You see your ex on a dating site

soldiergrl_101
soldiergrl_101 Posts: 2,205 Member
edited November 20 in Chit-Chat
What do you do? Say whats up and rid of the elephant in the room, or avoid the conversation entirely the next time you hang out haha
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  • Spnneil06
    Spnneil06 Posts: 18,745 Member
    Avoid.
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  • daydreams_of_pretty
    daydreams_of_pretty Posts: 506 Member
    My ex-husband and I saw each other on OkCupid and liked each other as a joke. It was funny.
  • Ripfit138
    Ripfit138 Posts: 1,148 Member
    If she's my EX, why do I care?
  • shoppingmaniac86
    shoppingmaniac86 Posts: 2,067 Member
    You can kill him........with kindness but that's just a thought
  • soldiergrl_101
    soldiergrl_101 Posts: 2,205 Member
    daydreams_of_pretty wrote: »
    My ex-husband and I saw each other on OkCupid and liked each other as a joke. It was funny.

    ^^ Thats the site... I was asked to Like him that we are a 90% Match and I was going to hit "Like" to be funny...but then I thought just avoid it all together so it doesnt become weird
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  • daydreams_of_pretty
    daydreams_of_pretty Posts: 506 Member
    soldiergrl_101 wrote: »
    daydreams_of_pretty wrote: »
    My ex-husband and I saw each other on OkCupid and liked each other as a joke. It was funny.

    ^^ Thats the site... I was asked to Like him that we are a 90% Match and I was going to hit "Like" to be funny...but then I thought just avoid it all together so it doesnt become weird

    It's only funny if you're comfortable with being exes. I helped him write his profile and start messaging girls, so it wasn't weird for us. :D (Guys are so bad at messaging girls...)
  • shrinkingletters
    shrinkingletters Posts: 1,008 Member
    Keep moving on, because you're over it. Right?
  • soldiergrl_101
    soldiergrl_101 Posts: 2,205 Member
    daydreams_of_pretty wrote: »
    soldiergrl_101 wrote: »
    daydreams_of_pretty wrote: »
    My ex-husband and I saw each other on OkCupid and liked each other as a joke. It was funny.

    ^^ Thats the site... I was asked to Like him that we are a 90% Match and I was going to hit "Like" to be funny...but then I thought just avoid it all together so it doesnt become weird

    It's only funny if you're comfortable with being exes. I helped him write his profile and start messaging girls, so it wasn't weird for us. :D (Guys are so bad at messaging girls...)

    We have been friends long after we were exes, I just dont want the "like" hehe to get misconstrued for rekindling

  • shoppingmaniac86
    shoppingmaniac86 Posts: 2,067 Member
    ThomasW13 wrote: »
    ended things poorly with all my exes so i'd def avoid.

    What do u mean ended thing poorly?
  • slimzandra
    slimzandra Posts: 955 Member
    Avoid the topic w/him. But show his profile to all my girlfriends and laugh hysterically at his goofy pictures, highlight and circle, "honest, likeable, fun, friendly." laugh some more. Get a GF he doesn't know to Favorite him, chat with him, get him interested, set up a time to meet then stand him up. HAHA.

    Wait.. Wow.. Angry much?? That sounds terrible... bawwwhaaa. >:) LOL.
  • soldiergrl_101
    soldiergrl_101 Posts: 2,205 Member
    edited June 2015
    ThomasW13 wrote: »
    ended things poorly with all my exes so i'd def avoid.

    Were you a cheater lol


  • soldiergrl_101
    soldiergrl_101 Posts: 2,205 Member
    slimzandra wrote: »
    Avoid the topic w/him. But show his profile to all my girlfriends and laugh hysterically at his goofy pictures, highlight and circle, "honest, likeable, fun, friendly." laugh some more. Get a GF he doesn't know to Favorite him, chat with him, get him interested, set up a time to meet then stand him up. HAHA.

    Wait.. Wow.. Angry much?? That sounds terrible... bawwwhaaa. >:) LOL.

