Biggest Turn-Off?

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  • Posts: 1,710 Member
    dick pics: if I haven't asked to see it, you're no better than a flasher.
    abusive: if I see you bullying shop staff or waiters, I don't like you.
    sense of entitlement: I don't owe you a conversation, a date or sex just because you want it. and I don't owe you an explanation as to why not.
    rude about his exes: we all have a lousy ex or two, but bitterness is ugly. openly hating on your exes is childish.
    cheating: if you'd cheat with me then you'd cheat on me.
    odour: either from lack of cleanliness or overuse of scents. fresh sweat is ok though.
    ego & vanity: loving yourself and appreciating your best features is good. to a point.
    lack of compassion: if you think the disadvantaged are not your problem, if you resent your taxes feeding the poor, then we are incompatible on the most basic level.
    bad table manners: i'm not going to judge you for not knowing a fish knife from a steak knife, but I don't want to eat a meal with someone who eats like an animal. yuck.
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    dick pics: if I haven't asked to see it, you're no better than a flasher.
    abusive: if I see you bullying shop staff or waiters, I don't like you.
    sense of entitlement: I don't owe you a conversation, a date or sex just because you want it. and I don't owe you an explanation as to why not.
    rude about his exes: we all have a lousy ex or two, but bitterness is ugly. openly hating on your exes is childish.
    cheating: if you'd cheat with me then you'd cheat on me.
    odour: either from lack of cleanliness or overuse of scents. fresh sweat is ok though.
    ego & vanity: loving yourself and appreciating your best features is good. to a point.
    lack of compassion: if you think the disadvantaged are not your problem, if you resent your taxes feeding the poor, then we are incompatible on the most basic level.
    bad table manners: i'm not going to judge you for not knowing a fish knife from a steak knife, but I don't want to eat a meal with someone who eats like an animal. yuck.

    Well @leut_underpants there goes your ticket
  • Posts: 1,180 Member
    salembambi wrote: »
    arrogance
    misogyny/internalized misogyny
    biphobia
    saying dumbshit about veganisim
    abusive in anyway
    jealousy
    cop hair
    liking golf
    voted for Harper in last election

    i could go on

    Ha-ha cop hair is def a no go :D
  • Posts: 41,865 Member
    granny panties
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  • Posts: 5,039 Member

    you're probably right, however, on a positive note, that means that 10% of people are special when you find them eh? good thoughts equal good things :)

    Or forever alone but whatever works :)
  • Posts: 1,710 Member
    I actually did really well with this list. Oddly.
    were I not so frigid and antisocial, I would take this opportunity to flirt. nice torso though.
  • Posts: 1,710 Member
    edited July 2015
    Eh, I've got a son who is both of those things, I get it. Thank you for your clinical observation, I'll consider myself flattered. :flowerforyou:
    oh, it wasn't clinical. I was letching. in a non-flirtatious way.
  • Posts: 5,039 Member
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    Non_Stop wrote: »
    Complaining...what the hell is that going to so for you?

    Either do something about it or let it go, but don't just sit there taking about it.

  • Posts: 377 Member
    Besides cheaters and abusers?

    Men who want kids (I'm childfree by choice, so that's why it's a turnoff), men that want you to call them "daddy" in bed (I'm not into that. Sorry), men who have pregnancy fetishes, misogynists, far left or right wingers, overweight (tried it once. Never again. Call me shallow, but whatever), too hairy, and someone who doesn't groom their feet.
  • Posts: 1,710 Member
    men that want you to call them "daddy" in bed, too hairy.
    I quite like both of those!
  • Posts: 573 Member
    Besides cheaters and abusers?

    Men who want kids (I'm childfree by choice, so that's why it's a turnoff), men that want you to call them "daddy" in bed (I'm not into that. Sorry), men who have pregnancy fetishes, misogynists, far left or right wingers, overweight (tried it once. Never again. Call me shallow, but whatever), too hairy, and someone who doesn't groom their feet.

    I have never in my life understood the whole 'who's your daddy/call me daddy' thing, surely if there is one thing you don't want in your sex life it is the thought of parents. Never heard of a woman saying 'Call me mummy' either.
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    Lying
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    Men that talk about their penis size constantly you should be glad it works.
  • Posts: 1,710 Member

    You really need clarification here. Either you like both of those things, or you like both of those answers. :laugh:
    good point.
    I have daddy issues and like chest fur.
  • Posts: 5,039 Member
    realtors - hate them

    So you just hate people that sell you things that you don't need and/or are trying to rip you off desperately
  • Posts: 526 Member
    Doing exactly the thing you say you hate about others. Real turn off for me
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    eh - just realtors. havent put too much more thought into it than that -

    What if she was hot?
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    Someone who goes out of their way to disrespect others and instigate and create even more drama.

    People with such low self esteem issues they feel the need to pick on others to make themselves feel better

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  • Posts: 573 Member
    Someone who goes out of their way to disrespect others and instigate and create even more drama.

    People with such low self esteem issues they feel the need to pick on others to make themselves feel better

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    Love those quotes.
  • Posts: 377 Member

    I have never in my life understood the whole 'who's your daddy/call me daddy' thing, surely if there is one thing you don't want in your sex life it is the thought of parents. Never heard of a woman saying 'Call me mummy' either.

    Ikr!? It's just so gross!
  • Posts: 876 Member

    Ikr!? It's just so gross!

    I agree & so are rape fantasies, why'd someone even desire to be a pretend victim?
  • Posts: 10,177 Member
    Rape fantasies???!!! WHAT??? What kind of sick freak has those?
  • Posts: 2,128 Member
    dudes...dudes turn me off!
  • Posts: 377 Member

    I agree & so are rape fantasies, why'd someone even desire to be a pretend victim?

    Beats me. It's pretty horrific.
  • Posts: 3,529 Member
    edited July 2015
    Stupidity, ignorance, hypocrites, laziness, closed-mindedness, no sense of humor, and no sex drive.

  • Posts: 1,572 Member
    If he smokes cigarettes!
  • Posts: 857 Member
    edited July 2015
    sixxpoint wrote: »
    Stupidity, ignorance, hypocrites, laziness, closed-mindedness, no sense of humor, and no sex drive.
    We are all ignorant about some things. If ignorance is a turn-off, how is it that you escape the same critic as you place on others? Ignorance does not equate to laziness.
  • Posts: 3,529 Member
    edited July 2015
    We are all ignorant about some things. If ignorance is a turn-off, how is it that you escape the same critic as you place on others? Ignorance does not equate to laziness.

    Explain, philosopher.

    Ignorance with no intention of ever learning otherwise is what I was talking about.

    Ignorance with the total unwillingness to ever change is a whole other thing... which is the true heart of the term.
  • Posts: 857 Member
    sixxpoint wrote: »

    Explain, philosopher.

    For the sake of discussion, I am going to say that you are not a Neurosurgeon. As such, that makes you ignorant of the medical terminology used, as well as the mental and physical ability needed to perform the required tasks as said doctor. Being ignorant of the aforementioned does not necessarily mean that you are lazy or incapable of becoming a Neurosurgeon. It simply means that you are not cognitively and physically versed in the subject at hand.

    If a person is ignorant about certain aspects of his or his profession or hobby, and said ignorance is based on the fact that the person in question is ignorant due laziness, the ignorance is not good.

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