Losing Hope

schmittou731
schmittou731 Posts: 2 Member
edited November 23 in Health and Weight Loss
I work out 2-3 a week more if I can, try to eat somewhat healthy and watch my calories, but I seem to be gaining weight. Feeling very defeated at this time.

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  • WBB55
    WBB55 Posts: 4,131 Member
    Weigh your food and log everything you eat. "Trying" to watch calories won't give you the same results as actually tracking them accurately. Do you have a digital scale to weigh food with?
  • markymarrkk
    markymarrkk Posts: 495 Member
    What she said ^ Are you actually tracking your food intake or just estimating? And what do your workouts look like? How many calories do you burn at each workout?
  • malibu927
    malibu927 Posts: 17,562 Member
    Start logging accurately. This means logging everything that goes into your mouth, using a food scale to weigh and determine your serving size. If you eat your exercise calories back, try to do no more than half of them.
  • mbcieslak87
    mbcieslak87 Posts: 206 Member
    Yes, a digital scale can make all the difference in the world! And luckily they're very cheap - 15 -20 dollars at my local grocery store, I know.

    Don't lose hope just make adjustments until something works and do your research - are the methods you "think" are "healthy" actually backed by scientific proof? And also, be super honest with yourself - it's easy to be say 'oh that little bite doesn't matter', but when you're trying to create a deficit, it does matter... especially if it's something calorie dense.

    Defeatism never got anyone anywhere...
  • Coolhandkid
    Coolhandkid Posts: 84 Member
    Once you can actually document what you are eating and track its impact on your hunger and vitality it becomes clear how to succeed. This community has found success documenting everything you eat/drink. Coming here saying you haven't done what has brought so many people success means you have taken a half measure. You want to lose weight but are not committing to it.

    Commit. Buy a kitchen scale. Track everything you eat. Track your workouts. You WILL have success.
  • teamnevergoingback
    teamnevergoingback Posts: 368 Member
    edited August 2015
    It sounds like you're just getting started trying with the food issue, so don't beat yourself up.. just TRY! You need to log EVERYTHING from that tsp of mustard to that handful of doritos. You can do this, it takes work my friend :)
  • escalada22
    escalada22 Posts: 191 Member
    One of the most important things you can do is LOG EVERYTHING. It can be very surprising just how many calories are in something.

    Also, keep in mind that just because the scale is not moving does NOT mean you are not losing inches!!!
  • 50andfabu
    50andfabu Posts: 112 Member
    What everyone says is true. You can't guess or estimate calories. And you can't think "oh, I didn't eat that much" because a few hundred calories can add up quickly and it makes a difference.

    It doesn't mean you can't eat or eat some of your favourite foods, but you have to weigh your food and track the calories. It is really the only way to do it and until I accepted that I didn't get anywhere. (I still have a ways to go, but I have started!)
  • jgnatca
    jgnatca Posts: 14,464 Member
    Besides the weight, have you started to notice any benefits from the exercise? Are you stronger? Can you do things today that you couldn't do when you started?
  • Shadow_quinn
    Shadow_quinn Posts: 5 Member
    Okay So Im JUST starting out, literally only 2 days in, but i was going to go the count calories track...but im seeing a lot of input about weighing food. Which is better? Or should they both be used? Maybe a good example of your normal food prep?
  • jgnatca
    jgnatca Posts: 14,464 Member
    Okay So Im JUST starting out, literally only 2 days in, but i was going to go the count calories track...but im seeing a lot of input about weighing food. Which is better? Or should they both be used? Maybe a good example of your normal food prep?

    I think calorie counting is the same as weighing your food. Instead of selecting an eyeball measurement (1 cup, 1/2 cup), use the scale and pick the measure. For instance if the food shows calories in grams, enter the number of grams you ate.
  • GillianLF
    GillianLF Posts: 410 Member
    Last year I worked out a LOT. I ended up only losing 2 kilos but lost a lot of inches. Its not always just about the scales.
  • janejellyroll
    janejellyroll Posts: 25,763 Member
    Okay So Im JUST starting out, literally only 2 days in, but i was going to go the count calories track...but im seeing a lot of input about weighing food. Which is better? Or should they both be used? Maybe a good example of your normal food prep?

