my husband told me I better not lose my boobs

Unfortunately, my boobs lost first. RIP. Well, I'm being dramatic. I did go back down to the size they were before I got big, so I only lost what I had gained in them anyway. But the rest of me caught up, so they actually look bigger now than they did before. Optical Illusion--there's always that!

"Thats ok, if you leave me for that reason then I can tell everybody the story of how i lost three boobs."

It's really not something you can predict, though - some women's are mostly actual tissue and will never get super small, some women's are just there because they store a lot of fat there. If you keep losing, sooner or later they'll get smaller regardless (even if proportionately they're still the same cup size - going from a 36DD to a 32DD, for example.) But how much and how fast is kind of up to genetics and where you store/lose fat from.

If it makes you feel better, at my heaviest (BMI of 25) I was about a 32H. Now, with a BMI of 19ish, I'm still a 28G or so (sometimes 28F/FF.) They're smaller for sure but they have definitely not disappeared.

If I go any lower they do seem to shrink substantially pretty quickly (like, at 118 lbs I'm a 28G, at 110 lbs I'm a 28D), but 110 lbs is on the border of underweight for my height, so it's hard to maintain anyway.

Finally, I'll agree with anyone else that it's no one's business but your own, not even your husband excepted. My husband is a chest guy too and he preferred me at my heaviest weight for that reason, but he knows better than to complain or take issue with them now because I'M much happier smaller.

In the words of Sir Mix Alot:

SirMixAlot wrote:

You can do side bends or sit-ups
But please don't lose that butt

My boobs are gone. They went first. But Himself doesn't care. He loves my skinnier a**.

ModernRock wrote: »

"Thats ok, if you leave me for that reason then I can tell everybody the story of how i lost three boobs."

Lucille4444 wrote: »

DavPul wrote: »

vinsmomma26 wrote: »

lol true, im an all natural kind of girl though i wouldn't do it, plus its too expensive

More expensive than divorce?

If someone would divorce their wife over boob size, they are pretty worthless.

YOU DON'T KNOW MY LIFE!

vinsmomma26 wrote: »

he was not serious, hes just a boob man and he was messing with me lol he likes thicker women as well, but I told him its my body and ill do what I want. hes supporting me all the way, no matter what decisions I make lol he can be a dick though but so can most guys.(no offense)

Ha! Well that's okay then! Be warned, though, it may happen. That's where I lost first too. I don't miss them though!

ok so this is not my first time being fat. I got really heavy after my first daughter. Then i kept the weight off for years. I was an E when I was breast feeding her. I stayed steady at a c after i lost the weight. Whe i got super fit I was finally a B. She I stayed at a B for a while I got a breast lift, cause after 3 kids i could have hacky sacked those things. I was able to walk around bras less....not in a weird way, just a cute dress/bralet shirt way. I loved having smaller boobs. I could run without 2 sports bras. I could lay on my side at night with out a sports bra...i even got the cute victorias secret bra...not the plain over the shoulder bolder holder industrial ones.
This last 2 years kicked my butt and i gained a lot of weight; one of my biggest complaint is that my boobs are back. I hate wrestling these things everyday, and forget jogging until these suckers shrink a little

vinsmomma26 wrote: »

yeah he was, im surprised people took it seriously lol I know I will, and im perfectly fine with it, id rather have them smaller!

LOL..why are you surprised "people" took him seriously, when you posted about it?

jgnatca wrote: »

You two could have a little private memorial service for what was lost. Good memories. Maybe light a candle and run a slide show.

This made me LOL!!

I've heard this same thing. I have lost some, but whatever, I had some to spare!