Do you get hit on?

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  • M111111111
    M111111111 Posts: 269 Member
    sparklymo wrote: »
    All the time, don't do anything to attract it, pain in the *kitten* it can be

    You poor thing
  • LiftingRiot
    LiftingRiot Posts: 6,946 Member
    sparklymo wrote: »
    All the time, don't do anything to attract it, pain in the *kitten* it can be

    I don't see it.... Are you sure?
  • champion389
    champion389 Posts: 55 Member
    Yeah that must suck.
  • LiftingRiot
    LiftingRiot Posts: 6,946 Member
    pa_jorg wrote: »
    Single and never. Anyone here want to change that?

    Hey hey hey..... Can I get some fries with that shake????
  • provencal73
    provencal73 Posts: 1,275 Member
    I'm laughing way to hard at some of these
  • jlisa24
    jlisa24 Posts: 305 Member
    sparklymo wrote: »
    All the time, don't do anything to attract it, pain in the *kitten* it can be

    You poor thing

    lol :D:D:D:D
  • KD454
    KD454 Posts: 1,548 Member
    I did get hit on yesterday by my server though :)
  • LiftingRiot
    LiftingRiot Posts: 6,946 Member
    I offended an older lady at new years because I told her I didn't want to dance. She was pretty upset.
  • champion389
    champion389 Posts: 55 Member
    @sparklymo gotta be the eat *kitten* look. Totally approachable
  • _Captivated_
    _Captivated_ Posts: 5,669 Member
    No. It's the resting *kitten* face.
  • sparklymo
    sparklymo Posts: 54 Member
    @sparklymo gotta be the eat *kitten* look. Totally approachable

    1st impressions an all that!! Don't bite really.. Honest!
  • chocolateandpb
    chocolateandpb Posts: 438 Member
    Never. When you're a woman over 30 apparently you become invisible. Or maybe I'm just fugly. :D I'm a friendly and approachable person too, generally have at least a slight smile on my face, so I don't think I give off a "don't talk to me" vibe...so I'm going with fugly. :/

    Im going to go with personality... lol cause your not fugly. haha

    LOL!!! You're probably right. ;) Thanks, I think?! :)
  • jlisa24
    jlisa24 Posts: 305 Member
    I got hit on yesterday at the gym. He asked if I was done yet and I told him no. Then he told me to f off. Im pretty sure its gonna work out.
  • champion389
    champion389 Posts: 55 Member
    @sparklymo I like to bite
  • Iguessicandothis
    Iguessicandothis Posts: 2,132 Member
    jlisa24 wrote: »
    I got hit on yesterday at the gym. He asked if I was done yet and I told him no. Then he told me to f off. Im pretty sure its gonna work out.

    Lol
  • Hey_Its_That_One_Guy
    Hey_Its_That_One_Guy Posts: 21,763 Member
    edited January 2016
    111grace wrote: »
    lol I had to go have ice-cream just to write on this page, to calm myself.

    I for one ABSOLUTELY HATE married men hitting on single woman. How is it you can be having a normal conversation and go to being a disgusting pervert. You would think married men are a safe place to talk to because they are married so their minds are not going to go there with you!! It should be illegal for married men to hit on single woman so gross.

    I once had a man with 7 children hit on me in a lift, and I was friends with his grown up children, and he was old enough to be my father, how disgusting is that. I have never talked to them since, and he said " nobody need know".

    Dear whole world of men, A woman smiling does not mean she is interested in you that way, its just being friendly and she is just feeling happy. For God's sake, woman smile at shoes, puppies, children, handbags, rainbows, sunsets etc. Smiling is just a form of greeting. How does a douche-bag go from a smile to she is interested in you that way.

    A smile is just a Smile ( bubbling inner joy), smile back thats all its like saying Hi I am having a wonderful day, you are not smiling let me cheer you up, like smiling at strangers on the street. Unless a woman drops her pants she is not interested in you in that way, ever. Get that through your heads!! A conversation is just a conversation. And just because we share the same interests ( parachute jumping, photography, white river rafting, micro-lighting, zip-lining, hiking etc does not mean I am into you, ever. And a hug is just a hug, I have a huge family 43 cousins and I hug all of them.

