Frustrated: counting cals vs low carb?

kimber0607
kimber0607 Posts: 994 Member
edited November 23 in Food and Nutrition
Hi all

Could use some advice.

I initially came her a few years ago, and shed some weight counting cals
Im 5'8 and started with 1600 cal goal.... (got to goal of 129) and increased my cals to 1800 to maintain.
I didnt feel hungry making the right choices etc but got sick of counting cals so decided to try low carb and no cal counting. It worked for a while.
I eat clean....pretty much white meats, nuts, lots of veggies, eggs, fish...dont count any cals (but of course moderation)

Well i dont know the exact time frame but im now at 138
Not going to jump off the nearest bridge over it..but afraid the eight will continue to creep up
Its a little disheartening to have my clothes get tighter or not fit :(

I decided to try my 1600 cal again and counting cals and i am having a ridiculous time.
I feel i am picking good options but just feel so strapped...I dont know how those eating less than 1600 do it

any advice?
Thanks much, Kim

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  • ladymiseryali
    ladymiseryali Posts: 2,555 Member
    You should probably count calories again, while still doing low carb if that's how you want to eat. I can't not count calories while eating low carb. It's so easy to overeat on veggies. I also measure everything with a food scale because meats can add up if you don't know visually what a serving size is.
  • kimber0607
    kimber0607 Posts: 994 Member
    Thanks for the response..I know that makes a lot of sense.
    I guess i just wanted to be free from the counting and measuring..but it is what it is
    Taking a lot of summer trips with the kids..so it gets tough but not impossible..

    (Im also from the NE!!!)
    :)

    Kim
  • FitPhillygirl
    FitPhillygirl Posts: 7,124 Member
    edited August 2015
    Are you weighing your foods or just eyeballing them for calorie count? If not weighing, you could be taking in more calories everyday than you realize. This would put you in a calorie surplus instead of a deficit needed to lose weight.
  • zoeysasha37
    zoeysasha37 Posts: 7,088 Member
    Just because someone eats low carb doesn't always mean they are eating low calories.
    If you like low carb , go for it. Its not necessary but its your personal choice .
    Its going to come down to calories. If you eat above maintenance, then you will be at a surplus and gain. If you eat at Maintenance, you'll maintain and if you eat at a deficit ,you lose weight. So it comes down to overall calories.
    If you want to do low carb, then I'd still count calories. If you don't like low carb, then just count calories.
  • cwolfman13
    cwolfman13 Posts: 41,865 Member
    all diets work on the same premises...you have to have an energy deficiency to lose weight...low carb is one of many ways people achieve this...beyond that, there's no magic. carbs don't make you fat...most of the world has lived off of a high carbohydrate diet for the vast majority of human existence.
  • AlabasterVerve
    AlabasterVerve Posts: 3,171 Member
    I stopped snacking and eating between meals. I can't eat all day long or whenever the urge to eat occurs and still maintain my weight even with low carb. The good thing is I don't need or want to snack anymore but with so much food always available it's pretty easy to fall back into the habit so I'm mindful of how many times a day I eat -- I can't just focus on what I'm eating and maintain (unless I want to count calories).
  • Ang108
    Ang108 Posts: 1,711 Member
    kimber0607 wrote: »
    Hi all

    Could use some advice.

    I initially came her a few years ago, and shed some weight counting cals
    Im 5'8 and started with 1600 cal goal.... (got to goal of 129) and increased my cals to 1800 to maintain.
    I didnt feel hungry making the right choices etc but got sick of counting cals so decided to try low carb and no cal counting. It worked for a while.
    I eat clean....pretty much white meats, nuts, lots of veggies, eggs, fish...dont count any cals (but of course moderation)

    Well i dont know the exact time frame but im now at 138
    Not going to jump off the nearest bridge over it..but afraid the eight will continue to creep up
    Its a little disheartening to have my clothes get tighter or not fit :(

    I decided to try my 1600 cal again and counting cals and i am having a ridiculous time.
    I feel i am picking good options but just feel so strapped...I dont know how those eating less than 1600 do it

    any advice?
    Thanks much, Kim

    You can't compare counting cals to low carb. It's like comparing apples and oranges. One is a weight loss method and the other is a dietary lifestyle choice that deals with general nutrition and health, but not with weight loss.
    If you want to lose you have to eat at some deficit and knowing how much to eat means counting calories, which may include eating low carb.
    I eat 1200 calories a day ( age and height are determining factors) and eat a lot at meal time, because I don't snack and eat lots of natural foods. I can't even imagine anymore what 1600 calories look like. Of course if you are young, tall and active it is difficult with 1600 calories.

  • kimber0607
    kimber0607 Posts: 994 Member
    Thanks so much for all the great advice
    OMG 1200 cals..I would faint! LOL
    Im curious what your 3 meals look like?
    I know for me (5'8, 42 mother of two kids) I can shed the weight on 1600 cals if i just start making a good plan and counting cals again
    I actually lost the weight a few years ago though, so I wonder how my advanced age now play into that..great!
    kim
  • Francl27
    Francl27 Posts: 26,371 Member
    The only thing that matters is to eat less calories than you burn. That's it. Low carb is a way to get there. I personally find it unnecessary.

    I've never eaten under 1650 personally. Just can't do it. I honestly assume that people who eat 1200 are either eating back exercise calories, or underestimating their food and really eating 1600. Just can't imagine eating 1200 (obviously I'm 5'5" and 37, maybe if I was 60 yo or something it wouldn't sound crazy).

