Workout daily... yet no muscle definition... sensitive topic, past ED
lizhope1
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Hi everyone!
So I have a question... and please keep in mind- this is a sensitive topic.
OK. So I love working out to feel good. This is huge! I struggled with disordered eating and amenorrhea as a teen and am on a good track by God's grace... eat and exercise to feel good!
Well, I workout most days, but I haven't researched much on how to push myself. I am not trying to lose weight. That is a dangerous place for me and I'm ok with what is... i a rarely weigh, but i'm about 130-133 lbs at 5'3" or so a few months ago, where I comfortably maintain and have for a while (weighing is triggering for me, so I don't own a scale. But I feel like i have no definition and don't have any muscle definition. How do you workout to get definition in abs and arms? I kinda wish I looked fit cause I workout daily! I'm also afraid to go to far w/ losing weight because i lost my period for many years and it's been very regular now for 2 years and i want to have children in the relatively nearish future so this is important to me to maintain and my cycles are very sensitive to stress, diet and exercise...
Here are a few pics of where things are now (random pics i've taken for my husband over the months)... maybe i'm just nitpicking... i feel healthy and am so grateful for that!!! But I kinda would like my tummy and arms to be more toned and to see definition in them... kinda don't like my tummy and that's my trouble area where my fat goes... oh and please be sensitive in your responses... i'm very modest and self conscious and would never wear a bikini... so after i get some responses i'll delete this. thx!
Suggestions?
So I have a question... and please keep in mind- this is a sensitive topic.
OK. So I love working out to feel good. This is huge! I struggled with disordered eating and amenorrhea as a teen and am on a good track by God's grace... eat and exercise to feel good!
Well, I workout most days, but I haven't researched much on how to push myself. I am not trying to lose weight. That is a dangerous place for me and I'm ok with what is... i a rarely weigh, but i'm about 130-133 lbs at 5'3" or so a few months ago, where I comfortably maintain and have for a while (weighing is triggering for me, so I don't own a scale. But I feel like i have no definition and don't have any muscle definition. How do you workout to get definition in abs and arms? I kinda wish I looked fit cause I workout daily! I'm also afraid to go to far w/ losing weight because i lost my period for many years and it's been very regular now for 2 years and i want to have children in the relatively nearish future so this is important to me to maintain and my cycles are very sensitive to stress, diet and exercise...
Here are a few pics of where things are now (random pics i've taken for my husband over the months)... maybe i'm just nitpicking... i feel healthy and am so grateful for that!!! But I kinda would like my tummy and arms to be more toned and to see definition in them... kinda don't like my tummy and that's my trouble area where my fat goes... oh and please be sensitive in your responses... i'm very modest and self conscious and would never wear a bikini... so after i get some responses i'll delete this. thx!
Suggestions?
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lol i posted a wedding pic and didn't mean to put that in... haha but i guess it gives the image that i look a lot better in clothes than not in them (it was from May)...0
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If you're not already lifting weights, try it. Eat as you are now (you look healthy.) There are many beginner programs. Three popular programs are:
-Strong Curves
-New Rules of Lifting for Women
-Stronglifts 5x50 -
If you're working out to gain muscle mass (which is what definition really requires) you shouldn't be doing that daily unless you're being good at not training the same muscles on sequential days - you don't build muscle in the gym, you build muscle on your rest days. Personally I believe in the whole-body 3x per week approach, where you work out three times per week and have four rest days. Of course you can still do other things on rest days - I walk or hike - but you don't want to overtrain. Essentially, training causes microscopic damage to the muscle, and it's that damage that makes the muscle repair itself stronger. You need to give that repair time to happen, otherwise the damage just accumulates and you actually lose strength until you take enough time to recover.
You will need to incorporate resistance training (weights, resistance bands, machines, etc.) and your goal needs to be to push yourself so that, as much as possible, you see progress between sessions. I.e. using more resistance, doing more reps/sets, etc.
