Contact After a First Date

I wouldn't wait any longer than 48 hours. If it were me and I'd had a wonderful time and wanted to see the guy again, I'd be sitting around waiting for a text straight away haha. Each woman is different though

If I went on a first date and had a great time, I would deffo text or call within 24 hours. Hope this is what you wanna hear?

Ok first I would say that age would play a factor and also where you were raised to be honest

I am from the South raised in a southern family and in my 30's I am recently married but I wasn't that long ago I was dating lol...and it would normally be about two days...even if a boy called when I was a teenager my mother wouldn't let me talk to them for a couple of days didn't want to seem desperate lol

Other side of the token I have a 17 year old sister raised the same way and they are texting within hours or if not the next day via fb/skype etc. they don't actually appear to ever talk on the phone more on the computer lol

I can say my husband called me the next morning after our 1st date and I loved that he couldn't wait to talk to me lol

Young guys are stupid and will often take advice from his friends to wait a few days.

Older guys are more secure in themselves and will call you the next day if they want a second date.

If it goes more than 2 days and the guy isn't really young, I assume he's playing the field and I'm not high on his list.

(I'm a girl btw-don't let the avatar fool you.)

Young guys are stupid and will often take advice from his friends to wait a few days.

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You playing hard to get? Im playing walking away.....lmao :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

Guys and girls do the same thing, in my opinion, as far as trying to 'play the field'. I hate to sound stuck up with this stereotype, but the kind of people that use a website like this already have a self-image of themselves (myself included) that is less than great. That being said, we tend to be a little more mature in our selection(s) because we know we aren't going to get that supermodel and all her girlfriends (or the female equivelant) in one week... So, the concensus on this site is going to be the same, again, myself included...

However, I've seen members of the opposite sex playing the same 'wait 3 days' game with a guy that guys play, so it's not exclusive. Truthfully, it's about your personality and what you've got going on. For me (if I were single) you may not hear back from me for a couple days due to my job. Being a Military Working Dog Handler in the Air Force, I work odd hours and crazy shifts. So, if we went out on a Saturday, chances are that I have Sunday to get all my gear ready before going back to work at the butt-crack of dawn Monday morning and I'll be beat after work Monday and Tuesday night. But, come Wednesday, I may see your number in my phone or laying around and think about calling you but will most-likely feel bad about not having called you for 4 days and not want to interrupt your work and risk you blowing up at me while you're at work. I may be overthinking it at this point, but that's where I'm coming from....

Luckily for me, I'm married and don't have to play that game. The game I get to play is listening to her complain when she doesn't get a text or call from me all shift and I have to explain to her we had 4 unannounced alarms, 2 heat casualties, a domestic, a shop-lifting and a child neglect call... Then she says that a text telling her I'm busy and I love her would have been awesome... I can't win for losing! LOL