    Weighing food is just a way to ensure your calorie counts are accurate. For example, instead of putting 1/2 of beans, you would weigh the beans and enter that as your serving size. If you eat a banana, instead of entering "1 banana," you would enter the weight in grams. For accuracy, all solid foods should be weighed.
  • Kalikel
    Kalikel Posts: 9,603 Member
    Do you want to quit?
  • blankiefinder
    blankiefinder Posts: 3,599 Member
    Buy a food scale, weigh and log everything.

    Do cardio if you want, and if you do, only eat back 50% of your calories (if you are losing faster than expected after logging for a few weeks, then up the % you eat back). Lift weights and hit your protein goal to help maintain muscle mass while losing.

    Cheat meals that take you over maintenance will sabotage your efforts. Log the cheat meals too (falls under the 'log everything' rule).

    Eat anything you want in moderation, keeping in mind that your diet will be easier to stick with if you chose foods that make it easier to stay under your calories without feeling hungry.

    Also it would be a good idea to read some of the best forum posts such as:
    Calorie Counting 101
    Logging Accuracy, Consistency, & You're Probably Eating More Than You Think
    A Guide To Get You Started on Your Path To Sexy Pants
  • malibu927
    malibu927 Posts: 17,562 Member
    Okay So Im JUST starting out, literally only 2 days in, but i was going to go the count calories track...but im seeing a lot of input about weighing food. Which is better? Or should they both be used? Maybe a good example of your normal food prep?

    Weighing your food helps you calories accurately
  • Packerjohn
    Packerjohn Posts: 4,855 Member
    I work out 2-3 a week more if I can, try to eat somewhat healthy and watch my calories, but I seem to be gaining weight. Feeling very defeated at this time.

    "Do or do not, there is no try" - Yoda.
  • mbaker566
    mbaker566 Posts: 11,233 Member
    you weigh your food so you can count the calories.
    I make all my food for the day, weigh each ingredient individually. input as I eat because sometimes I deviate from the plan.
  • peleroja
    peleroja Posts: 3,979 Member
    Okay So Im JUST starting out, literally only 2 days in, but i was going to go the count calories track...but im seeing a lot of input about weighing food. Which is better? Or should they both be used? Maybe a good example of your normal food prep?

    Weighing food is just a way to ensure your calorie counts are accurate. For example, instead of putting 1/2 of beans, you would weigh the beans and enter that as your serving size. If you eat a banana, instead of entering "1 banana," you would enter the weight in grams. For accuracy, all solid foods should be weighed.

    This. Weighing and measuring your food accurately is the best way to count your calories.

    Food scales are inexpensive and easy to find. Once you have one, counting calories is easy, especially with My Fitness Pal. Weigh all your solid food, measure all your liquids (including beverages, cooking oils, and condiments), log and track it in the calorie counter, and stay under your daily goal, and it makes losing weight into arithmetic. It's really that simple if you log as accurately as possible and don't overestimate your exercise.
  • 999tigger
    999tigger Posts: 5,235 Member
    They all said it, you need to be accurately at deficit.
  • farfromthetree
    farfromthetree Posts: 982 Member
    Read this link and all of the blue links in the middle. If you really want to do this, and this works, you have to invest time, and research. This is a great place to begin:
    http://community.myfitnesspal.com/en/discussion/1080242/a-guide-to-get-you-started-on-your-path-to-sexypants/p1
  • slambago
    slambago Posts: 1 Member
    I work out 2-3 a week more if I can, try to eat somewhat healthy and watch my calories, but I seem to be gaining weight. Feeling very defeated at this time.

    Here's what works for me in my life, try it and see if it works for you:
    Don't work out X days per week. Instead, work out a little bit every single day, even if only a few minutes. Try to develop DAILY habits, not x times/week habits. Do this in all areas of your life, develop daily habits and become a habit-minding person. Then, just one step at a time, build on your successes and push yourself a little more. Don't punish yourself for failure. Instead, always try to see simply following modest daily habits as a massive, epic success. Reward yourself for doing so, but never with food or with drinks that have calories. Instead, find other ways to reward yourself, like verbally rewarding yourself by thinking things like "YEAH! I am awesome! I am becoming the person I want to be, it's really happening right in front of my eyes! I followed my daily habits for 10 days in a row! Calling all negative thoughts: Shut up and let me enjoy this moment!" One of my new habits is logging everything I eat in MyFitnessPal diary, it's working well for me.

    (Note that I still agree off days are important for recovery, so I do very light and relatively brief exercise on off days -- but I still keep the daily exercise habit.)

