How do you all stay motivated?!

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  • Tisha247
    Tisha247 Posts: 849 Member
    I am using a booked holiday in December as motivation. Everyday I focus on that holiday, I imagine how amazing I'll look and feel when I get to my goal weight.
  • chunkytfg
    chunkytfg Posts: 339 Member
    My motivation comes from having multiple goals that are a mix of simple to achieve through to ones which take alot of work.

    My current simple goal is 95kg

    Slightly harder goal is sub4 hour marathon in 4 weeks

    longterm goals are

    90kg
    sub 20 min 5K
    sub 42 min 10k
    sub 100 min half marathon

    Once I make the simple goal the 90kg goal gets moved up a category and I carry on
  • PinkPixiexox
    PinkPixiexox Posts: 4,142 Member
    This is important to be so motivation just.. Happens, I guess.
    I don't want to be overweight and unhealthy. I want to be proud of myself and my achievements. For me, that's enough to keep me going :)
  • starling01
    starling01 Posts: 81 Member
    Motivation: At 63, my motivation has changed dramatically from what it would have been 30 years ago. For example, I really don't care how I look anymore, I'm just too old. These keep me going, though.

    Health: Cholesterol too high. Trying to get it down and keep it that way using diet and exercise

    Food: I'd like to be able to eat somewhat like a normal person instead of weighing every bite and living on water, baked chicken breasts and spinach for the rest of my life. I had a high calorie pumpkin spice latte this morning, something I could not have without exercise. Exercise gives me some extra calories.

    My Dog: She has to be walked whether or not I feel like it. She needs her walk and loves her walk and I love her - I can't indulge in "I don't wanna". As long as we're out there, we may as well run until I'm gasping and she's dragging behind me. It's good for both of us, and it's not negotiable. Sometimes motivation is what you have to do instead of what you'd like to do.
  • SeanNJ
    SeanNJ Posts: 153 Member
    I think motivation is overrated. You certainly need it to start, but once new habits form, it's just "life." None of it seems out of the ordinary anymore.
  • pondee629
    pondee629 Posts: 2,469 Member
    Patttience wrote: »
    Learn to enjoy the process. Enjoy yoru diet. If you are not enjoying it, then you need to tweak your methods and by that i do not mean eat more crap. I mean improve the quality of the food you are eating and eat enough.

    Second, the way i keep myself motivated apart from thsi is by being committed to the idea that i do not want to be fat ever again. So far so good. I believe this will work as it has for hte last 20 months.

    This pretty much says it. It's not motivation, it is my new way of living. I no longer eat whatever I want. It now all has to fit into my (calorie) budget. My wife will sometimes chastize me about logging in during dinner out. "I'm just checking to see if I can afford dessert" I reply. Instead of money controling what I eat, it's calories. Works for me ;-) Gonna need to buy new (smaller) suits.
  • sakurablush
    sakurablush Posts: 104 Member
    I'm just over half way losing the weight I want to lose now (between 20-35 ibs to go).

    To be honest I don't even focus on the weight loss anymore. Aside from pre-logging into MFP and making a mental note to drink water it's just something I do now. i think the trick is once you stop making an effort to lose weight and start focusing on life, friends and accept that new habits are there to stay, it stops bothering you.
  • shadowfax_c11
    shadowfax_c11 Posts: 1,942 Member
    I consider the alternative. Okay I can slowly lose weight or I can slowly get fatter and less able to move and enjoy life. Only 33 pounds lost and I already notice things like,

    My knees don't hurt nearly as much.
    I don't get winded as much.
    My clothes fit better
    I am more comfortable sitting in a booth at a restaurant
    I can get on my horse from the ground again.
    When sensei throws me I can roll out of the fall and onto my feet faster.
    My seatbelt does not have as far to go
    I don't displace as much water in the tub.
    Getting out of the tub is much easier.
    When I bend over to trim a horse I can see past my chest
    When I look down I don't see my belly

    Some days I have no motivation at all. On those days I just do it because not doing it is just not an option anymore. And I do it because after 6 months of doing it, it's just habit.
  • siluridae
    siluridae Posts: 188 Member
    I just look at how fat I am. Squish the rolls a bit. Works like a charm. P:
  • jsmestflowers
    jsmestflowers Posts: 52 Member
    Kids, my children keep me motivated. My little guy the other day sees me on the tread mill and says "Daddy fighting the chub!" All I needed. I am fighting the chub..and the chub is going down! :)
  • MrsCaitlinBeltran
    MrsCaitlinBeltran Posts: 241 Member
    Kids, my children keep me motivated. My little guy the other day sees me on the tread mill and says "Daddy fighting the chub!" All I needed. I am fighting the chub..and the chub is going down! :)

    That's precious--GREAT motivation :)
  • belgerian
    belgerian Posts: 1,059 Member
    I am not always motivated but I go for my run because I know it makes me feel better, and I have been logging everything I eat even if I go over. So I can see the results even if those results are not what I want. I enjoy feeling healthy I like the fact I can go to the water parks with my kids and climb the stairs while caring the tube and not have to rest at every landing like 90 percent of the parents. Or climbing the stairs when we go to the sand dunes. I am tired today I do not feel like going for my run but I am getting out there to do it even if its only for 10 minutes at least I did something. I know I will feel better when I am done.
  • kgeyser
    kgeyser Posts: 22,505 Member
    I focus on something other than the scale. I know that if I stay under my calorie goal, the weight will come off, but if that's all I focus on, I'll make myself crazy. So I set a goal to run a 5k, do a pull-up, etc. A skill I can work on is tangible; with the exception of the energy balance, weight loss is out my control.
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