    Haha sounds like an awesome idea, but if i click on his profile it shows him - damit :(

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  • soldiergrl_101
    soldiergrl_101 Posts: 2,205 Member
    ThomasW13 wrote: »
    soldiergrl_101 wrote: »
    ThomasW13 wrote: »
    ended things poorly with all my exes so i'd def avoid.

    Were you a cheater lol


    yeah I was. it is what it is. always happened when the relationship was crashing and burning anyhow. one of them was here on MFP too and it was a big ordeal after we split.

    My friend met a bunch of people on this site, I called him a MFP **** for a while...but he ended up just marrying a chick he met on here. Way to go MFP

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  • soldiergrl_101
    soldiergrl_101 Posts: 2,205 Member
    My ex husband now has a boyfriend so I wont be marrying anyone from MFP anytime soon lol
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  • soldiergrl_101
    soldiergrl_101 Posts: 2,205 Member
    ThomasW13 wrote: »
    soldiergrl_101 wrote: »
    My ex husband now has a boyfriend so I wont be marrying anyone from MFP anytime soon lol

    every one of my exes has gone on and gotten married directly after me. Good Luck Chuck for real.

    Hahahaha omg dying over here

  • soldiergrl_101
    soldiergrl_101 Posts: 2,205 Member
    asflatasapancake wrote: »
    soldiergrl_101 wrote: »
    My ex husband now has a boyfriend so I wont be marrying anyone from MFP anytime soon lol

    Whoa. Well, think of it this way. There is absolutely no way that you could give him what he needed. Without purchasing something, of course.

    Lol it sure did explain a lot haha
  • daydreams_of_pretty
    daydreams_of_pretty Posts: 506 Member
    slimzandra wrote: »
    Avoid the topic w/him. But show his profile to all my girlfriends and laugh hysterically at his goofy pictures, highlight and circle, "honest, likeable, fun, friendly." laugh some more. Get a GF he doesn't know to Favorite him, chat with him, get him interested, set up a time to meet then stand him up. HAHA.

    Wait.. Wow.. Angry much?? That sounds terrible... bawwwhaaa. >:) LOL.

    Holy crap! :o Don't do these things...

    Seriously, just don't.
  • stargirl85
    stargirl85 Posts: 50 Member
    Happened. Viewed everything on the profile, felt pretty shook up as there was some revealing stuff then messaged him! But we r friends still
  • salembambi
    salembambi Posts: 5,585 Member
    its happened to me a while ago i sent him this msg "hey send me a dick pic"

    and he did
  • Train4Foodz
    Train4Foodz Posts: 4,298 Member
    edited June 2015
    Personally I'd be happy for her!! An ex is usually an ex for a reason!!! If I see her on a dating site then surely I'm only doing the same thing? :)

    Yeah, I'm in a sentamental mood tonight!!! lol
  • undergloom
    undergloom Posts: 531 Member
    My serious relationships burn brightly, but can only end in fiery, apocalyptic wrecks. "Hanging out" afterwards would be extraordinarily dangerous. But if I were to see an ex-paramour on a dating site, I'd just think "oh, good; she still seems to function normally".
  • marthaelisa80
    marthaelisa80 Posts: 1,572 Member
    It happened to me years ago! I blocked him. End of story! I never get back with an ex.
  • Train4Foodz
    Train4Foodz Posts: 4,298 Member
    marthaelisa80 wrote: »
    t happened to me years ago! I blocked him. End of story! I never get back with an ex.

    Yup! I honestly believe that an ex is usually just that for a reason!!
  • blu_de_ville
    blu_de_ville Posts: 4,296 Member
    slimzandra wrote: »
    Avoid the topic w/him. But show his profile to all my girlfriends and laugh hysterically at his goofy pictures, highlight and circle, "honest, likeable, fun, friendly." laugh some more. Get a GF he doesn't know to Favorite him, chat with him, get him interested, set up a time to meet then stand him up. HAHA.

    Wait.. Wow.. Angry much?? That sounds terrible... bawwwhaaa. >:) LOL.

    Same and block him of course
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