --yayyy for those that HATE cardio <me>. So start weightlifting now, or as soon as you feel ready.

    I hope this helps! :)
  • LinzNicholeV
    LinzNicholeV Posts: 133 Member
    edited June 2015
    Another question: I know that I won't get HUGE muscles without taking some kind of supplements, etc., but I still hear this debate about women lifting and doing lighter weight/more reps vs. more weight/less reps. Can anyone shed some light on this and why there's such a disagreement about this? Even my husband is "team less weight/more reps".


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  • leggup
    leggup Posts: 2,942 Member
    Start lifting now, just make sure you start safely. Too much too fast is a surefire way to get injured. I like StrongLifts 5X5, which is a heavy lifting routine. You can also start with bodyweight exercises (like squats) to get your form solid.

    I will say that lifting astronomically increases my appetite, especially as I get into heavier weights. Unfortunately, lifting does not burn that many calories, not like cardio. If you're struggling to keep within your calorie deficit now, before you start lifting, you may struggle more as you progress. Not a deterrent, just something to watch.
  • 50ShadesOfAwkward
    50ShadesOfAwkward Posts: 9 Member
    Another question: I know that I won't get HUGE muscles without taking some kind of supplements, etc., but I still hear this debate about women lifting and doing lighter weight/more reps vs. more weight/less reps. Can anyone shed some light on this and why there's such a disagreement about this? Even my husband is "team less weight/more reps".


    ETF spelling.

    Some people are less educated about it than others and just believe the bull that some idiot spewed in the gym.
  • jchite84
    jchite84 Posts: 467 Member
    Start lifting now - don't over do it.

    In order to get huge muscles or even kind of big muscles it requires the following: eating lots and lots of extra calories (look at that video about what The Rock eats every day to get an idea of how much food), years of dedicated training, and a testosterone. The approach that you take will depend on how your body adapts to lifting and your goals. Some people see better results from one method over the other. But, if you never lift heavy you will never be able to lift heavy. So, IMO, less weight/more reps does not get you the same power. You will build muscle mass, and you will burn fat either way. You will not get hypertrophic unless you are really really trying to. I'm a fan of heavy lifting because I have specific performance goals that require power, and who doesn't like to feel more powerful?
  • leahgoldgirl
    leahgoldgirl Posts: 61 Member
    You can (and should) start strength training/ lifting, at a level scaled to your ability, as soon as you start exercising. As you get more fit, you can increase weight, and add more complex lifts. Strength training is far more important to weight loss than cardio is (though ideally, you should do both).

    Also, team less weight, more reps is pretty much full of crap. If you can lift something 30 times in a row, it probably isn't doing that much for you. I'd start with weights you can lift for 3 sets of 10-12, and as your strength increases, vary lighter (maintenance day) weights at 3-4 sets of 10-12, with days of 5-6 sets at a weight you can only lift 3-5 times per set.
  • cwolfman13
    cwolfman13 Posts: 41,865 Member
    last week...
    Another question: I know that I won't get HUGE muscles without taking some kind of supplements, etc., but I still hear this debate about women lifting and doing lighter weight/more reps vs. more weight/less reps. Can anyone shed some light on this and why there's such a disagreement about this? Even my husband is "team less weight/more reps".


    ETF spelling.

    read this...

    http://www.nerdfitness.com/blog/2011/07/21/meet-staci-your-new-powerlifting-super-hero/

    check out this supah bulky chick...

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    you'll see supah bulky Staci in the link above...

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  • slideaway1
    slideaway1 Posts: 1,006 Member
    Start at 5.30 pm for optimal gains.
  • sweetteadrinker2
    sweetteadrinker2 Posts: 1,026 Member
    Another question: I know that I won't get HUGE muscles without taking some kind of supplements, etc., but I still hear this debate about women lifting and doing lighter weight/more reps vs. more weight/less reps. Can anyone shed some light on this and why there's such a disagreement about this? Even my husband is "team less weight/more reps".


    ETF spelling.

    That might come from the training that dancers do with weights(Not sure if this is still the case as I've been out of the circuit for 4 years). I used to do competitive dance and the logic given for light weights/many reps was that we would be using that muscle repeatedly over long periods, but we wouldn't actually be lifting much with it(ie, baton, ribbons, maybe a flag). Whereas the guys lifted heavy weights with few reps, because they had to be able to lift us, but not very many times per routine. Coach always said to train for what you're going to be doing.

    That said, I'm now in a position where I lift light-moderate weight(50 -80 lbs) for many reps, it hasn't made me look bulky, just very nicely defined in the areas I use most.
  • FitFitzy331
    FitFitzy331 Posts: 308 Member
    edited June 2015
    Another question: I know that I won't get HUGE muscles without taking some kind of supplements, etc., but I still hear this debate about women lifting and doing lighter weight/more reps vs. more weight/less reps. Can anyone shed some light on this and why there's such a disagreement about this? Even my husband is "team less weight/more reps".


    ETF spelling.

    Most people are still under the impression that women can bulk up with no effort at all which is a myth. That's probably why your husband and many others think women should only lift 5lb weights and do 20+ reps.

