my husband told me I better not lose my boobs

My wife lost 120 LBS and the boobs were the first to go. She went down at least 2 cup sizes. But you know what... her being healthy, determined, energetic, and happy is so much sexier to me then any one specific physical body part.

he's being a butt

I do like my girls and I'm very sad to see them go but if it means the tummy goes, I guess i can live with it. but I do hope i don't go below a C. then, I might have to pad them up.

jgnatca wrote: »

You two could have a little private memorial service for what was lost. Good memories. Maybe light a candle and run a slide show.

*snort*

vinsmomma26 wrote: »

its not just your age, trust me. I can't run without them hitting me in my face (not really) but its uncomfortable! also not rolling over on them while im sleeping haha for some reason I still have milk..even though my son is 4. I dont have enough to fill a bottle, but sometimes my milk will let down..no idea why, im starting to think something is wrong lol I hear you on the bread crumbs

I get phantom letdown feelings, 5.5 years after my daughter weaned. No actual milk though. I would have it checked out if you are producing milk at this point.

I do feel sorry for women sometimes, not only having to deal with pms, but worrying about these kind of things. I'm sure your husband will feel more than compensated having a healthier more energetic wife, and if he doesn't then screw him ( or rather don't)

Unfortunately, my boobs lost first. RIP. Well, I'm being dramatic. I did go back down to the size they were before I got big, so I only lost what I had gained in them anyway. But the rest of me caught up, so they actually look bigger now than they did before. Optical Illusion--there's always that!

"Thats ok, if you leave me for that reason then I can tell everybody the story of how i lost three boobs."

It's really not something you can predict, though - some women's are mostly actual tissue and will never get super small, some women's are just there because they store a lot of fat there. If you keep losing, sooner or later they'll get smaller regardless (even if proportionately they're still the same cup size - going from a 36DD to a 32DD, for example.) But how much and how fast is kind of up to genetics and where you store/lose fat from.

If it makes you feel better, at my heaviest (BMI of 25) I was about a 32H. Now, with a BMI of 19ish, I'm still a 28G or so (sometimes 28F/FF.) They're smaller for sure but they have definitely not disappeared.

If I go any lower they do seem to shrink substantially pretty quickly (like, at 118 lbs I'm a 28G, at 110 lbs I'm a 28D), but 110 lbs is on the border of underweight for my height, so it's hard to maintain anyway.

Finally, I'll agree with anyone else that it's no one's business but your own, not even your husband excepted. My husband is a chest guy too and he preferred me at my heaviest weight for that reason, but he knows better than to complain or take issue with them now because I'M much happier smaller.

In the words of Sir Mix Alot:

SirMixAlot wrote:

You can do side bends or sit-ups
But please don't lose that butt

My boobs are gone. They went first. But Himself doesn't care. He loves my skinnier a**.