embarrassed about weight loss.

your young its normal to feel that way but as you age its more in embarrassing to have people tell you how fat you have gotten

lmao.i just saw what you re posted on this, and I do feel that way sometimes. It's embaressing because no one really thinks i need to lose weight anymore or that I ever needed to, and it was probably the same way for you (or it is now). It's ackward when people tell me i don't need to lose weight because i don't know what to say to that. I am not going annerexic extremeo either, so idk what's wrong with some people.
I think people who say you don't need to lose any weight are just being honest
and the people who say you are annorexic are honestly just jealous or something
even when my own mother lost weight, i said i thought she was going annerexic (even though she wasn't)
part of it might have been because I was insecure that she was only eating 1400 calories a day-- where as, i was eating around double that, and at the same time, i was not happy with my body.
Most people are going to be insecure about their weight deep down, so if people say you having an eating disorder, don't think anything of it because you know you don't.
and also. i remember when I was a kid. my friends and I would always comment on how skinny some of our friends were. We used to constantly tell them to eat and they were so tiny and stuff, but it was just a joke. I never really thought about how akward it made them feel until now.
but yea =]

I used to be very thin, and I felt self-conscious about other girls. They would say, "Oh, I hate you, you're so skinny!" and then I'd feel bad for accidentally making them feel bad, because clearly they were feeling like they weren't thin enough. Now that I'm losing weight, I find myself back in that headspace, worrying that maybe my weight loss is going to make my friends feel bad about themselves, since many of them are slightly to very overweight, and body image is a common topic. I worry that if I drop weight faster than some of my friends, if that will make them feel discouraged... things like that. It might be dumb, but having girls tell you how much they hate you for being thin (even if they're joking) is really uncomfortable, and I don't want to have that in my adult friendships. I don't want women to feel worse about their bodies than they already do, definitely not my friends that I love and cherish. I want them to be comfortable and confident at whatever size they are, and be happy for me at the size I am... but it's often hard for people to get over the insecurities.

I'm not letting it stop me, of course and I'm very confident that the weight is coming off and that I'm headed in the right direction - but going back to being "the skinny chick" might be hard in some respects. Maybe uncomfortable enough to want to cover up and deflect the attention.

I think being uncomfortable about people commenting on weight loss is perfectly reasonable. Honestly, I feel that my body is nobody's business but my own, but the number of people who make unsolicited comments about other people's bodies is just ridiculous. It's even worse when it comes to pregnancy - I've heard any number of complaints about unsolicited advice and touching.

A few years ago I lost a substantial amount of weight in a short period of time for no apparent reason. I felt horrible, weak, constantly sick, and incredibly worried. Through all this, people who hadn't seen me in a month or so kept complimenting me on my weight loss. It was incredibly invasive and alienating - I was desperately trying not to lose any more!! Eventually, I got so sick of it that whenever someone complimented me I'd tell them 'actually, I'm trying to gain ten pounds'. It put a stop to things pretty quickly.

I don't have that problem now, but I'll always remember that what happens to a person's body on the outside is not always a reliable indicator what happens on the inside. And, incidentally, is not my business until the person in question invites commentary.

In short, I can empathize.