my husband told me I better not lose my boobs

vinsmomma26
vinsmomma26 Posts: 103 Member
edited November 2024 in Fitness and Exercise
hopefully I dont lose too much of them,or else ill have an unhappy husband lol im a d right now, we will see what happens!
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  • ninerbuff
    ninerbuff Posts: 49,084 Member
    There's always plastic surgery.

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  • vinsmomma26
    vinsmomma26 Posts: 103 Member
    lol true, im an all natural kind of girl though :) i wouldn't do it, plus its too expensive
  • SonyaCele
    SonyaCele Posts: 2,841 Member
    bench heavy, build up some pec muscles.
  • jgnatca
    jgnatca Posts: 14,464 Member
    When I was contemplating my options if I ever got breast cancer, a friend pointed out that my breasts are mine; not his.
  • jgnatca
    jgnatca Posts: 14,464 Member
    You two could have a little private memorial service for what was lost. Good memories. Maybe light a candle and run a slide show.
  • klrenn
    klrenn Posts: 245 Member
    piss on him...it's your body and you can't control where you lose. I guess I did a good job choosing my husband - I was 50lb heavier when I met him 18 years ago with DDs....I have lost quite a bit of my boobs since I'm pear (now i'm a low B- and when I brought up the subject of implants he scoffed at me (but said if I really wanted them he would support me)
  • vinsmomma26
    vinsmomma26 Posts: 103 Member
    haha thats too funny! i know they're mine, i love them too, just not as much as he does lol id rather not have them, they get in the way too much!!
  • vinsmomma26
    vinsmomma26 Posts: 103 Member
    thats what i said! id rather lose the damn things, they're a pain in the *kitten*..I couldn't imagine doubles! good for you, thats amazing!! I wish I had bs lol you dont need implants, you're perfect the way you are!

  • jgnatca
    jgnatca Posts: 14,464 Member
    At my age they're mostly an inconvenience. They interfere with the golf swing, I could go on and on. I decided by the way if any cancer shows up they are both gone. Hubby's had his fun. They nursed two children (not at the same time). I can find new ways to catch bread crumbs.
  • jgnatca
    jgnatca Posts: 14,464 Member
    By the way these are the kind of locker room conversations men WISH we are having.
  • vinsmomma26
    vinsmomma26 Posts: 103 Member
    its not just your age, trust me. I can't run without them hitting me in my face (not really) but its uncomfortable! also not rolling over on them while im sleeping haha for some reason I still have milk..even though my son is 4. I dont have enough to fill a bottle, but sometimes my milk will let down..no idea why, im starting to think something is wrong lol I hear you on the bread crumbs :)

  • vinsmomma26
    vinsmomma26 Posts: 103 Member
    what do you mean by heavy? im nowhere near anything too crazy..i just started on 11/2 lol
  • DavPul
    DavPul Posts: 61,406 Member
    vinsmomma26 wrote: »
    lol true, im an all natural kind of girl though :) i wouldn't do it, plus its too expensive

    More expensive than divorce?
  • Lucille4444
    Lucille4444 Posts: 284 Member
    DavPul wrote: »
    vinsmomma26 wrote: »
    lol true, im an all natural kind of girl though :) i wouldn't do it, plus its too expensive

    More expensive than divorce?

    If someone would divorce their wife over boob size, they are pretty worthless.

  • lisalsd1
    lisalsd1 Posts: 1,519 Member
    My boobs are bigger now that I lift; I wasn't working with Ds or anything to begin with. My answer to him would be: "don't worry you can just buy me new ones." Eh...I probably actually would have just punched him. I'm like that though.
  • earlnabby
    earlnabby Posts: 8,171 Member
    It could always go the other way. Each time I lose enough to go down a band size, I go up a cup size.
  • JustMissTracy
    JustMissTracy Posts: 6,338 Member
    Poor hubby...just imagine being smaller/lighter/healther...but your boobs being smaller...I can see his point.
  • JustMissTracy
    JustMissTracy Posts: 6,338 Member
    vinsmomma26 wrote: »
    its not just your age, trust me. I can't run without them hitting me in my face (not really) but its uncomfortable! also not rolling over on them while im sleeping haha for some reason I still have milk..even though my son is 4. I dont have enough to fill a bottle, but sometimes my milk will let down..no idea why, im starting to think something is wrong lol I hear you on the bread crumbs :)