    These perverts must even think air hostess are hitting on them, when its their job to smile all day. Now I have cut back on smiling so much, just because of perverts out there.

    I realized going through trying to get thin again, part of my problem is anger at men & anger at woman ( I watched a movie on tube a few weeks back and realized woman can be disgusting as well). thats another story. being fat keeps you unattractive and therefore safe. Dear God I want this world to be a safe place for children and woman.

    I have seen old men groom young girls with gifts and so on. thats like a pedophile, ( cut of their dicks, dear God.). Those girls need better father figures. A safe place to be.

    Those of you worried about not being hit on, you should be happy. When its time when you want to settle down and have children, you will go looking for a man that will be a great father, and will treat their mother with respect and love.

    Don't be desperate for the wrong kind of attention. Men who say they love you and use that to get in your pants are just liars they are evil men, with no character or worth. Jesus towards those men " lord lord..... why have you forsaken me"

    Go find a hobby lol. An build your self worth and self respect first. ( Align yourself, like wheel alignment lol with the Almighty first.) And loneliness is no reason to be desperate. Go look for quality, And Great Character. This I think personally is very important, when you find the right one, men or women let your family and friends interview them before you jump in with both feet.

    Can men and women be genuine friends? without being hit on? I mean you can not even touch someones arm without it being considered as being hit on.

    Holy serious issues batman. She cray cray. 2 out of the last 3 paragraphs were good. Most of this is just gender bashing though.
  • kchuskey
    kchuskey Posts: 882 Member
    jlisa24 wrote: »
    I got hit on yesterday at the gym. He asked if I was done yet and I told him no. Then he told me to f off. Im pretty sure its gonna work out.

    Haha..
  • synchkat
    synchkat Posts: 37,368 Member
    111grace wrote: »
    lol I had to go have ice-cream just to write on this page, to calm myself.

    I for one ABSOLUTELY HATE married men hitting on single woman. How is it you can be having a normal conversation and go to being a disgusting pervert. You would think married men are a safe place to talk to because they are married so their minds are not going to go there with you!! It should be illegal for married men to hit on single woman so gross.

    I once had a man with 7 children hit on me in a lift, and I was friends with his grown up children, and he was old enough to be my father, how disgusting is that. I have never talked to them since, and he said " nobody need know".

    Dear whole world of men, A woman smiling does not mean she is interested in you that way, its just being friendly and she is just feeling happy. For God's sake, woman smile at shoes, puppies, children, handbags, rainbows, sunsets etc. Smiling is just a form of greeting. How does a douche-bag go from a smile to she is interested in you that way.

    A smile is just a Smile ( bubbling inner joy), smile back thats all its like saying Hi I am having a wonderful day, you are not smiling let me cheer you up, like smiling at strangers on the street. Unless a woman drops her pants she is not interested in you in that way, ever. Get that through your heads!! A conversation is just a conversation. And just because we share the same interests ( parachute jumping, photography, white river rafting, micro-lighting, zip-lining, hiking etc does not mean I am into you, ever. And a hug is just a hug, I have a huge family 43 cousins and I hug all of them.

    These perverts must even think air hostess are hitting on them, when its their job to smile all day. Now I have cut back on smiling so much, just because of perverts out there.

    I realized going through trying to get thin again, part of my problem is anger at men & anger at woman ( I watched a movie on tube a few weeks back and realized woman can be disgusting as well). thats another story. being fat keeps you unattractive and therefore safe. Dear God I want this world to be a safe place for children and woman.

    I have seen old men groom young girls with gifts and so on. thats like a pedophile, ( cut of their dicks, dear God.). Those girls need better father figures. A safe place to be.

    Those of you worried about not being hit on, you should be happy. When its time when you want to settle down and have children, you will go looking for a man that will be a great father, and will treat their mother with respect and love.

    Don't be desperate for the wrong kind of attention. Men who say they love you and use that to get in your pants are just liars they are evil men, with no character or worth. Jesus towards those men " lord lord..... why have you forsaken me"

    Go find a hobby lol. An build your self worth and self respect first. ( Align yourself, like wheel alignment lol with the Almighty first.) And loneliness is no reason to be desperate. Go look for quality, And Great Character. This I think personally is very important, when you find the right one, men or women let your family and friends interview them before you jump in with both feet.