What I had always heard for building muscle mass is that you want to do a lower number of reps of a high-intensity exercise. If you're able to do more than about 15 reps in a set, you're probably not using enough resistance.0 -
You say you are "working out" but you don't specify what kind of workouts you are doing.
As stated above you should be following a progressive resistance training program. The ones listed are good (I highly suggest the New Rules of Lifting program, it teaches a lot). Lifting and eating to maintain weight will help your body change shape, especially with a prior eating disorder. It's a slow process. You look good currently, so don't get discouraged.0 -
"working out" is kind of a generalized description...what exactly are you doing?
you aren't going to substantially alter your body composition if most of what you're doing is cardiovascular exercise...cardiovascular exercise is great for the heart and cardiovascular system, but you need to do resistance training to change your body composition.
in that RE you should do an established program and follow that program to garner the best and most efficient results. keep in mind that it's still a slow process...a fitness body is derived from a fitness lifestyle, not a handful of weeks or months of working out.
also, you don't have to workout every single day. doing a program like New Rules of Lifting for Women, for example, will have you lifting 3x per week...from there you can mix in some cardio a few days per week and take a day or two of rest. rest is where your body recovers and the magic happens...the exercise itself is just the catalyst...proper rest is where the good stuff happens.
if you're not familiar with the weight room, New Rules of Lifting for Women is a great place to start...the read alone is worth it and will help explain what you're doing and why. the program itself is a pretty good general fitness program but gets a bit convoluted towards the end of the program which is where my wife switched over to Strong Curves...but she always recommends to her friends to start with New Rules first as it familiarizes you with more basic movements and gets you comfortable with them before moving on to other things.0 -
ok working out...
I love cardio (used to run, but got 3 stress fractures in a few years)... so I mostly do elliptical (get my heart rate pretty high... definitely sweating and maybe heart btwn 150-160 bpm) somewhere between 30-45 minutes. I do jog for 30-40 minutes a few times a week, but am hoping to increase this as I am injury free for the first time in a long time. Usually sometimes cardio since I love cardio! Once in a while I will do an exercise bike.
I do weights and core stuff, usually about 20 min 3x a week. I was doing the same stuff for a while, on my own, that i learned in books, but i haven't read anything lately so it was the same exercises over and over. In the past few weeks I've branched out and have been taking a sculpting class at my gym, which includes core stuff and weights. Nice to switch it up... but I always kinda look the same, which is fine- not looking to be like a fitness model or anything... but it would nice to see some definition and flattening in the belly because i always tend to have fat that sticks out in that area. So lately i've been taking the class once a week, and then doing similar exercises to this about 20 min 2 other times during the week.
I only have 45 min to an hour each morning so i want to maximize it...
Exercise used to be about losing weight... then it has become strictly to feel good... i kinda want to do it to feel good, plus not be scared to research how to use it to change my looks a bit too
I haven't done much research on exercise in a while... kinda just do what feels good... mostly lots of cardio. 0 -
rankinsect wrote: »If you're working out to gain muscle mass (which is what definition really requires) you shouldn't be doing that daily unless you're being good at not training the same muscles on sequential days - you don't build muscle in the gym, you build muscle on your rest days. Personally I believe in the whole-body 3x per week approach, where you work out three times per week and have four rest days. Of course you can still do other things on rest days - I walk or hike - but you don't want to overtrain. Essentially, training causes microscopic damage to the muscle, and it's that damage that makes the muscle repair itself stronger. You need to give that repair time to happen, otherwise the damage just accumulates and you actually lose strength until you take enough time to recover.
You will need to incorporate resistance training (weights, resistance bands, machines, etc.) and your goal needs to be to push yourself so that, as much as possible, you see progress between sessions. I.e. using more resistance, doing more reps/sets, etc.
What I had always heard for building muscle mass is that you want to do a lower number of reps of a high-intensity exercise. If you're able to do more than about 15 reps in a set, you're probably not using enough resistance.