    I would suggest going to the doctor for the lactating issue...it isn't normal to still be lactating unless someone or something is drawing that milk intentionally...not unheard of, but if this isn't something you want to be happening, they have ways to dry you up.
  • LKArgh
    LKArgh Posts: 5,178 Member
    vinsmomma26 wrote: »
    its not just your age, trust me. I can't run without them hitting me in my face (not really) but its uncomfortable! also not rolling over on them while im sleeping haha for some reason I still have milk..even though my son is 4. I dont have enough to fill a bottle, but sometimes my milk will let down..no idea why, im starting to think something is wrong lol I hear you on the bread crumbs :)

    Lactating is normal up to 2 years after weaning. If you are past this point, then you need to talk to your dr.
  • BLifts38
    BLifts38 Posts: 248 Member
    you "better" NOT?? kind of rude in my opinion. as others have mentioned, you cannot choose where to lose. would it be ideal to keep sure? I'm sure most women would agree yes. I went from D's to B's... definitely would have loved to lose elsewhere, but it's nothing we can control and for him to suggest that you "BETTER NOT" lose them is kind of insane to me....
  • Soundwave79
    Soundwave79 Posts: 469 Member
    My wife lost 120 LBS and the boobs were the first to go. She went down at least 2 cup sizes. But you know what... her being healthy, determined, energetic, and happy is so much sexier to me then any one specific physical body part.
  • Michael190lbs
    Michael190lbs Posts: 1,510 Member
    What a dick!! Just be you- the best you can be the rest will sort it self out..
  • mbaker566
    mbaker566 Posts: 11,233 Member
    he's being a butt

    I do like my girls and I'm very sad to see them go but if it means the tummy goes, I guess i can live with it. but I do hope i don't go below a C. then, I might have to pad them up. :open_mouth:
  • LilynEdensmom
    LilynEdensmom Posts: 612 Member
    Lol sounds like my husband, im a natural triple d sometimes e, so honestly if i lose some im not going to care lol, i just dont want to lose to muxh, i told him i would think of some ways to make it to him amd help him deal with the loss ;)
  • ShinyFuture
    ShinyFuture Posts: 314 Member
    jgnatca wrote: »
    You two could have a little private memorial service for what was lost. Good memories. Maybe light a candle and run a slide show.

    *snort*
  • ovidnine
    ovidnine Posts: 314 Member
    If he was serious, your hubby sounds like a dick. Sorry. lol

    My wife gained boobs as she gained weight. I don't mind the weight gain cause I think she looks great and boobs are fun.

    She however is not happy with herself and is actually joining my gym next week (I'm getting her to lift was well as cardio!).

    I know the boobs are going to go away as she loses weight and that makes me a little sad but not as happy as I'll be if she actually starts getting over her body image issues.
  • jemhh
    jemhh Posts: 14,261 Member
    vinsmomma26 wrote: »
    its not just your age, trust me. I can't run without them hitting me in my face (not really) but its uncomfortable! also not rolling over on them while im sleeping haha for some reason I still have milk..even though my son is 4. I dont have enough to fill a bottle, but sometimes my milk will let down..no idea why, im starting to think something is wrong lol I hear you on the bread crumbs :)

    I get phantom letdown feelings, 5.5 years after my daughter weaned. No actual milk though. I would have it checked out if you are producing milk at this point.
  • denelifet
    denelifet Posts: 27 Member
    ovidnine wrote: »
    If he was serious, your hubby sounds like a dick. Sorry. lol

    My wife gained boobs as she gained weight. I don't mind the weight gain cause I think she looks great and boobs are fun.

    She however is not happy with herself and is actually joining my gym next week (I'm getting her to lift was well as cardio!).

    I know the boobs are going to go away as she loses weight and that makes me a little sad but not as happy as I'll be if she actually starts getting over her body image issues.


    exactly!!! Confidence in oneself is more attractive than any boob size...and kudos to you for helping her in the gym to lift weights.

  • hamlet1222
    hamlet1222 Posts: 459 Member
    I do feel sorry for women sometimes, not only having to deal with pms, but worrying about these kind of things. I'm sure your husband will feel more than compensated having a healthier more energetic wife, and if he doesn't then screw him ( or rather don't)
  • mirrim52
    mirrim52 Posts: 763 Member
    I hope he was teasing.
    I definitely lost some boob size when I lost weight, and they weren't big to begin with. But the rest of me is smaller, so it still looks fine :) And I am much healthier than I was before. I don't get tired walking up stairs.
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