Has anyone's lifestyle generally changed since you started the weight loss effort?

alien_type0
alien_type0 Posts: 16 Member
edited November 25 in Health and Weight Loss
Have your cravings tamed?

Do you tend to park further and take the stairs out of habit?

Are your cheat days remarkably still healthier than how you used to eat on a daily basis?

I'm just curious, I've heard the "it takes 21 days to develop a habit" but I never really noticed until recently that I generally eat less and eat healthier. Also I'm super inclined to do the physical labor just to burn some extra calories. Need me to move that prehistoric television? Need me to bench press my son to sleep? I'm on it. /flex
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  • Liftng4Lis
    Liftng4Lis Posts: 15,151 Member
    I think generally, once you do this for awhile, you realize SO much has changed. A few things for me come to mind:
    Even when on a logging break, you mentally know how many calories are in something.
    I tend to get up and move more throughout the day
  • rankinsect
    rankinsect Posts: 2,238 Member
    I'm somewhat more active than before, although I always liked to walk. I don't use elevators anymore since now I can reach the top without gasping like a dying carp. Biggest changes are just sticking to a diet and exercise plan, and (oddly enough) being more organized in general. I guess once I got one piece of my life in order I wanted to get others too.
  • daniwilford
    daniwilford Posts: 1,030 Member
    Even when I think I over eat, I am usually eating at or below maintenance. I enjoy moving now, so I do more of it and even look forward to it. My endurance has so improved. I am so happy, I don't want to go back to the before.
  • shadowfax_c11
    shadowfax_c11 Posts: 1,942 Member
    Not for me. I went at it a bit differently. I changed my lifestyle pretty dramatically. Improved my home environment, got a better job that allowed me to afford a higher standard of living. (from poverty to lower middle class)

    I was already very active but suffered from severe depression and anxiety created by my situation. Eating was unfortunately my only source of comfort. So I ate a lot and since I was poor I ate poor quality in big portions. Once I got rid of most of the causes of my stress and depression I was ready to tackle the nutritional component.

    I do find that I get out and do more things on my days off rather than sitting in front of the TV or reading all day. I also have energy to clean house when I get home from work. But again I think these are more related to the improvement in my emotional health and sense of well being.
  • ariana_eatsandlifts
    ariana_eatsandlifts Posts: 197 Member
    I definitely have noticed that I take the stairs as often as possible and don't mind parking further from store entrances. I don't necessarily eat "healthier" food, but I notice I fill up faster on the same foods. I used to be able to demolish a pint of ice cream, a bag of hot cheetos, and a regular coke for dinner (college meals amiright?). Even if I wanted to do that now, I probably couldn't.
  • CardiLuxe
    CardiLuxe Posts: 89 Member
    edited October 2015
    Yeeessss! Omg especially the taking the stairs thing. You don't even think anything of it. And it's way quicker Lol.
    And you literally stop craving crap everyday.
    Grocery shopping is fun because you realize you cannn Enjoy your favorite healthy recipes and can't wait to feed different parts of your body. But obviously some days, you don't mind eating crap. But the healthy lifestyle seems more like something to look forward too rather than a chore. After you genuinely appreciate yourself and find what works for you!
  • blossomingbutterfly
    blossomingbutterfly Posts: 743 Member
    Things definitely get easier as you go along. Keep track of your NSV to be able to really see the change.

    I find my lifestyle has changed a lot. I can do more now than I used to be able to and it's wonderful!
  • ninerbuff
    ninerbuff Posts: 48,993 Member
    Well if there isn't a change, then there's probably little to no results happening.

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  • arditarose
    arditarose Posts: 15,573 Member
    My life is completely changed. My diet has changed a bit just because I found some new foods I love to help me hit my macros better, or keep me fuller longer. Otherwise, it has changed because I have found a new passion-lifting. I'm a passionate person in general and a musician, but music has taken a back seat to my fitness goals. My life revolves around lifting and food. (That sounds kind of sad but I'm very happy).
  • alien_type0
    alien_type0 Posts: 16 Member
    rankinsect wrote: »
    I'm somewhat more active than before, although I always liked to walk. I don't use elevators anymore since now I can reach the top without gasping like a dying carp. Biggest changes are just sticking to a diet and exercise plan, and (oddly enough) being more organized in general. I guess once I got one piece of my life in order I wanted to get others too.