    Can men and women be genuine friends? without being hit on? I mean you can not even touch someones arm without it being considered as being hit on.

    Holy serious issues batman. She cray cray. 2 out of the last 3 paragraphs were good. Most of this is just gender bashing though.

    My little brother certainly is right
  • sparklymo
    sparklymo Posts: 54 Member

    @sparklymo I like to bite

    Lol, a few do, so it seems!
  • Jacwhite22
    Jacwhite22 Posts: 7,010 Member
    edited January 2016
    111grace wrote: »
    lol I had to go have ice-cream just to write on this page, to calm myself.

    I for one ABSOLUTELY HATE married men hitting on single woman. How is it you can be having a normal conversation and go to being a disgusting pervert. You would think married men are a safe place to talk to because they are married so their minds are not going to go there with you!! It should be illegal for married men to hit on single woman so gross.

    I once had a man with 7 children hit on me in a lift, and I was friends with his grown up children, and he was old enough to be my father, how disgusting is that. I have never talked to them since, and he said " nobody need know".

    Dear whole world of men, A woman smiling does not mean she is interested in you that way, its just being friendly and she is just feeling happy. For God's sake, woman smile at shoes, puppies, children, handbags, rainbows, sunsets etc. Smiling is just a form of greeting. How does a douche-bag go from a smile to she is interested in you that way.

    A smile is just a Smile ( bubbling inner joy), smile back thats all its like saying Hi I am having a wonderful day, you are not smiling let me cheer you up, like smiling at strangers on the street. Unless a woman drops her pants she is not interested in you in that way, ever. Get that through your heads!! A conversation is just a conversation. And just because we share the same interests ( parachute jumping, photography, white river rafting, micro-lighting, zip-lining, hiking etc does not mean I am into you, ever. And a hug is just a hug, I have a huge family 43 cousins and I hug all of them.

    These perverts must even think air hostess are hitting on them, when its their job to smile all day. Now I have cut back on smiling so much, just because of perverts out there.

    I realized going through trying to get thin again, part of my problem is anger at men & anger at woman ( I watched a movie on tube a few weeks back and realized woman can be disgusting as well). thats another story. being fat keeps you unattractive and therefore safe. Dear God I want this world to be a safe place for children and woman.

    I have seen old men groom young girls with gifts and so on. thats like a pedophile, ( cut of their dicks, dear God.). Those girls need better father figures. A safe place to be.

    Those of you worried about not being hit on, you should be happy. When its time when you want to settle down and have children, you will go looking for a man that will be a great father, and will treat their mother with respect and love.

    Don't be desperate for the wrong kind of attention. Men who say they love you and use that to get in your pants are just liars they are evil men, with no character or worth. Jesus towards those men " lord lord..... why have you forsaken me"

    Go find a hobby lol. An build your self worth and self respect first. ( Align yourself, like wheel alignment lol with the Almighty first.) And loneliness is no reason to be desperate. Go look for quality, And Great Character. This I think personally is very important, when you find the right one, men or women let your family and friends interview them before you jump in with both feet.

    Can men and women be genuine friends? without being hit on? I mean you can not even touch someones arm without it being considered as being hit on.
    111grace wrote: »
    lol I had to go have ice-cream just to write on this page, to calm myself.

    I for one ABSOLUTELY HATE married men hitting on single woman. How is it you can be having a normal conversation and go to being a disgusting pervert. You would think married men are a safe place to talk to because they are married so their minds are not going to go there with you!! It should be illegal for married men to hit on single woman so gross.

    I once had a man with 7 children hit on me in a lift, and I was friends with his grown up children, and he was old enough to be my father, how disgusting is that. I have never talked to them since, and he said " nobody need know".

    Dear whole world of men, A woman smiling does not mean she is interested in you that way, its just being friendly and she is just feeling happy. For God's sake, woman smile at shoes, puppies, children, handbags, rainbows, sunsets etc. Smiling is just a form of greeting. How does a douche-bag go from a smile to she is interested in you that way.