Just chiming in to second this. If you are doing a strength or force workout, give yourself a day or two to recuperate in between each one, Enudrance cardio workouts you can put in between the strength of force workouts as part of recovery. But those endurance workouts should be long but easy workouts...not pushing the muscles too much.0 -
Oh and i don't know how much I eat... i eat to hunger, probably around, or maybe slightly above 2000 cals? Don't focus on it.. But I am active, when I'm not working out I work w/ kids all day. But I eat all whole foods, nothing processed, very little sugar... primarily paleoish... cause i feel better this way...0
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I can't afford a personal trainer now, but i think taking fitness classes are good (only have time 1x a week now, but it gives me ideas). because i've never worked with a trainer, or done classes before the last few weeks, i think i don't push myself that hard sometimes w/ strength training, and also i think my form is a bit off. In the class there have been several times the teacher has come over to correct my form during the movements...0
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ok working out...
I love cardio (used to run, but got 3 stress fractures in a few years)... so I mostly do elliptical (get my heart rate pretty high... definitely sweating and maybe heart btwn 150-160 bpm) somewhere between 30-45 minutes. I do jog for 30-40 minutes a few times a week, but am hoping to increase this as I am injury free for the first time in a long time. Usually sometimes cardio since I love cardio! Once in a while I will do an exercise bike.
I do weights and core stuff, usually about 20 min 3x a week. I was doing the same stuff for a while, on my own, that i learned in books, but i haven't read anything lately so it was the same exercises over and over. In the past few weeks I've branched out and have been taking a sculpting class at my gym, which includes core stuff and weights. Nice to switch it up... but I always kinda look the same, which is fine- not looking to be like a fitness model or anything... but it would nice to see some definition and flattening in the belly because i always tend to have fat that sticks out in that area. So lately i've been taking the class once a week, and then doing similar exercises to this about 20 min 2 other times during the week.
I only have 45 min to an hour each morning so i want to maximize it...
Exercise used to be about losing weight... then it has become strictly to feel good... i kinda want to do it to feel good, plus not be scared to research how to use it to change my looks a bit too I haven't done much research on exercise in a while... kinda just do what feels good... mostly lots of cardio.
Okay, so you need to find a program and follow it. Doing "core stuff" isn't going to magically make you lose belly fat. A lifting program will do more for your body and your core than 20 minutes of whatever you are currently doing. 45 minutes 3-4 days per week of lifting is maximizing your time more so than doing cardio every day with a little bit of core work for part of your session 3 days per week.0 -
Do you have any good resources on how to find a lifting program? I really know not much!... i just kinda lift, but wonder if i'm doing something wrong, and have trouble thinking of things to do sometimes0
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Read this: http://www.nerdfitness.com/blog/2009/10/26/how-to-not-suck-at-working-out/
Get a programme
Books
Strong Curves
New Rules of Lifting for Women
Structured online programmes
http://stronglifts.com/5x5/
https://www.muscleandstrength.com/workouts/jason-blaha-ice-cream-fitness-5x5-novice-workout
http://www.muscleandfitness.com/workouts/workout-routines/4-week-guide-starting-strength
If you can't bring yourself to do free weights yet then do a decent bodyweight programme
http://www.nerdfitness.com/blog/2009/12/09/beginner-body-weight-workout-burn-fat-build-muscle/0 -
Hard to tell what you're doing or how long you've been doing it.
You need some sort of progressive program, whatever you choose. You may not be using enough weight. Or doing enough reps. Or sets. Or something. Also, you may be looking for results too quickly.
If you don't know what you're doing, I'd suggest working with a personal trainer rather than trial and error of the self-help online sites.
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thanks... personal training is out of budget but i can use books or classes since classes at my gym are free... i only have time to attend a class once a week, but I can fit in shorter strength workouts in the morning throughout the week0
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Musclefitnesswomen.com
You sound like you just want some muscle and a few curves where you would find attractive
Body contour with a little healthy muscle.
As a guy I always find deadlifts and squats with push-ups will be a good two times a week workout to keep a generally decent shape.
Congrats on the progress you have made. You have much to be proud of. Nice wedding pic.
Adding the muscle is often the most fun part!
Lots of women on here have done what you seek to do. Listen to the voice of experience.
