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I wouldnt worry about it, my bf doesnt know the difference between gold and silver eye shadow and there completely different colours... So they definately dont realise stuff like weight loss.
They notice when things get bigger.. like boobs.
But they dont realise wen things get smaller..

Be patient. It takes time for others to take notice.

Well I'm sure you DO look great, and if it is any consolation, most men don't recognize anything about us, lol. I once cut my long hair shoulder length and got light highlights in my dark brown hair and my own brother didn't notice when I was still living at home!! Twenty pounds is an amazing accomplishment and you have worked hard to get to where you are! Don't let anyone's opinions (or lack of!!) get you down on yourself. Congratulations on your loss!

people who are around you contently are less likely to notice a difference then someone who hasn't seen you in a while. The reason is because they get use to every change and its not a drastic thing. Don't worry about it too much i'm sure you've made a big difference.

i know how you feel. i have lost 19lbs and when i told someone they said oh have you i cant tell. charming.
maybe your boyfriend has noticed but doesnt want to say anything in case he upsets you. i know that sounds weird but maybe he thinks if he says something you will say oh so you think i need to lose weight and be offended.
keep positive people may not comment but you know you have lost it.

Are you wearing loose fitting clothing. If I'm wearing bigger clothes nobody notices at all, but I put on a tighter fitting shirt and all of a sudden my mom thinks I've lost a ton of weight. Also, some people won't comment because they don't want to sound mean or rude commenting on someone's weight. We met with a friend we hadn't seen in awhile and later in the day my husband mentioned a workout program I'm doing and only then did the friend say "Yeah I noticed you looked really good when I saw you, but didn't want to say anything"

I know where your coming from, I have lost 19.5 lbs and I have been told , my complexion is better????? Well if i wanted a better bloody complexion, I just would have popped a face mask on for 5 sodding minutes, rather than exercise and diet for the past 2.5 months!

It's frustrating, but we are talking a guy here My husband took 6 months to notice that I painted the living room -from White to Gold - and only then did someone tell him. Don't take it personally. Sometimes you have to point it out to people... Like "I need to go buy a new pair of jeans, because I've lost enough weight, these are small".

I'm one of those people who never notice weight loss or gain - on anyone unless they lose 100s of lbs. I think it's because I look at them more as a person, than a body, so I don't judge those close to me like that. Maybe you just have such a super dynamic about you that people don't notice because they like to no matter what?

Hang in there!

I have lost almost 40lbs and I don't see a difference (unless I look at before/current pics). Also it takes longer for people to notice who see you regularly. Even though I have lost almost 40lbs, the people who notice are almost always people who haven't seen me in a while.

But has your family EVER noticed weight loss in anyone else in the family? Were you wearing the same clothes as before you lost the weight? I will be VERY surprised if anyone notices my 20 lb weight loss which I expect to achieve this summer.

Post wasn't meant to sound harsh sorry if it does =(

keep your chin up - u will win in the end!