Do I appear chunky?

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  • arditarose
    arditarose Posts: 15,573 Member
    DopeItUp wrote: »
    Who cares. I like the guitar at least.

    haha I was thinking I didn't like that one. Looks like an Ovation
  • LKArgh
    LKArgh Posts: 5,178 Member
    The real question is how can you play the guitar with long nails in both hands?
  • mperrott2205
    mperrott2205 Posts: 737 Member
    Why aren't people flagging this?
  • oh_happy_day
    oh_happy_day Posts: 1,137 Member
    rphilipp78 wrote: »
    ald783 wrote: »
    Why would you use a pic with a guitar covering most of your body to have people determine whether you're fat or not?

    So odd.

    I took the pic with the guitar because I thought it looked cool, but then I was worried my legs looked too big in it. Idk??

    I'm having flashbacks to my teenage years. OP, you're fine - work on your self-esteem and stop fishing.
  • RuNaRoUnDaFiEld
    RuNaRoUnDaFiEld Posts: 5,864 Member
    People on an internet forum can't give you what your looking for. You are clearly seeking validation that you look great, and you do. But you don't believe that.

    You need to work on developing you as a person to help you with your self esteem. Do some voluntary work or a part time course on something. Looks really don't matter in the grand scheme of life. Find a way to be comfortable and happy in your own skin and head.

    I wish you well.
  • spacelump
    spacelump Posts: 233 Member
    edited September 2015
    No amount of reassurance from anyone will change that you feel insecure with yourself at this point in life. All the compliments in the world didn't add up to me feeling good enough or pretty enough as a young teenager.

    Essentially because insecurity (the kind you seem to be displaying) isn't about looks, rather something much deeper that won't come to you for many of years.

    You're legs look strong, healthy, fully operating. You have them and can use them. They take you places and allow you things in life others don't get. And no, I don't personally think your legs are fat...then again I'm just another stranger online and you wouldn't believe anyone anyway, right?

    Vanity makes a woman ugliest. That's what I've always thought. Go be young and know that you will look back knowing these worries were a waste of time. I'm sure you'll become a beautiful woman.
  • Therealobi1
    Therealobi1 Posts: 3,262 Member
    rphilipp78 wrote: »
    mckat08 wrote: »
    rphilipp78 wrote: »
    Especially in my legs? Am I fat looking?2l6j4ljkjgy6.jpeg
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    Yes, you do. Now quit asking!

    How much weight should I lose

    this question is really scary to me.
  • Therealobi1
    Therealobi1 Posts: 3,262 Member
    rphilipp78 wrote: »
    mckat08 wrote: »
    zyxst wrote: »
    Yes, you're chunky. Better?

    Thank goodness the guitar is covering her thighs. ;)

    Really? Thanks. Idc if I'm fat and should lose some weight, but honestly you could at least be a little nicer. I can always lose more weight but you will still be rude

    where exactly is this fat, you are talking about?
  • Therealobi1
    Therealobi1 Posts: 3,262 Member
    RuNaRoUnDaFiEld wrote: »
    People on an internet forum can't give you what your looking for. You are clearly seeking validation that you look great, and you do. But you don't believe that.

    You need to work on developing you as a person to help you with your self esteem. Do some voluntary work or a part time course on something. Looks really don't matter in the grand scheme of life. Find a way to be comfortable and happy in your own skin and head.

    I wish you well.

    i agree with this
  • tiptoethruthetulips
    tiptoethruthetulips Posts: 3,372 Member
    I googled your user name to check whether your age could be determined as your post appeared to me to be of someone quite young...what I found was you asking similar questions elsewhere. You have already received good advice up above to work on your self-esteem so I won't repeat it, but seeking validation on the internet can be quite soul destroying if you do it on the wrong forums. People are not trolling here but be prepared for trolling elsewhere if you continue to post such validation questions. Oh and no you do not need to lose any weight that I can determine.
  • GETU1N
    GETU1N Posts: 1,811 Member
    edited September 2015
    queenliz99 wrote: »
    My strumming nails are longer on the right. Built in picks;)
    My my how us fellas love insecurities and strumming nails!
  • ExRelaySprinter
    ExRelaySprinter Posts: 874 Member
    tiptoethruthetulips wrote: »
    ........seeking validation on the internet can be quite soul destroying if you do it on the wrong forums. People are not trolling here but be prepared for trolling elsewhere if you continue to post such validation questions. Oh and no you do not need to lose any weight that I can determine.