    Human beings can become incredibly strong, mentally and physically, by improving just one tiny step day by day, and you can too! I don't even know you, but I genuinely admire that you went to the trouble of posting on the forum when things got difficult, instead of simply giving up without a fight!
  • Sewilban
    Sewilban Posts: 43 Member
    edited August 2015
    In addition to weighing solid food and accurately/honestly tracking nutrition (not just calories), my advice is to pay attention to the ingredients in the food you're eating. Unless it's a natural food (fruit, veggies, nuts), it could be loaded with sugar, which at the end of the day is the biggest opponent to losing weight. The WHO recommends no more than 30g of sugar in a day (fyi: there's 30g sugar in one small bag of M&Ms) because excess fructose intake causes visceral fat cells to rapidly mature - which is directly tied to belly fat.

    The bad news: sugar is hiding in most processed/packaged products and it goes by many names. The food industry's marketing experts have done a fantastic job of posing "raw cane sugar" and other healthy-sounding names as "good" sugars, but truth be told, sugar is sugar is sugar. With the exception of sugar found in fruits and vegetables (which have the adequate amount of fiber needed to aid in digestion and prevent the sugar from turning into insulin), there is no such thing as good sugar. Be on the lookout for these ingredients on food packages before you eat what's inside:
    • barley malt
    • beet sugar
    • molasses
    • brown rice syrup
    • brown sugar
    • cane juice
    • caramel
    • carob syrup
    • castor sugar
    • crystaline fructose
    • date sugar
    • demerera sugar
    • dextran
    • diastatic malt
    • diataste
    • ethyl maltol
    • evaporated cane juice
    • fructose
    • galactose
    • glucose
    • maltodextrin
    • muscovado sugar
    • panela
    • sorghum
    • sucrose
    • treacle

    This is by no means a comprehensive list, but you get the idea. Pretty much be wary of anything ending in "-ose" and a good rule of thumb that I follow is if you can't pronounce it, don't eat it. There's a really great documentary called "Fed Up" with Katie Couric that delves into a lot more detail than I can on this forum - it's available for streaming on Netflix or for purchase on Amazon Instant Video.

    I know it sounds kind of daunting to think of cutting back on sugar, but I started slowly cutting back about a year ago and have seen a drastic improvement since: lost waist inches, lost pounds, and increased my run pace. And by no means do I eat fewer calories, just less sugar. If it helps, here's a real-world idea of how you can eat a low-sugar diet without cutting back on food in general (my personal food log from yesterday): two cups of black coffee + two eggs + 85g apple-chicken sausage link + 1 tbsp butter for breakfast; banana for mid-morning snack; 4-oz chicken breast + 2 tbsp bbq sauce + 8-oz sweet potato + salad with tomatoes, onions, cucumbers, 1/4 avocado, 1/8-cup crumbled pecans, 1 tbsp olive oil, and a squeeze of lemon juice with salt for lunch; 2 cups "Heavenly Light Popcorn" for mid-afternoon snack; jalapeno kielbasa + baked tomatoes, mushrooms, and red onion with 1 tbsp basil-infused olive oil + 5-oz glass of wine for dinner. All of that comes to 40g sugar, but if you take out the sugar that came from fruits and veggies, that's only 14g sugar that came from processed foods.

    Anyway, I know that's probably a lot more info than you were looking for, but hope it helps!

    (Oh, one more thing! Water is key - aim to drink half of your body weight in ounces of water every day; i.e. 150lbs = 75oz.)
  • janejellyroll
    janejellyroll Posts: 25,763 Member
    Sewilban wrote: »
    Unless it's a natural food (fruit, veggies, nuts), it could be loaded with sugar, which at the end of the day is the biggest opponent to losing weight.

    The biggest opponent to losing weight is not eating at a deficit. If cutting added sugar introduces a deficit, then it will result in weight loss. But if one is eating at a deficit, added sugar will not prevent one from losing weight.

  • urloved33
    urloved33 Posts: 3,323 Member
    Where there is breath there is always hope
  • schmittou731
    schmittou731 Posts: 2 Member
    Thank you to everyone, I only log my food on here but its just a guess. I will get a scale this weekend and starting weighing my food. I find that I eat more when I am at home sitting around. I stay busy at work but sit behind a desk all day. I want to make changes in everything I do. Before I wouldn't even reach the 1200 calories but seems like since I have been trying to reach the goal is when I have seen the weight gain. As far as my workouts I will do about 30 min cardio then strength training alternating between my arms and legs. I will not give up and keep fighting. Thank You
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