    A smile is just a Smile ( bubbling inner joy), smile back thats all its like saying Hi I am having a wonderful day, you are not smiling let me cheer you up, like smiling at strangers on the street. Unless a woman drops her pants she is not interested in you in that way, ever. Get that through your heads!! A conversation is just a conversation. And just because we share the same interests ( parachute jumping, photography, white river rafting, micro-lighting, zip-lining, hiking etc does not mean I am into you, ever. And a hug is just a hug, I have a huge family 43 cousins and I hug all of them.

    These perverts must even think air hostess are hitting on them, when its their job to smile all day. Now I have cut back on smiling so much, just because of perverts out there.

    I realized going through trying to get thin again, part of my problem is anger at men & anger at woman ( I watched a movie on tube a few weeks back and realized woman can be disgusting as well). thats another story. being fat keeps you unattractive and therefore safe. Dear God I want this world to be a safe place for children and woman.

    I have seen old men groom young girls with gifts and so on. thats like a pedophile, ( cut of their dicks, dear God.). Those girls need better father figures. A safe place to be.

    Those of you worried about not being hit on, you should be happy. When its time when you want to settle down and have children, you will go looking for a man that will be a great father, and will treat their mother with respect and love.

    Don't be desperate for the wrong kind of attention. Men who say they love you and use that to get in your pants are just liars they are evil men, with no character or worth. Jesus towards those men " lord lord..... why have you forsaken me"

    Go find a hobby lol. An build your self worth and self respect first. ( Align yourself, like wheel alignment lol with the Almighty first.) And loneliness is no reason to be desperate. Go look for quality, And Great Character. This I think personally is very important, when you find the right one, men or women let your family and friends interview them before you jump in with both feet.

    Can men and women be genuine friends? without being hit on? I mean you can not even touch someones arm without it being considered as being hit on.

    Holy serious issues batman. She cray cray. 2 out of the last 3 paragraphs were good. Most of this is just gender bashing though.


    This.....Unless he put his junk in your hand....or your mouth.....or your.....well you get the idea........or offered to....maybe he was just being friendly as well. Just because he talked to you doesn't mean he wanted to have sex with you.
  • yvie63
    yvie63 Posts: 193 Member
    No not that I've noticed lol
  • ThatFatAsianNerd
    ThatFatAsianNerd Posts: 1,415 Member
    edited January 2016
    I offended an older lady at new years because I told her I didn't want to dance. She was pretty upset.


    See, I think you missed an opportunity there. You dance with an "older" lady at somebody's wedding or some occasion like that, you'll probably be waking up next to one of the bridesmaids or some other guest at that same event on the very next morning.

    Then again, NYEvents are different.
  • kchuskey
    kchuskey Posts: 882 Member
    111grace wrote: »
    lol I had to go have ice-cream just to write on this page, to calm myself.

    I for one ABSOLUTELY HATE married men hitting on single woman. How is it you can be having a normal conversation and go to being a disgusting pervert. You would think married men are a safe place to talk to because they are married so their minds are not going to go there with you!! It should be illegal for married men to hit on single woman so gross.

    I once had a man with 7 children hit on me in a lift, and I was friends with his grown up children, and he was old enough to be my father, how disgusting is that. I have never talked to them since, and he said " nobody need know".

    Dear whole world of men, A woman smiling does not mean she is interested in you that way, its just being friendly and she is just feeling happy. For God's sake, woman smile at shoes, puppies, children, handbags, rainbows, sunsets etc. Smiling is just a form of greeting. How does a douche-bag go from a smile to she is interested in you that way.

    A smile is just a Smile ( bubbling inner joy), smile back thats all its like saying Hi I am having a wonderful day, you are not smiling let me cheer you up, like smiling at strangers on the street. Unless a woman drops her pants she is not interested in you in that way, ever. Get that through your heads!! A conversation is just a conversation. And just because we share the same interests ( parachute jumping, photography, white river rafting, micro-lighting, zip-lining, hiking etc does not mean I am into you, ever. And a hug is just a hug, I have a huge family 43 cousins and I hug all of them.

    These perverts must even think air hostess are hitting on them, when its their job to smile all day. Now I have cut back on smiling so much, just because of perverts out there.