    Follow the input of others on this post and look into Starting Strengths, Strong Curves, New Rules, and Strong Lifts and find which one you will enjoy most.

    ETA: Original quote changed
  • SezxyStef
    SezxyStef Posts: 15,267 Member
    http://www.nerdfitness.com/blog/2011/07/21/meet-staci-your-new-powerlifting-super-hero/
    http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/1096001-halp-heavy-lifting-made-me-supah-bulky?page=13#posts-19366042
    Another question: I know that I won't get HUGE muscles without taking some kind of supplements, etc., but I still hear this debate about women lifting and doing lighter weight/more reps vs. more weight/less reps. Can anyone shed some light on this and why there's such a disagreement about this? Even my husband is "team less weight/more reps".


    ETF spelling.

    Start now...Strong lifts, NROLFW or starting strength.

    As for the debate to be quite frank it comes from lack of education.

    Adding muscle is not a bad thing...and unless you are taking actual steriods your muscles won't get huge ever.

    I lift heavy...do I look huge???? no...I am a size 4 and can bench 130lbs, squat 200, DL 230 and OHP 98.5 (those are all my 1RM).

    If you want to be strong, keep your muscle while losing fat and feel amazing...lift heavy barring that do some form of resistance training at least to keep the muscle and feel amazing...it won't make you that strong but it's something.

    http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/560459-stronglifts-5x5-summary
    http://www.myfitnesspal.com/groups/home/4601-stronglifts-5x5-for-women
  • xcalygrl
    xcalygrl Posts: 1,897 Member
    edited June 2015
    Start lifting now. It can do amazing things for your body.

    Some good starter programs: Stronglifts 5x5, New Rules of Lifting for Women, or Strongcurves.

    It is perfectly a-ok to lift heavy weights for fewer reps. To get "bulky" you have to purposefully try. It takes a long time and a lot of food to get bulky, even longer for a woman because of hormones. You won't turn into she-hulk because you lift heavy weights. I lift heavy, and I've gotten smaller in the 8-9 months since I started.

    ETA: If you can, try to get 1-3 sessions with a trainer. They can help you with form and introduce you to lifts you may have no experience with.
  • LinzNicholeV
    LinzNicholeV Posts: 133 Member
    I'm soooo grateful for all of this information!! I just wish my computer at work (that I'm currently using) was modern enough to let me read/watch the links that have been suggested. Unfortunately it is quite a dinosaur so that part will have to wait until I get home.

    Do any of you have any experience with Bodypump and it's benefits? I've taken the class a handful of times in the past and really enjoyed it, but given my lack of knowledge I'm not sure how much it can be compared to the lifting that we're talking about.
  • Emilia777
    Emilia777 Posts: 978 Member
    SezxyStef wrote: »
    http://www.nerdfitness.com/blog/2011/07/21/meet-staci-your-new-powerlifting-super-hero/
    http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/1096001-halp-heavy-lifting-made-me-supah-bulky?page=13#posts-19366042
    Another question: I know that I won't get HUGE muscles without taking some kind of supplements, etc., but I still hear this debate about women lifting and doing lighter weight/more reps vs. more weight/less reps. Can anyone shed some light on this and why there's such a disagreement about this? Even my husband is "team less weight/more reps".


    ETF spelling.

    Start now...Strong lifts, NROLFW or starting strength.

    As for the debate to be quite frank it comes from lack of education.

    Adding muscle is not a bad thing...and unless you are taking actual steriods your muscles won't get huge ever.

    I lift heavy...do I look huge???? no...I am a size 4 and can bench 130lbs, squat 200, DL 230 and OHP 98.5 (those are all my 1RM).

    If you want to be strong, keep your muscle while losing fat and feel amazing...lift heavy barring that do some form of resistance training at least to keep the muscle and feel amazing...it won't make you that strong but it's something.

    http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/560459-stronglifts-5x5-summary
    http://www.myfitnesspal.com/groups/home/4601-stronglifts-5x5-for-women

    Whoa, those numbers… :open_mouth::love: Nicely done!!
  • SezxyStef
    SezxyStef Posts: 15,267 Member
    Emilia777 wrote: »
    SezxyStef wrote: »
    http://www.nerdfitness.com/blog/2011/07/21/meet-staci-your-new-powerlifting-super-hero/
    http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/1096001-halp-heavy-lifting-made-me-supah-bulky?page=13#posts-19366042
    Another question: I know that I won't get HUGE muscles without taking some kind of supplements, etc., but I still hear this debate about women lifting and doing lighter weight/more reps vs. more weight/less reps. Can anyone shed some light on this and why there's such a disagreement about this? Even my husband is "team less weight/more reps".


    ETF spelling.

    Start now...Strong lifts, NROLFW or starting strength.

    As for the debate to be quite frank it comes from lack of education.

    Adding muscle is not a bad thing...and unless you are taking actual steriods your muscles won't get huge ever.

    I lift heavy...do I look huge???? no...I am a size 4 and can bench 130lbs, squat 200, DL 230 and OHP 98.5 (those are all my 1RM).

