Goal reached, but it doesn't feel like enough =/

Congratulations! I went through the same thing (and my stats are very similar to yours, although my son is your age). I hit my weight and even my measurements, but I looked flabby - especially around my belly.

It's been 3 years and that's all gone. Remember - weight is a real physical thing. Think of a pound of butter - that's a pound of fat. It is physically no longer under your skin! There's space there. It needs to tighten up. Exercise will help. I didn't even exercise hard - I just bought a pedometer and started doing serious walking. It will happen faster if you work harder.

When I hit my goal it did take me a month or two to up my calories - I had been losing very slowly by that point. Then I upped it by 250. My weight stayed stable, I was happy, and I kept it there a year. Then I suddenly started losing again and upped it the rest of the way.

But that's wonderful you made it! You will never regret it.

Bathtub badger - consider doing some lifting as 115Everest suggests! This will dramatically change your body shape. I didn't start lifting until my mid-30's. What I wouldn't give to go back to my 20's and lift weights! Message me for more info - and CONGRATS!!!

Head on over and read this thread: http://community.myfitnesspal.com/en/discussion/10177803/recomposition-maintaining-weight-while-losing-fat/p1

Congrats!
We're super similar in stats! I'm 23, 178 cm and 66 kg. So I'm pretty sure you are probably at a good weight now

Everyone has body confidence issues. For me it took a lot of effort to increase my weight to where I am now, and while that still is an accomplishment, I sometimes too look in the mirror and will dislike my belly or whatever body part. (Which is kinda weird since when my weight was lower and my belly was flatter I wasn't feeling good either)
A friend of mine who battled with an eating disorder taught me to celebrate all the good things my body allows me. It allows me to breath, eat, walk, talk, be alive. Be proud of your body and its ability to reach the goal you had set. Be happy with your body because it allows you to live.

Take some time to come to terms with this change from diet to maintenance. (It probably also took you time to start your weightloss journey.)
I've heared some people say that your body (and especially your skin) might still change and tighten up, up to a year after reaching maintenance. (Don't quote me on this, just repeating what I think someoene else wrote). Give yourself some time to accept your new body.

If after this you are still unhappy or looking to get visible abs, I do totally recommend reading the recomposition thread already linked above.
It will take time and determination to do this, but perhaps a new goal will help you.

great job on the weight loss now tone it up.

CONGRATS!

Unfortunately it takes a little while for the brain to 'catch up' to the new physique.

What helped me was shifting my focus from losing weight to a fitness oriented goal. ie. muscle definition For a period of time I also only weigh myself once or twice a month to help foster a different mindset.

I just had my 2 yr wt loss maint anniversary with zero regain ( ) and only recently have I come to the point where I can weigh myself frequently and not be bothered by the daily flux.

So think on changing the mindset by distracting it with other goals.

Good luck!

I didn't read previous responses so I'm sure this has been said but lift heavy. Start a beginners lifting program to reshape your body into something you're more impressed with.