    I realized going through trying to get thin again, part of my problem is anger at men & anger at woman ( I watched a movie on tube a few weeks back and realized woman can be disgusting as well). thats another story. being fat keeps you unattractive and therefore safe. Dear God I want this world to be a safe place for children and woman.

    I have seen old men groom young girls with gifts and so on. thats like a pedophile, ( cut of their dicks, dear God.). Those girls need better father figures. A safe place to be.

    Those of you worried about not being hit on, you should be happy. When its time when you want to settle down and have children, you will go looking for a man that will be a great father, and will treat their mother with respect and love.

    Don't be desperate for the wrong kind of attention. Men who say they love you and use that to get in your pants are just liars they are evil men, with no character or worth. Jesus towards those men " lord lord..... why have you forsaken me"

    Go find a hobby lol. An build your self worth and self respect first. ( Align yourself, like wheel alignment lol with the Almighty first.) And loneliness is no reason to be desperate. Go look for quality, And Great Character. This I think personally is very important, when you find the right one, men or women let your family and friends interview them before you jump in with both feet.

    Can men and women be genuine friends? without being hit on? I mean you can not even touch someones arm without it being considered as being hit on.



    I don't want to beat a dead horse any longer, but I just wanted to thank you for this... Most of the day's reading can be boring, but every now and then you come across a gem. This is that little nugget. So you Ma'am are appreciated. You should blog. :)
  • Jacwhite22
    Jacwhite22 Posts: 7,010 Member
    ^Smooth.
  • jlisa24
    jlisa24 Posts: 305 Member
    kchuskey wrote: »
    111grace wrote: »
    lol I had to go have ice-cream just to write on this page, to calm myself.

    I for one ABSOLUTELY HATE married men hitting on single woman. How is it you can be having a normal conversation and go to being a disgusting pervert. You would think married men are a safe place to talk to because they are married so their minds are not going to go there with you!! It should be illegal for married men to hit on single woman so gross.

    I once had a man with 7 children hit on me in a lift, and I was friends with his grown up children, and he was old enough to be my father, how disgusting is that. I have never talked to them since, and he said " nobody need know".

    Dear whole world of men, A woman smiling does not mean she is interested in you that way, its just being friendly and she is just feeling happy. For God's sake, woman smile at shoes, puppies, children, handbags, rainbows, sunsets etc. Smiling is just a form of greeting. How does a douche-bag go from a smile to she is interested in you that way.

    A smile is just a Smile ( bubbling inner joy), smile back thats all its like saying Hi I am having a wonderful day, you are not smiling let me cheer you up, like smiling at strangers on the street. Unless a woman drops her pants she is not interested in you in that way, ever. Get that through your heads!! A conversation is just a conversation. And just because we share the same interests ( parachute jumping, photography, white river rafting, micro-lighting, zip-lining, hiking etc does not mean I am into you, ever. And a hug is just a hug, I have a huge family 43 cousins and I hug all of them.

    These perverts must even think air hostess are hitting on them, when its their job to smile all day. Now I have cut back on smiling so much, just because of perverts out there.

    I realized going through trying to get thin again, part of my problem is anger at men & anger at woman ( I watched a movie on tube a few weeks back and realized woman can be disgusting as well). thats another story. being fat keeps you unattractive and therefore safe. Dear God I want this world to be a safe place for children and woman.

    I have seen old men groom young girls with gifts and so on. thats like a pedophile, ( cut of their dicks, dear God.). Those girls need better father figures. A safe place to be.

    Those of you worried about not being hit on, you should be happy. When its time when you want to settle down and have children, you will go looking for a man that will be a great father, and will treat their mother with respect and love.

    Don't be desperate for the wrong kind of attention. Men who say they love you and use that to get in your pants are just liars they are evil men, with no character or worth. Jesus towards those men " lord lord..... why have you forsaken me"

    Go find a hobby lol. An build your self worth and self respect first. ( Align yourself, like wheel alignment lol with the Almighty first.) And loneliness is no reason to be desperate. Go look for quality, And Great Character. This I think personally is very important, when you find the right one, men or women let your family and friends interview them before you jump in with both feet.

    Can men and women be genuine friends? without being hit on? I mean you can not even touch someones arm without it being considered as being hit on.



