Local restaurant... no nutritional information.... Please help!

BFDeal wrote: »

slaite1 wrote: »

BFDeal wrote: »

slaite1 wrote: »

BFDeal wrote: »

slaite1 wrote: »

a_manda wrote: »

Thank you guys. This isn't an every day thing for me but the further along on this journey I go the better I will (hopefully) get at navigating situations like this. This is the first time since starting my journey that I've gone somewhere and not stuck to a pretty simple grilled chicken salad.

I just want to be able to go out with my friends and be able to have some sort of plan and not feeling like I can only order salads and veggies. I want to be able to fit things like this into my calorie allowance so that on the few occasions it happens I can log and keep moving with my day.

I used to do the same, salads or "healthy" options. Now I get what I want and either enjoy it bc it's a rare treat or just eat half.

How rare of a treat? I point it out in a lot of the "how do I go out to eat at places without info" threads that the real answer is "just don't go out to eat as much." People will swear that I'm wrong but then you'll see successful people either say they a) order very plain aka boring or b) say they don't eat out often.

If in eating out often then I stick to plain food, request no oil, etc so that the margin of error is smaller. In general I find it easier to make my own food when I'm losing since I have more control. But I've lost eating out fairly often.

If it's a special treat and I'm actively losing I try to get something I will enjoy but eat a smaller portion and maybe do as the OP did and get sauce, etc on the side. That way I enjoy a treat but don't waste 100's of calories on something I don't really want.

It I'm maintaining and it's an occasional treat (1x a month or so I guess) than I get whatever I want and eat it all if I so desire. But, again, it's a treat. Even a big blow out is not the end of the world if it's a rarity.

Thanks for the reply. This is kind of inline with my theory on the subject. I just wish more people actually came out and said this instead of swearing up and down nothing has changed. "You can still eat out!!" Yeah, technically but that comes with a bunch of disclaimers. It's kind of a bummer really. What's the point of busting your butt to be so fit if you can't even have Chinese food once a week (again, I know you can get boring streamed whatever with no sauce but why bother?).

Priorities.

And I look at it differently. I think it's awesome that I can be very fit and STILL have Chinese food once a month or so. I'd rather have it less often-and be in shape, than all the time-and be overweight.

Yeah but can one be in shape and have it once a week LOL. I think of it like money. What's the point of being rich and having tons of money if you're always working and can never spend it? Same thought process for me I guess.

Sorry BFDeal, I am with Slaite on this.

I guess it may depend on where each of us comes from.

If I am trying to maintain five vanity pounds and it affects my daily living to do so, then maybe it is appropriate to question my priorities

If i am trying to achieve, or maintain, a hundred pound plus loss, reducing the frequency of eating certain types of foods, or modifying how I order, or cooking with less to no oil most of the time is not, in my opinion, that big of a price to pay.

wizzybeth wrote: »

slaite1 wrote: »

257_Lag wrote: »

It's situations like this that you have to use the SWAG method of calculation. (Scientific Wild *kitten* Guess)

Wrap 100
Chicken 150
Provolone 150
Sauce? 100
Onions and Mushrooms next to nothing
Butter or oil on the grill 50

Enjoy it, log 550 and try and not make it an everyday occurrence

I would estimate much higher. Wraps can be a few hundred calories just by themselves. The bacon can be 50-100 per piece. If it's a chicken "cheesesteak" it might be coveted in oil when it's put on the grill-top. Sauces are notoriously high.

Sandwiches at restaurants are often shockingly high calorie. Log at least 1000 calories and call it a maintenance day.

100 calories for a slice of bacon? I've always seen it as 40-50 calories per piece.

I worked at a sandwich shop and we had this super delicious bacon. Thick-cut etc. and it was 80 calories per piece! And then it was cooked on a well-oiled griddle.

slaite1 wrote: »

I would estimate much higher. Wraps can be a few hundred calories just by themselves. The bacon can be 50-100 per piece. If it's a chicken "cheesesteak" it might be coveted in oil when it's put on the grill-top. Sauces are notoriously high.

Sandwiches at restaurants are often shockingly high calorie. Log at least 1000 calories and call it a maintenance day.

Yep. My wife owns a restaurant; lots of sandwiches and wraps. They use the Don Pancho Extra Large, 12" Flour Tortilla, which comes in at 320 calories . We've sat down and tallied up calories for most sandwhiches and wraps, and it's all between 750 and 1,000 calories.

As to eating out: My wife and I eat out a lot. We like date nights, time out, etc., and she owns the aforementioned restaurant. I have two strategies for dealing with this:

1) Extra exercise that day to offset some of the calories. Like extra walking.
2) Eat half the wrap and save the other half for tomorrow's lunch.

Life doesn't have to suck.

Another possibility, if the wraps aren't made ahead- I'm gluten intolerant, so I frequently ask for the contents of a wrap or sandwich on a bed of lettuce. You can save a few calories that way, and still enjoy the yummy savory stuff.

I also make sure to be verbally appreciative, and tip well if the accommodation has been made without a fuss.

But if you "just wanna have fun", go ahead- just be sure that you are adapting your intake a couple days before and after to allow for it.

I know some think of their eating plan as a life-long lifestyle change, but everyone has to adjust for the occasional holiday dinner, wedding, or party. Personally, I have always been more successful if I did not feel like I was totally depriving myself of something. Adjust your eating before and after, and enjoy in moderation!

p.s. Make sure you really enjoy it! Don't mindlessly wolf the "special treat" down while chatting with your friends- take a moment to close your eyes and really savor the texture and the flavor. This way, the experience would have been really worth it, or if it was not as good as you thought, you may decide to eat a bit less, and not make this kind of sacrifice for that particular item again!

Enjoy your night out!