Hi New to Fitness Pal

Name is Vannie and ive been struggling with weight my whole life even as a kid i was over weight a period of time in my life i got into fitness and lost about 35 lbs went from 165 to a healthy 130 at a height of 5'2 medium frame this was after highschool. When i met my now husband i got pregnant with my first child and i blew up i gained over 80lbs ! Went from 145 to 215 lbs !! Ridiculous i know ! It took me 2 years after that to lose all the baby weight and get back to 140 wearing a size 7 and medium in shirts. Now after having my second child i managed to put on roughly 45 lbs then after having the baby i gained another 10 ! The stress of being a new mom again and having a 4 yr old took a toll and i lost my way. I am about 200 lbs right now and unhappy i feel like ive lost that willingness that drive i had to lose weight im so unmotivated I just want to lose the weight in half the time i did the first time but mainly i came here for support ,people that can show me how to find that drive again.

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  • kayew636
    kayew636 Posts: 14 Member
    I'm looking for friends too. I'm 46 years old and I weight 220. I'm trying to get back in shape. Need encouragement
  • Clobern80
    Clobern80 Posts: 714 Member
    Welcome and good luck. You gotta want it for you, have to find that desire or reason that you need to change. I talked with my wife time-and-time-again about needing to lose weight but never found a "reason" to do it. Then I had multiple health scares in my family and friends which got me thinking and I just decided to do it one day. No New Year's Resolution, no challenge or contest, just me wanting to do it.

    Find that Reason :)