    Omg @ the dying carp. Back when I was really chubby in school stairs were the only option, and of course the classroom is always dead silent before the professor got in. I'm not sure if breathing like a "dying carp", or turning red from trying to not look stupid actually made me look stupid.
  • jemhh
    jemhh Posts: 14,261 Member
    Mine has changed in that I watch a fraction of the TV I used to watch. I'm not up on any shows and on the rare occasion I do decide to watch, I usually end up watching Seinfeld reruns.
  • sunandmoons
    sunandmoons Posts: 415 Member
    Completely!! I feel so much better...look better..clothes fit better. Im proud of my achievements. I don't cheat myself. Realizing protein gives so much energy. Ive been focusing on macros instead of just watching calorie intake. Yes its a total transformation in everything. Ive learned so much about control. Noones going to do this but me. Its self respect and Im loving it!
  • quiltlovinlisa
    quiltlovinlisa Posts: 1,710 Member
    Biggest change is the amount of activity my whole family has done this summer. Tons of hiking together, it's been fantastic! Keeping up with my nine year old twins HUGE accomplishment!!!! (their batteries never die!)

  • voldemortisreal
    voldemortisreal Posts: 101 Member
    Yep. I'll echo what everyone else has mentioned as well. There are times where I don't even debate a choice like making breakfast [healthy variety] or grabbing a handful of whatever...and there are still some things that will probably require additional time to instill the necessary behavior patterns (i.e., consciously moving more on off-days, because I'm all about a cup of tea and a good book on an off-day :smiley: ).

    All that aside, it's definitely a process, and one that I am very happy about embarking upon. It is totally worth it, and will be for the long-term.
  • jaga13
    jaga13 Posts: 1,149 Member
    Activity wise, yes. I look at every chore and errand as an opportunity for a little more movement. It's actually a nice way to live as I don't dread chores any more.

    But regarding food: cravings are still a struggle. Not any one particular food. I just really want to eat A LOT of something. I can't if I want to continue this path. I faithfully log and eat mostly nutritious foods to keep me full and meet my macros. I have something salty and or sweet too. But eating less is a struggle every day. Even now as I'm only a few lbs away from goal.
  • Francl27
    Francl27 Posts: 26,371 Member
    I'm definitely way more active now. I can't stand staying home all day anymore and aim for at least 6 hours of exercise a week, sometimes more, but life happens and I can't fit it some days (or my legs just really need a rest). But if I'm home and I have something to watch on TV, I'll hop on the exercise bike instead of the couch, for example. And if I need a break on the week end I'll go to the gym instead of going shopping or locking myself in my room.

    Food wise, I am much better with moderation and my tastes have changed a bit (not for the sweet stuff though unfortunately), but when I'm hungry I could still eat the whole house.
  • lorrpb
    lorrpb Posts: 11,463 Member
    Yes, I like to do all the things you mention and more, just because "I can". It wasn't that long ago I couldn't do a lot of things and I am so grateful for the progress I've made. I'm also thankful that I don't have the cravings and food desires I used to have and could not conquer. Life is good.
  • juliet3455
    juliet3455 Posts: 3,015 Member
    As part of my "lifestyle change" and learning to eat better I registered for a course from the local Health Clinic called Weight Wise which re-trained us about Food and hidden calories. One of the things they stressed is that " Movement Matters" so I learned to swim.
    Which led to a challenge by a fellow rookie swimmer to do the local Sprint Tri-Athlon.
    This then led to upgrading my Bike and taking up Running with the local running club.
    Running led to 3 different races ( 10km ) and at least 2 runs per week with the Club members. A great mix of Speedy Road Runners to Slow Turtles. As other people have said my TV is getting very lonely and dusty.
    It is a viscous cycle as my health improves and as my weight has dropped, my BMR and BP have also dropped. The lower BMR means I have to do a little more exercise to keep a small calorie deficit.

