about the boobs

I was in a store buying some dresses the other day, and being blessed with really small boobs, started talking to the sales assistant about it when I tried on a dress that just gaped up top.

She had minimal boobage herself and said she had always been really jealous of women with tiny waists and hips and really big boobs (fake or real didn't matter). Until she started working in the store, she said. Once she got in there and saw what a pain in the *kitten* it is to have huge boobs, a tiny waist and hips and not be able to actually fit into anything she was much more satisfied with her lack of boobage. She even said to me that girls like me with more on the bottom, actually have an easier time fitting clothes than someone who is a size 4 with DD cups trying to squeeze their boobies into a tiny shirt.

Made me feel better anyway

From what I understand, men are pretty simple. They don't look at a naked woman and see stretch marks or saggy boobs. They see NAKED WOMAN!!!!!

I agree! And if it's the woman that you love - it don't get no better than that!! :happy:

Good to know guys! I was afraid to ask my hubby lol

Thank you! I needed that post this week. I kinda got a little depressed this week looking at my deflated, saggy boobs. I lay on my back and wonder where the heck they went...oh look, there they are, under my armpits (not literally, but I sure feel like that)

You are absolutely right, we are defined by a lot more than just our boobies! We are beautiful women getting healthy and strong!!!

LMFAO!!! that is AWESOME!!!

For a lift, you can do the pec thing machine at the gym, or chest rows.
Lying on the floor, hand weights at your sides, and lifting them up keeping your arms straight.
If that helps at all...

Ill be the first to say it. Pushup bras are false advertising. I take one off and they drop and swing....I run as fast as humanly possible after I finish what I came for!!!!

Love your post!! Can't say i love my boobs though haha, I wish mine were a little smaller or firmer. I'm a 38DD and sometimes I wish I could pop them off xD I envy A cup girls they always seem so comfortable and I'd kill to be able to go out without a bra, half the time i have to wear 2 bras! :P

Ill be the first to say it. Pushup bras are false advertising. I take one off and they drop and swing....I run as fast as humanly possible.

Well then make sure you save up for a boob job for your partner because they all eventually start to sag. Unless there wasnt anything there to begin with.

From what I understand, men are pretty simple. They don't look at a naked woman and see stretch marks or saggy boobs. They see NAKED WOMAN!!!!!

That and a beer,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, we,, are,, happy.

I caught this post out of the corner of my eye as I was going to search the message boards for breast issues. lol

I have an almost 2 year old son and gained almost 70 lbs during that pregnancy. I lost the 70 lbs but am not happy with the way my body looks now. Stretch marks, saggy belly and saggy boobs. I am 25 years old and hate my body.

DF and I have been going through a rough patch and one thing that keeps lingering in the back of my mind is, how could I ever been naked in front of anyone else, ever again! I know it sounds weird but what if DF and I break up. I don't think I will ever be comfortable in my body with these things I just can not fix.

A man will love you for you, exactly as you are. If not, you should ask yourself why you're with him. And trust me dear, men love women's curves; big boobs, small boobs, saggy boobs... all of it. They don't have any themselves so they adore them, no matter what. Don't worry about that kind of stuff. If you are HEALTHY and HAPPY, and so is your son, that's all that should matter.

I second this in every sense.....

Luckily my ex was an *kitten* man, because I was seriously lacking in the chest department. He was happy with them, but I wasn't because I felt uneven [big round butt, A cups? Noooope, doesn't cut it for me]

So now I'm even. :laugh:

As long as you accept your body and are happy [or somewhat happy], then that is good Some people love having smaller chests, whereas others don't. All up to what you prefer and what you can live with.