    If you want to be strong, keep your muscle while losing fat and feel amazing...lift heavy barring that do some form of resistance training at least to keep the muscle and feel amazing...it won't make you that strong but it's something.

    http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/560459-stronglifts-5x5-summary
    http://www.myfitnesspal.com/groups/home/4601-stronglifts-5x5-for-women

    Whoa, those numbers… :open_mouth::love: Nicely done!!

    Thx...not quite 2 years in...my goals are triple diget OHP, bench body weight...the rest is all gravy.
  • xcalygrl
    xcalygrl Posts: 1,897 Member
    I'm soooo grateful for all of this information!! I just wish my computer at work (that I'm currently using) was modern enough to let me read/watch the links that have been suggested. Unfortunately it is quite a dinosaur so that part will have to wait until I get home.

    Do any of you have any experience with Bodypump and it's benefits? I've taken the class a handful of times in the past and really enjoyed it, but given my lack of knowledge I'm not sure how much it can be compared to the lifting that we're talking about.

    BodyPump is an ok place to start if you're new to lifting. It is more of a muscle endurance lifting class rather than a heavy lifting class. It will make you somewhat stronger, but it isn't considered heavy lifting.
  • Emilia777
    Emilia777 Posts: 978 Member
    SezxyStef wrote: »
    Emilia777 wrote: »
    SezxyStef wrote: »
    http://www.nerdfitness.com/blog/2011/07/21/meet-staci-your-new-powerlifting-super-hero/
    http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/1096001-halp-heavy-lifting-made-me-supah-bulky?page=13#posts-19366042
    Another question: I know that I won't get HUGE muscles without taking some kind of supplements, etc., but I still hear this debate about women lifting and doing lighter weight/more reps vs. more weight/less reps. Can anyone shed some light on this and why there's such a disagreement about this? Even my husband is "team less weight/more reps".


    ETF spelling.

    Start now...Strong lifts, NROLFW or starting strength.

    As for the debate to be quite frank it comes from lack of education.

    Adding muscle is not a bad thing...and unless you are taking actual steriods your muscles won't get huge ever.

    I lift heavy...do I look huge???? no...I am a size 4 and can bench 130lbs, squat 200, DL 230 and OHP 98.5 (those are all my 1RM).

    If you want to be strong, keep your muscle while losing fat and feel amazing...lift heavy barring that do some form of resistance training at least to keep the muscle and feel amazing...it won't make you that strong but it's something.

    http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/560459-stronglifts-5x5-summary
    http://www.myfitnesspal.com/groups/home/4601-stronglifts-5x5-for-women

    Whoa, those numbers… :open_mouth::love: Nicely done!!

    Thx...not quite 2 years in...my goals are triple diget OHP, bench body weight...the rest is all gravy.

    Awesome - you’re not at all far from that! Though I for one gain upper body strength at a snail pace. I’ve gotten back into lifting for about 4 months now and it’s pretty much my favourite thing. Can’t wait to cross the 200lb DL barrier :smiley: .

    Anyway, I’m definitely not huge either (see profile pic). I actually want to do a bulk/cut cycle eventually to gain more mass. It’s such a shame that lifting myths for women are so pervasive.
  • SezxyStef
    SezxyStef Posts: 15,267 Member
    xcalygrl wrote: »
    I'm soooo grateful for all of this information!! I just wish my computer at work (that I'm currently using) was modern enough to let me read/watch the links that have been suggested. Unfortunately it is quite a dinosaur so that part will have to wait until I get home.

    Do any of you have any experience with Bodypump and it's benefits? I've taken the class a handful of times in the past and really enjoyed it, but given my lack of knowledge I'm not sure how much it can be compared to the lifting that we're talking about.

    BodyPump is an ok place to start if you're new to lifting. It is more of a muscle endurance lifting class rather than a heavy lifting class. It will make you somewhat stronger, but it isn't considered heavy lifting.

    Or Jillian Michael's videos or I am my own gym.

    I started out with 30 Day shred (2 rounds) to build my way up to push ups etc.

    It showed me how much I liked being "strong"
  • slideaway1
    slideaway1 Posts: 1,006 Member
    Girls that lift heavy generally do not look manly/bulky etc. In time, they just look super fit, feminine and healthy (in my opinion). I think people are confusing this with girls that lift heavy and take steroids etc (The competition/stage look which is ridiculously hard to achieve anyway). That "toned" look that a lot of girls say that want/like is a result of resistance training, progressively heavy overload and a good diet. Don't worry girls, you will still look beautiful B)
  • RodaRose
    RodaRose Posts: 9,562 Member
    If you want to start feeling great and looking good, you will use more weight/less reps.
  • belinda_73
    belinda_73 Posts: 149 Member
    if you really want to start lifting, a personal trainer is an excellent idea, they get you familiar with the equipment and comfortable walking around the gym. The ymca is always running 3 for $99 specials. Or if you want to start at home, bands are very versatile. they have some really thick ones that you can get quite a burn from. youtube some videos if there's not instructions with the bands. you can do biceps, triceps, even lat pull downs using bands. lunges and air squats will work until you build up strength to do more weights in your legs. drink lots of water to ward off soreness. take it slow, you may feel like you can do more and then realize the next day, you did too much.
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