    Anyway, 1600 should be perfectly fine. You don't have to change your diet if you're fine with it, but log everything you eat to get your portions under control (you probably have to eat less nuts).
  • keelybird57
    keelybird57 Posts: 63 Member
    Advanced age - Hahaha! My experience is that the weight came off in proportion equal to effort until I turned 50. Now I have to work for every pound.
  • kimber0607
    kimber0607 Posts: 994 Member
    YES I know thought nuts are healthy and a great source of protein they are HIGH in cals...I love my nuts!
    BUT plan to cut back
    Its also easy to eat alot!
    Thanks again all!
    Wish me luck..would like to shed these 10 by Xmas...think reasonable.
    Kim
  • kimber0607
    kimber0607 Posts: 994 Member
    Advanced age - Hahaha! My experience is that the weight came off in proportion equal to effort until I turned 50. Now I have to work for every pound.

    GOOD
    LOL
    hope i have more time to eat!
  • umayster
    umayster Posts: 651 Member
    What does your diary tell you? Nuts, oils, mayo & dressings and beverages may be places you have some extra calories you could cut without feeling the loss of food volume?
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  • kimber0607
    kimber0607 Posts: 994 Member
    shell1005 wrote: »
    Part of my maintenance plan is logging my food. I know that if I want the best chance to not be losing this weight again....I need to count and log. I can see it as a burden, but instead I see it as knowledge and a blessing. I think knowing what I am eating is only going to do and bring good things for me. I also realize that while I can get in a funk every once in a while and say logging is so time consuming, but it isn't. It takes me about 2 minutes to log my food each day.

    U are right!
    Its not a big deal and the rewards def out weigh any risks/inconveniences
    If i did that since maintenance I wouldnt be back here trying to shed these damn 10 pounds!!
  • JoRocka
    JoRocka Posts: 17,525 Member
    kimber0607 wrote: »
    Thanks for the response..I know that makes a lot of sense.
    I guess i just wanted to be free from the counting and measuring..but it is what it is
    Taking a lot of summer trips with the kids..so it gets tough but not impossible..

    (Im also from the NE!!!)
    :)

    Kim


    you can eyeball and count quiet a bit if you've been doing it for a while.

    I track- but I don't use my scale for every piece of food that crosses my lips.

    The more interested I am in hitting a goal- the more aggressive I get with using my food scale and tightening up the calorie counting.

    it doesn't have to be a big burden- hell doing my time sheet at work every week or every other week is significantly MORE of a burden.
  • Kalikel
    Kalikel Posts: 9,603 Member
    Do something different this time so that whatever happened last time doesn't happen again.
  • catbhn21
    catbhn21 Posts: 24 Member
    Logging makes you more mindful. I think you could maintain without calorie counting (and it is a pain when you're eating lots of homemade meals because you can't exactly scan the bar code on your kale) BUT the big problem is that when you aren't logging, it's easy to slip into bad habits, especially with portion control. I wish there were an easier solution too...

    You've done it once though, so you know you can. Use that as motivation, not "omg, not again, ugggh"
  • Kexessa
    Kexessa Posts: 346 Member
    Are you eating a lot of cheese? I have 2 friends, one who was trying low carb and one who decided to be vegetarian out of the blue. But for some reason they both felt like cheese was an unlimited food. Depending on serving size, cheese can have a lot of calories you don't think about.
  • leggup
    leggup Posts: 2,942 Member
    If you're having trouble eating 1,600 because it's so low, you could try a more mild deficit like 1700 calories. Or you could try eating maintenance and adding more exercise.
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  • kimber0607
    kimber0607 Posts: 994 Member
    Thanks again all for the support and suggestion
    and im not a big cheese fan..maybe one string cheese per day

    thanks
  • SherryTeach
    SherryTeach Posts: 2,836 Member
    Francl27 wrote: »
    The only thing that matters is to eat less calories than you burn. That's it. Low carb is a way to get there. I personally find it unnecessary.

    I've never eaten under 1650 personally. Just can't do it. I honestly assume that people who eat 1200 are either eating back exercise calories, or underestimating their food and really eating 1600. Just can't imagine eating 1200 (obviously I'm 5'5" and 37, maybe if I was 60 yo or something it wouldn't sound crazy).

    Anyway, 1600 should be perfectly fine. You don't have to change your diet if you're fine with it, but log everything you eat to get your portions under control (you probably have to eat less nuts).


    Right. I'm 60 years old, 5'1", and 105 pounds. 1200 calories is perfectly manageable. I'm not eating back calories unless I have a big burn, or underestimating.
  • sunkissmarie
    sunkissmarie Posts: 18 Member
    1609 sounds fine, u may be getting to much fat. Also there is no point in restricting carbs.
  • mantium999
    mantium999 Posts: 1,490 Member
    1609 sounds fine, u may be getting to much fat. Also there is no point in restricting carbs.

    Where did you come up with too much fat? I don't see where the OP listed her macro percentages. OP, hit your protein and fat minimums, and fill in the rest with carbs, such that you remain in a manageable caloric deficit (10-20% below TDEE), and you will happily lose weight.
  • ladymiseryali
    ladymiseryali Posts: 2,555 Member
    1609 sounds fine, u may be getting to much fat. Also there is no point in restricting carbs.

    You have an interesting habit of coming on low carb topics and trying to dissuade others from doing it. What's your issue?
  • Traveler120
    Traveler120 Posts: 712 Member
    kimber0607 wrote: »
    I decided to try my 1600 cal again and counting cals and i am having a ridiculous time.
    I feel i am picking good options but just feel so strapped...I dont know how those eating less than 1600 do it
    any advice?
    If you're struggling to eat 1600 because it's not filling enough, try cutting back on nuts or added oils, and replacing those calories with brown rice, potatoes, beans, lentils etc which are more filling. Or simply eat the 1800 you were comfortable with but increase your exercise volume or intensity in order to create the calorie deficit you need for weight loss.

    That's my personal preference. I eat 1700 and keep fats very low, then get my deficit from exercise.

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