Not happy when I look into the mirror

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Hello lovely MFPers,

I want to lose weight and get into shape because I'm not happy with how I look. It affects me because I don't feel good about myself and when I go to see family or friends that I haven't seen in a while I fear what they will think when they see I put on even more weight.

In 366 days (from today actually, I forgot that 2016 is a leap year when I signed up yesterday) I'm getting married to the most wonderful person in the world. It's going to be one of the best days of my life and I want to look the part!

I'm going swimming on a regular basis and also want to hit the gym regularly to get in shape.

I would love some support and friendship so please feel free to say hi and add me!

I'm 27, live in the UK and want to loose about 10kg.

Love,

366days

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  • Aaron949
    Aaron949 Posts: 86 Member
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    Good luck on your journey! Feel free to add me as a friend for support.
  • KLangleydoula
    KLangleydoula Posts: 1,494 Member
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    Hello! How exciting that you are getting married. You can do this, I am down 86 pounds with the help of MFP! Feel free to add me!
  • 366days
    366days Posts: 3 Member
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    Thank you :)
  • charleygirl0418
    charleygirl0418 Posts: 8 Member
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    I can relate. I would love to help and also have the help staying motivated.
  • disneyfan85
    disneyfan85 Posts: 8 Member
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    That's really not that much weight at all. You can do it! I know what it's like looking in the mirror and not liking what you see. I have the same issues with friends and such. It's started affecting my relationship as well. That's why I'm trying so hard.
  • denniscrocker72
    denniscrocker72 Posts: 12 Member
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    One day at a time, you can do it!
  • Renzi27
    Renzi27 Posts: 30 Member
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    I feel the same way - I'm avoiding social gatherings because I don't want people to look at me and go "wow she got fat" so I just don't go. I want to be "free" again to socialize and talk to people without being self-conscious. Congrats on getting married! How exciting! :smiley: