Junk food to healthy food

chereenbruce850503 wrote: »

I know red meat is not junk food but it is higher in calories than pork and chicken. My kids want lots of pizza, chili cheese dogs, and burgers.. Fried foods.. Ect... And im trying to find a way to get them to go from that to healthier foods. And a way to try to not eat red meats every day of the week. That way i dont have as much of a temptation to eat the higher in calorie foods. Making healther meals for the family. I am a mom of 4 and trying to make a dinner dor them and something seperate for me that is lower in calories is tough and makes me want to give in sometimes and just what they eat. And i have.and have given up on weight loss because of it in the past.

I have no idea if your children need to change their diets or not, but asking someone else to change their diet because *you* want to change yours typically doesn't work that well.

It sounds like you're wanting them to eat differently so you can eat differently. And I understand it can be a pain to make different things. But look at it from their point of view -- you're asking them to change for you and children aren't always the greatest at being unselfish.

Have you thought about making side dishes that can double as a main dish for you and then using their main dish as a side? That way you can have some of what you like, but fill up on the foods that help you meet your goals? Example: Dinner is pizza and salad (with a protein that meets your needs). You fill up on salad, have a piece of pizza, and everyone else can have the pizza and salad that they want.

Sometimes my husband will want something like fried potato skins for dinner. So we'll make potato skins, I'll have a few with another dish that I've prepared and he'll have mostly potato skins (he is really good at naturally regulating his weight, so he doesn't count calories).

If you need other people to change their diets for you to change yours . . . I don't know if that is sustainable.

You can make some of those things healthy. Use a flatbread crust for make your own pizza. Tacos are easy and usually universally liked. Make spaghetti and meatballs, but use zoodles for you. Have chili cheese dogs one night. Use whole wheat buns, or you skip the bun, turkey dogs, lower fat chili, etc. Use leaner beef or turkey and make burgers. You can eat those foods, just weigh and portion. Make the shift gradually, don't take away all their favorites at once, and still have them sometimes.

Teach your kids to eat what's for dinner or go to bed hungry.

Then make balanced dinners. Nothing wrong with red meat, just pick leaner cuts of meat, and find tasty ways to cook leaner protein that your husband will like.

We do sloppy joes (in fact that is tonight). They way we make them with with ground turkey, bbq sauce, mustard, and various spices. I have started using BBQ with a lot less calories. Tacos, use ground turkey. Steaks, get leaner cuts and partake. Burger night, grill yourself a chicken breast is you are okay with making two meals.

Here's a great turkey meatball recipe. We typically don't go with the spaghetti squash and use regular noodles instead.

http://www.foodnetwork.com/recipes/turkey-meatballs-with-spaghetti-squash-in-tomato-sauce-recipe.html

Just do little switches. Use turkey dogs instead of regular hot dogs. Use turkey sausage for breakfast. I love Hormel Turkey Chili if you go for the canned stuff. My husband made his own dough and made us all personal pizza last night, it totally stayed within my calories and macros.

My son is minorly special needs, part of his issue makes him very picky about food. Little changes and new food introductions being spaced days apart have been a lifesaver for us.

I use piniterest...i make homemade tacos and my kids and hubby like it better...when making spaghetti i make mine with spaghetti squash and the family getss noodles....and i sometimes have half and half for me...that way i can have more...ill buy rotisserie chicken or you can make your own and its in the fridge and ill make quasdisas..wraps...burgers i make them homemade with either ground beef and but for me ill make turkey burgers and put the extra in freezer that way when the family is having a not so healthy meal..ill have the turkey burger

I read someones post about not making the famiky change their eating habits...yes i made my family change..its important that the kids learn to be healthy and my family eats what the chef cooks or they go hungry or make a pb sandwhich...if we tach the kids early enough hopefully when they are older they wont have the health issues are generation has. I try to eat and cook as clean as possible but i do buy quick frozen meals for when the hubby has to cook and like tonight iam making the family favorite mac cheese...it doesnt happen as often as it used to but I do take request lol

I cant think of the website off hand but google fork to fix...amaxing healthy recipes that are kids and hubby aproved

stealthq wrote: »

Francl27 wrote: »

Teach your kids to eat what's for dinner or go to bed hungry.

Then make balanced dinners. Nothing wrong with red meat, just pick leaner cuts of meat, and find tasty ways to cook leaner protein that your husband will like.

Basically.

The world has changed drastically since I was a kid. I never got to choose what was served at any meal until I was able to make it or buy it myself.

OP, the reason most kids are so picky is because they aren't made to try enough new things. There are exceptions - if any of your kids has autism or some other issue then that's a different matter. Then you are likely stuck with needing to cook a separate meal.

Yeah.

I fess up though - we had to bribe our kids with dessert. They have to finish their plate if they want dessert. Now they eat most things willingly (and if not, we ask them to at least try it). We give them SMALL portions though.. and obviously they can get seconds if they want... and even this way they're always 'hungry' after dinner (sigh). So at least I'm not feeling like we're setting them up for eating disorders for making them finish their plate.

And dessert is one scoop of ice cream or a cookie, typically.