    More aware of Food Craving Triggers and ways to satisfy the beast without over-indulging.
  • SLLRunner
    SLLRunner Posts: 12,942 Member
    Have your cravings tamed?

    Do you tend to park further and take the stairs out of habit?

    Are your cheat days remarkably still healthier than how you used to eat on a daily basis?

    I'm just curious, I've heard the "it takes 21 days to develop a habit" but I never really noticed until recently that I generally eat less and eat healthier. Also I'm super inclined to do the physical labor just to burn some extra calories. Need me to move that prehistoric television? Need me to bench press my son to sleep? I'm on it. /flex

    For me, so much has changed.
    • I no longer categorize food as good or bad, it's all simply food.
    • I no longer beat myself up for having treats, I work them into my days.
    • I no longer tell myself I can't have certain foods, I eat all foods I love in moderation.
    • I no longer think certain foods make me fat, I know it's the overall surplus that does that.
    • I no longer give power to food, I have complete power over what I put in my mouth.
    • I no longer eat to live, I live to eat.

    Food is fuel, food is delicious, fun, and fantastic, and it's sometimes it provides the exact comfort I need at the time.

    Moderation is key in all things for me.

    To answer your questions:

    Cravings: yes, because I no longer ignore them and I make sure I'm eating enough.
    Stairs: Nope. Don't like stairs. I also don't part further away because I am assigned a certain area to park at work.
    Cheat Day: I don't believe in them. I simply eat what I want in moderation.

    Congrats on the changes you've made in your life too! :)




  • SergeantSausage
    SergeantSausage Posts: 1,673 Member
    Nope.

    Nobody's life has ever changed.


    Just you.

    You're the only one ...
  • Sued0nim
    Sued0nim Posts: 17,456 Member
    Have your cravings tamed?

    yes, my go-to foods have completely changed, also my habits in terms of batch cooking and logging it is now a natural way of eating

    Do you tend to park further and take the stairs out of habit?

    Habit nope, it's conscious decision making and I'm always aware when I do take the stairs how many steps my fitbit is logging and I like that

    Are your cheat days remarkably still healthier than how you used to eat on a daily basis?

    I don't do cheat days, I don't like the symbolism, I eat everything and make it fit in my overall calories, if I go massively over I log and move on but I'm not cheating my lifestyle I'm just living and appreciating I will have to account for it in other calorie choices, increased activity or eventual scale weight

    I'm just curious, I've heard the "it takes 21 days to develop a habit" but I never really noticed until recently that I generally eat less and eat healthier. Also I'm super inclined to do the physical labor just to burn some extra calories. Need me to move that prehistoric television? Need me to bench press my son to sleep? I'm on it. /flex

    I think 21 days is a made up media title but habits do change as do food tastes and activity levels
  • Sued0nim
    Sued0nim Posts: 17,456 Member
    Nope.

    Nobody's life has ever changed.


    Just you.

    You're the only one ...

    Dude! You're back :smile:
  • Kalikel
    Kalikel Posts: 9,603 Member
    edited October 2015
    Just about everything has changed. They certainly weren't all planned changes! The only intentional parts were eating healthy and adding exercise, but just about everything is new and different. Huge changes, mostly positive ones.

    I never really understood what people were talking about, exactly, when they said that those who made "lifestyle changes" were more successful, but I do now. For what it's worth, I think the lifestyle changes are born out of the desire to be healthy and cannot be used or forced in an effort to be successful. I hope that makes sense.

    I also don't think that one has to make lifestyle changes in order to be successful. Simply eating less will help one lose weight and I'm well aware that MANY people are successful doing that.