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Pickup/push heavy weights using compound lifts on a schedule. There are many variations, but that is really what it comes down to. Plus, remember to eat. Use the following program: http://stronglifts.com/5x5/
That program will last you a really long while and just keep adding weight and pushing yourself.
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Great job overcoming ED!
You look beautiful!!!!0 -
You need to lift. We have the same stats, but a different body fat %. Lifting with a progressive overload, while eating around maintenance, will help your body composition.0
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Thanks everyone! Good suggestions! Will look into all of that
tbows75- Thanks it's not something i ever want to obsess about again. i'm done w/ that prison, thank God and healthy. i'm comfortable here (have maintained around here very comfortably for a few years), and am happy with my relationship w/ food and my weight and grateful... would rather be a bit heavier than obsessively slim/muscular... basically be healthy and feel good and let go... but sometimes i do want to tone up and look a bit fitter (since i tend to store weight on my belly), without obsessing... ya know? I've never worked out purposefully to gain muscle. it was always to lose weight... and then it became strictly to feel good...
Arditarose- what is your body fat? You look really amazing!0 -
Thanks everyone! Good suggestions! Will look into all of that
tbows75- Thanks it's not something i ever want to obsess about again. i'm done w/ that prison, thank God and healthy. i'm comfortable here (have maintained around here very comfortably for a few years), and am happy with my relationship w/ food and my weight and grateful... would rather be a bit heavier than obsessively slim/muscular... basically be healthy and feel good and let go... but sometimes i do want to tone up and look a bit fitter (since i tend to store weight on my belly), without obsessing... ya know? I've never worked out purposefully to gain muscle. it was always to lose weight... and then it became strictly to feel good...
Arditarose- what is your body fat? You look really amazing!
I don't know. Probably somewhere around 20-22% Thanks!
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I have no idea what my body fat is... i think out of curiosity i got it tested at gym and it was 23-24. when I was not deeply in my ED, but strict, but not menstruating i was more like 16-17% BF and it seemed my cycle came back when I was around 19-20% BF, so i don't want to dip much below that... not worth it... barely had a period for 8 years stupid me, which scares me to play around with being too fit and lean... oh and i have bone density issues from it...0
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Read this: http://www.nerdfitness.com/blog/2009/10/26/how-to-not-suck-at-working-out/
Get a programme
Books
Strong Curves
New Rules of Lifting for Women
Structured online programmes
http://stronglifts.com/5x5/
https://www.muscleandstrength.com/workouts/jason-blaha-ice-cream-fitness-5x5-novice-workout
http://www.muscleandfitness.com/workouts/workout-routines/4-week-guide-starting-strength
If you can't bring yourself to do free weights yet then do a decent bodyweight programme
http://www.nerdfitness.com/blog/2009/12/09/beginner-body-weight-workout-burn-fat-build-muscle/
Seconding these programs.
Especially the books and Stronglifts 5x5. They really clearly explain why to train and how to train. (Just ignore the diet advice for weightloss).0 -
I have no idea what my body fat is... i think out of curiosity i got it tested at gym and it was 23-24. when I was not deeply in my ED, but strict, but not menstruating i was more like 16-17% BF and it seemed my cycle came back when I was around 19-20% BF, so i don't want to dip much below that... not worth it... barely had a period for 8 years stupid me, which scares me to play around with being too fit and lean... oh and i have bone density issues from it...
It seems like you now have a very healthy relationship with food, and I'm glad that is the case after fighting with your ED.
Beyond that, a couple comments. First, I think you look great, and a bit more defined than you probably think. Keep in mind many take photos when they are still "pumped", many tan, etc, and that helps them look defined. I know women who look like you or very similar day to day that look like ripped up work out monsters when they are pumped. Just food for thought there.
I think it's very healthy that you aren't wanting to drop to low levels of body fat, but have to emphasize that with the right muscle base under the fat, it can totally change your shape still. There are plenty of ladies here who life yet don't drop to silly low BF numbers, and they can still define and shape themselves without doing any crazy fat loss routine.0
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