    I don't want to beat a dead horse any longer, but I just wanted to thank you for this... Most of the day's reading can be boring, but every now and then you come across a gem. This is that little nugget. So you Ma'am are appreciated. You should blog. :)

    lol please blog @111grace

    You have a fan following now. You're practically famous.

    BTW, I love that you ate ice cream to CALM yourself before writing this. Next time, skip the ice cream, I would love to see what you come up with.
  • LiftingRiot
    LiftingRiot Posts: 6,946 Member
    ^^^Agree
  • M111111111
    M111111111 Posts: 269 Member
    kchuskey wrote: »
    111grace wrote: »
    lol I had to go have ice-cream just to write on this page, to calm myself.

    I for one ABSOLUTELY HATE married men hitting on single woman. How is it you can be having a normal conversation and go to being a disgusting pervert. You would think married men are a safe place to talk to because they are married so their minds are not going to go there with you!! It should be illegal for married men to hit on single woman so gross.

    I once had a man with 7 children hit on me in a lift, and I was friends with his grown up children, and he was old enough to be my father, how disgusting is that. I have never talked to them since, and he said " nobody need know".

    Dear whole world of men, A woman smiling does not mean she is interested in you that way, its just being friendly and she is just feeling happy. For God's sake, woman smile at shoes, puppies, children, handbags, rainbows, sunsets etc. Smiling is just a form of greeting. How does a douche-bag go from a smile to she is interested in you that way.

    A smile is just a Smile ( bubbling inner joy), smile back thats all its like saying Hi I am having a wonderful day, you are not smiling let me cheer you up, like smiling at strangers on the street. Unless a woman drops her pants she is not interested in you in that way, ever. Get that through your heads!! A conversation is just a conversation. And just because we share the same interests ( parachute jumping, photography, white river rafting, micro-lighting, zip-lining, hiking etc does not mean I am into you, ever. And a hug is just a hug, I have a huge family 43 cousins and I hug all of them.

    These perverts must even think air hostess are hitting on them, when its their job to smile all day. Now I have cut back on smiling so much, just because of perverts out there.

    I realized going through trying to get thin again, part of my problem is anger at men & anger at woman ( I watched a movie on tube a few weeks back and realized woman can be disgusting as well). thats another story. being fat keeps you unattractive and therefore safe. Dear God I want this world to be a safe place for children and woman.

    I have seen old men groom young girls with gifts and so on. thats like a pedophile, ( cut of their dicks, dear God.). Those girls need better father figures. A safe place to be.

    Those of you worried about not being hit on, you should be happy. When its time when you want to settle down and have children, you will go looking for a man that will be a great father, and will treat their mother with respect and love.

    Don't be desperate for the wrong kind of attention. Men who say they love you and use that to get in your pants are just liars they are evil men, with no character or worth. Jesus towards those men " lord lord..... why have you forsaken me"

    Go find a hobby lol. An build your self worth and self respect first. ( Align yourself, like wheel alignment lol with the Almighty first.) And loneliness is no reason to be desperate. Go look for quality, And Great Character. This I think personally is very important, when you find the right one, men or women let your family and friends interview them before you jump in with both feet.

    Can men and women be genuine friends? without being hit on? I mean you can not even touch someones arm without it being considered as being hit on.



    I don't want to beat a dead horse any longer, but I just wanted to thank you for this... Most of the day's reading can be boring, but every now and then you come across a gem. This is that little nugget. So you Ma'am are appreciated. You should blog. :)

    He's hitting on you..... And he's probably married.
    Let me hand you some more ice cream
  • Iguessicandothis
    Iguessicandothis Posts: 2,132 Member
    Really wish there was a Like button here.
  • lawandfitness
    lawandfitness Posts: 1,257 Member
    jlisa24 wrote: »
    I got hit on yesterday at the gym. He asked if I was done yet and I told him no. Then he told me to f off. Im pretty sure its gonna work out.

    He totally wanted you!!!
  • MrsMoviestar
    MrsMoviestar Posts: 115 Member
    I always do, but men usually try to feel me out first by doing it subtly. However, they dont get very far because I let them know right off the bat I'm married (though they usually notice my ring seconds into the conversation).