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  • jennifer_417
    jennifer_417 Posts: 12,344 Member
    leoslady09 wrote: »
    Draznyth... It's sad your really in your feelings about this. Just because I stated my intentions and you don't like it, I'm sorry. Yes I am new to this forum, nor am I trying to "control" anyone. I just wanted those to know don't add me to be your "cuddle buddy" that's not my motive nor intentions. I'm just here to learn new ways to stay fit and healthy. Period. Isn't that what this is for? Not trying to offend anyone or seem like I don't have a sense of humor, but if your using a fitness app to "pick up a chick" that's pathetic and I don't have time for it.

    So, how is making a forum post going to help you with that goal? No really, I'm curious about your reasoning here.
    That's something that might be more helpful on your profile.

  • arditarose
    arditarose Posts: 15,573 Member
    leoslady09 wrote: »
    Draznyth... It's sad your really in your feelings about this. Just because I stated my intentions and you don't like it, I'm sorry. Yes I am new to this forum, nor am I trying to "control" anyone. I just wanted those to know don't add me to be your "cuddle buddy" that's not my motive nor intentions. I'm just here to learn new ways to stay fit and healthy. Period. Isn't that what this is for? Not trying to offend anyone or seem like I don't have a sense of humor, but if your using a fitness app to "pick up a chick" that's pathetic and I don't have time for it.

    You don't have time to simply delete a friend/deny a friend request but you have to time create a thread to humble brag. K.
  • kami3006
    kami3006 Posts: 4,979 Member
    UltimateRBF wrote: »
    I'd post a welcome to the internet gif but I'm on my phone. Question, are you a gamer? Cuz you wanna talk about creepers...

    Boy isn't that the truth.
  • PrizePopple
    PrizePopple Posts: 3,133 Member
    Damn, I don't get any FR's worthy of making angry posts about.

    I feel a bit left out, and clearly this means I'm not hot.

    Glee1.gif
  • barbecuesauce
    barbecuesauce Posts: 1,771 Member
    Alright, you're waiting for DiCaprio, we get it.
  • FitForL1fe
    FitForL1fe Posts: 1,872 Member
    arditarose wrote: »
    leoslady09 wrote: »
    Draznyth... It's sad your really in your feelings about this. Just because I stated my intentions and you don't like it, I'm sorry. Yes I am new to this forum, nor am I trying to "control" anyone. I just wanted those to know don't add me to be your "cuddle buddy" that's not my motive nor intentions. I'm just here to learn new ways to stay fit and healthy. Period. Isn't that what this is for? Not trying to offend anyone or seem like I don't have a sense of humor, but if your using a fitness app to "pick up a chick" that's pathetic and I don't have time for it.

    You don't have time to simply delete a friend/deny a friend request but you have to time create a thread to humble brag. K.

    also time to write that really confusing paragraph
  • arditarose
    arditarose Posts: 15,573 Member
    draznyth wrote: »
    arditarose wrote: »
    leoslady09 wrote: »
    Draznyth... It's sad your really in your feelings about this. Just because I stated my intentions and you don't like it, I'm sorry. Yes I am new to this forum, nor am I trying to "control" anyone. I just wanted those to know don't add me to be your "cuddle buddy" that's not my motive nor intentions. I'm just here to learn new ways to stay fit and healthy. Period. Isn't that what this is for? Not trying to offend anyone or seem like I don't have a sense of humor, but if your using a fitness app to "pick up a chick" that's pathetic and I don't have time for it.

    You don't have time to simply delete a friend/deny a friend request but you have to time create a thread to humble brag. K.

    also time to write that really confusing paragraph

    snort
  • barbecuesauce
    barbecuesauce Posts: 1,771 Member
    PrizePopple wrote: »
    Damn, I don't get any FR's worthy of making angry posts about.

    I feel a bit left out, and clearly this means I'm not hot.

    Glee1.gif

    I don't know whether I get any worth complaining about because I can't see the messages that come with them. (I might need to update the app.) Just going to have to assume that a friend request is not a holla.

    Random dudes yelling at me in the street=creepy. Random dudes requesting me on a social network=not creepy
  • arditarose
    arditarose Posts: 15,573 Member
    OP, what thread did you post on that instantly got you 40 friend requests? Where you in the chit-chat forum?
  • PrizePopple
    PrizePopple Posts: 3,133 Member
    And with only 2 friends her acceptance rate is 1 in 20. That's seriously selective.
  • Alatariel75
    Alatariel75 Posts: 18,224 Member
    arditarose wrote: »
    OP, what thread did you post on that instantly got you 40 friend requests? Where you in the chit-chat forum?