    Agreed.
    Good Post.
  • AppetiteControlFreak
    AppetiteControlFreak Posts: 76 Member
    edited September 2015
    Nuno Bettemcourt rocked black nails

    They totally added to the tone

    Legs look smooth not chunky

  • Robbnva
    Robbnva Posts: 590 Member
    You know when checking out a girl chubby thighs are a definite deal breaker... Not. Most guys aren't going to turn you away, but I think once they get tol now you better that maybe where the issue lies. You obviously have a self esteem problem if you have asked this question multiple times. Are you chunky? By my standards no but I used to weigh over 300lbs at my biggest so a girl who probably weighs no more than 125lbs will never be chunky to me. (Even if you actually weigh more than 125lbs, that still wouldn't be chunky)

    The best thing you can ever do for yourself is to stop worrying about what others think of you and to love yourself and whatever faults you think you have.
  • GR4H4M5
    GR4H4M5 Posts: 10 Member
    You look fine.
    If you want to lose a bit more do it. But you're hardly fat.
  • zoeysasha37
    zoeysasha37 Posts: 7,088 Member
    You've already asked this many times.

    Did you really expect a different answer ?

    Please work on your self esteem issues. Your obviously very young and have some things that need to be sorted out ( besides your messy bedroom)

  • Azuriaz
    Azuriaz Posts: 785 Member
    This is why youth is wasted on the young. Save those pics for 20 years from now when your boobs are racing each other to your knees and the cellulite starts sprouting all over your thighs. Until then, stop stressing and enjoy life!
  • Mycophilia
    Mycophilia Posts: 1,225 Member
    Go fish somewhere else.

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  • brianpperkins
    brianpperkins Posts: 6,124 Member

    UltimateRBF wrote: »
    rphilipp78 wrote: »
    ninerbuff wrote: »
    I'd be more worried about the room looks. ;)

    A.C.E. Certified Personal and Group Fitness Trainer
    IDEA Fitness member
    Kickboxing Certified Instructor
    Been in fitness for 30 years and have studied kinesiology and nutrition
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    Can I have a real answer?

    Your attention seeking is tiresome
    You need professional help. There, a real answer.

    This is somewhere in thread number 8-10 all following the same model ... post a picture, ask if she looks fat/chunky/how much does she have to lose/etc, fail to address basics such as height, current weight, caloric intake, goals.
  • senecarr
    senecarr Posts: 5,377 Member
    Sure, but more importantly, one of your toes is really disproportion to the others. You should start worrying about that.
  • booksandchocolate12
    booksandchocolate12 Posts: 1,741 Member
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  • photojunk
    photojunk Posts: 135 Member
    did a google search for the user name, quite a few posts asking the same question on a variety of communities.
    Also found a video of her playing her music https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mjlvQ4lg2qs. she seems confident. All i can think is someone trolled her one time saying she was fat and now she's looking for validation that she isn't.
  • IsaackGMOON
    IsaackGMOON Posts: 3,358 Member
    photojunk wrote: »
    did a google search for the user name, quite a few posts asking the same question on a variety of communities.
    Also found a video of her playing her music https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mjlvQ4lg2qs. she seems confident. All i can think is someone trolled her one time saying she was fat and now she's looking for validation that she isn't.

    Be careful posting things like this... I got put in jail for it.

    If you're gonna go detective (it's really not that hard)... send it in a PM to someone... not on the forum because you're GONNA GET THROWN IN JAIL AND IT AINT GOOD IN HERE
  • AppetiteControlFreak
    AppetiteControlFreak Posts: 76 Member
    IsaackGMOON wrote: »
    photojunk wrote: »
    did a google search for the user name, quite a few posts asking the same question on a variety of communities.
    Also found a video of her playing her music https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mjlvQ4lg2qs. she seems confident. All i can think is someone trolled her one time saying she was fat and now she's looking for validation that she isn't.

    Be careful posting things like this... I got put in jail for it.

    If you're gonna go detective (it's really not that hard)... send it in a PM to someone... not on the forum because you're GONNA GET THROWN IN JAIL AND IT AINT GOOD IN HERE

    You got a purdy mouth....

    Ha

    Jailhouse romance

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  • senecarr
    senecarr Posts: 5,377 Member
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    Nope. You're more a leek soup.
  • andres0691
    andres0691 Posts: 26 Member
    This is a joke right?
  • Alyssa_Is_LosingIt
    Alyssa_Is_LosingIt Posts: 4,696 Member
    andres0691 wrote: »
    This is a joke right?

    Sadly, no. She posts this exact same thread like once a month. She likes the attention.
  • Alluminati
    Alluminati Posts: 6,208 Member
    There's something missing in this thread. A white knight. One will wander in eventually.
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