    I think it takes a lot longer than 21 days to really cement new and different habits. I suppose it depends on the habit, though. This whole Diet Flip thing took a year or two before I really got it totally under control.
  • nyponbell
    nyponbell Posts: 379 Member
    The main difference to before and now is that I'm much more mindful of myself and my needs. I don't just mean nutritional needs, but I'm actually starting to take care of myself; doing my rehabilitation (which means I go to the gym and lift, and since it's for a reason other than "losing weight" I am much more likely to do it), eating food I enjoy (instead of trying to cut it completely out, I work it into my plan; and if I'm unsuccessful in working it into my plan and stay within my calorie goal, I can accept it and move forward without derailing) and overall just working on changing my mental state (anxiety, panic attacks; not entirely conducive to helping one stay on track).

    I still eat the same foods, I'm not much more active (just the rehab really, and that's actually less than I used to do before I got professional help on what to do for my back) but I'm mindful and I approach it differently. There might be other changes that I don't really think about (I might take the stairs more now, but then I often took the stairs before too), and I actually know what I'm going to eat any given day because I prepare in advance.

    As for it taking 21 days; I think it actually takes longer and a lot of trial and error before you find something that works for you. How long (and how many errors) depends on the person and the habit.
  • Lounmoun
    Lounmoun Posts: 8,423 Member
    I feel better and can move around more easily so I think I am a bit more active than before. I exercise more.
    I think more about my food choices.
    I probably spend less time reading or at the computer.
  • prettysoul1908
    prettysoul1908 Posts: 200 Member
    Have your cravings tamed?

    Do you tend to park further and take the stairs out of habit?

    Are your cheat days remarkably still healthier than how you used to eat on a daily basis?

    I'm just curious, I've heard the "it takes 21 days to develop a habit" but I never really noticed until recently that I generally eat less and eat healthier. Also I'm super inclined to do the physical labor just to burn some extra calories. Need me to move that prehistoric television? Need me to bench press my son to sleep? I'm on it. /flex

    I agree 100%! Love the spirit of your post!
  • Machka9
    Machka9 Posts: 25,633 Member
    I was active before ... I am somewhat more active because I've got more energy and much less of me to drag around.

    I don't do cheat days. Before I would eat well all week, lose a bit of weight, and then eat a lot on weekends and gain all of it (and sometimes more) back again. Cheat days got me here.

    That said, if I want something like, say, pizza ... I exercise for it. Tracking/logging etc has made me more aware.
  • jgnatca
    jgnatca Posts: 14,464 Member
    Transformed. Exercise is now a habit. We eat out less, and I join fun run events. My confidence has soared. I crave the same foods but I eat less of them.
  • 85Cardinals
    85Cardinals Posts: 733 Member
    I find myself weighing a lot more food than I used to.
  • nitaleotta
    nitaleotta Posts: 24 Member
    edited October 2015
    My excess calories came primarily from binge snacking and "gotta have ___ NOW" moments. So learning to deal with cravings is the primary factor in my weight loss success/maintenance.

    1. When I have an intense craving I usually keep putting it off and it goes away after a while. Sometimes it persists for days but the act of not giving the emotion priority in my life gives me power and control. Eventually I may have that cheeseburger, pizza, BBQ, etc. but then I'm indulging from an emotionally balanced place, not in the midst of some binge frenzy.

    2. I've gotten good at imagining the negative results of indulging a craving - like having that fast food breakfast when I wanted it: feeling bloated and crappy from low energy levels, that disappointing feeling knowing I've wasted most of my day's calories on low quality food. The results are almost never worth the 20 minute foodgasm.

    3. Evaluating what it is I REALLY want when I get a craving to binge eat. Sometimes a food craving just is what it is, but other times when you find yourself wanting to eat for pure recreation or to mindlessly pass the time there's an underlying emotional need or life stressor that needs to be called out. Food won't really ease job stress, relationship issues, or feelings of loneliness or hopelessness. It's the harder way to truly face these things but it's the healthier way in the long run.

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