    She posted an "add me" thread. Then apparently got upset that people did.
  • arditarose
    arditarose Posts: 15,573 Member
    Alatariel75 wrote: »
    arditarose wrote: »
    OP, what thread did you post on that instantly got you 40 friend requests? Where you in the chit-chat forum?

    She posted an "add me" thread. Then apparently got upset that people did.

    Ohhhhh. Makes sense.
  • zoeysasha37
    zoeysasha37 Posts: 7,088 Member
    nutmegoreo wrote: »
    leoslady09 wrote: »
    Anyways... Moving forward... Are there any personal trainers in the forum?

    I think this is MFP for, "anyone selling beachbody?"

    Thats what i thought too !if she thought the friend requests where insane before, now she'll get bombarded with woo peddling coaches and what not..,,,
  • bleanbeef
    bleanbeef Posts: 36 Member
    You mad bro?? Hey, what's your #, I'm here to help
  • leoslady09
    leoslady09 Posts: 19 Member
    Clearly y'all took this whole thing wrong, everyone is in attack mode. I wanted information, period.
  • kami3006
    kami3006 Posts: 4,979 Member
    She just posted another looking for friends thread too. :|
  • arditarose
    arditarose Posts: 15,573 Member
    leoslady09 wrote: »
    Clearly y'all took this whole thing wrong, everyone is in attack mode. I wanted information, period.

    What information did you want, specifically? Sorry I only saw a question asking if anyone was a personal trainer. Do you have question?
  • leoslady09
    leoslady09 Posts: 19 Member
    this forum isn't for me, clearly. Yall be easy ✌️
  • Alatariel75
    Alatariel75 Posts: 18,224 Member
    edited July 2015
    leoslady09 wrote: »
    Clearly y'all took this whole thing wrong, everyone is in attack mode. I wanted information, period.

    But you've started 2 threads now saying you're looking for friends. You put nothing about your goals, what you are doing, your plan, or specifically what you're looking for?\. So how can you be upset that you get superficial friend requests when you only post superficial requests for friends?
  • arditarose
    arditarose Posts: 15,573 Member
    Interesting.
  • Virkati
    Virkati Posts: 679 Member
    OP
    eat a cookie. Or a brownie. You sound hangry. Maybe some ice cream AND a brownie...something. Cuz you need to chill the fruck out!!
  • leoslady09
    leoslady09 Posts: 19 Member
    I am looking for anyone with information on losing weight, weight loss programs, healthy eating habits, that is all.
  • leoslady09
    leoslady09 Posts: 19 Member
    Yes I wanted to know if anyone in this forum is a personal trainer and can give pointers.
  • Alatariel75
    Alatariel75 Posts: 18,224 Member
    leoslady09 wrote: »
    I am looking for anyone with information on losing weight, weight loss programs, healthy eating habits, that is all.

    So how about you say that in the threads where you're asking for friends? No one is psychic. It's a community. Don't post vague threads asking for friend requests then pout when you get them.
  • PrizePopple
    PrizePopple Posts: 3,133 Member
    leoslady09 wrote: »
    I am looking for anyone with information on losing weight, weight loss programs, healthy eating habits, that is all.

    There's a forum full of that, you can totally ask questions... but making threads looking for friends and then getting mad when random people send you a FR is ridiculous.


    This post is a great place to start...
    http://community.myfitnesspal.com/en/discussion/1080242/a-guide-to-get-you-started-on-your-path-to-sexypants
  • kami3006
    kami3006 Posts: 4,979 Member
    edited July 2015
    There is a great stickied thread at the top of the weightloss section with great information. Will get you off to a nice start.
  • jennifer_417
    jennifer_417 Posts: 12,344 Member
    leoslady09 wrote: »
    I am looking for anyone with information on losing weight, weight loss programs, healthy eating habits, that is all.

    But but...where did you ask that? Your post didn't mention that at all.
  • nutmegoreo
    nutmegoreo Posts: 15,532 Member
    leoslady09 wrote: »
    I am looking for anyone with information on losing weight, weight loss programs, healthy eating habits, that is all.

    There are plenty of people here who know about these things. Is there a particular area you are having trouble with? What have you tried so far?
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