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Johnnielow
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John, 55 years old and 297 pounds. Have done every program and plan you can think of and was contemplating Weight Watchers when I found MFP. I am at a time in my life where I need to stop quitting and start getting my butt in gear. I have been married 3 1/2 years to my beautiful wife who is 12 years my junior and am dad to her 2 teenage boys aged 19 and 16 (hate the term step kids so they are my sons). They love the gym but honestly my lack of following any sort of diet for more then 3-4 days at a time has led them to gain unneeded weight as well. I owe them more, and my wife her husband being around and active.
I will support any and all that support me, I also believe in paying it forward. I really need all the motivation I can get and will do the same for you.
Thanks for reading my long intro.
John
I will support any and all that support me, I also believe in paying it forward. I really need all the motivation I can get and will do the same for you.
Thanks for reading my long intro.
John
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I hear ya. Just when i think i find something i lose all motivation. I have to start being accountable. That is what i am hoping the app and my Vivo help me do more than in the past. Good luck. Im on the road right next to you.
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You can do this!0
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I hear ya. Just when i think i find something i lose all motivation. I have to start being accountable. That is what i am hoping the app and my Vivo help me do more than in the past. Good luck. Im on the road right next to you.
I am the same way, after a couple of days I slip a little and use that as a license to pig out. No more, gotta stop. We can do this!!
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hey john, thanks for sharing your story! I know the feeling about dropping the diet after some times since I also did it many times. But honestly, you don't have to seek motivation to be able to do it.. you just do it or don't.. motivation only goes so far, after the motivation is over, what you're left with is the WHY that made you first start it.. WHY do you want to lose weight? and pls don't answer me "it's because I want to be healthy", because that why is not powerful enough to keep you on track.. You need to find your REAL WHY.. is it because you want to be the example for your children? is it because you want to bang your wife real good (I don't mean to be desrespectiful, it's just men's conversation)? Just find your WHY and write it down somewhere you can see it everyday.. of course if your why is the second example I gave, then just write WHY real big in a paper so you can remember it! No one needs to know your WHY, only you.. of course you can share with whoever you want, and if that people can help you, great!
and a side note.. it all only comes down to you, honestly. For example I have a friend that he's huge obese, he's never been that big, and he knows I train hard, he and his girlfriend came to me asking to train together and *kitten* but I can't help him if he can't help himself, and what I meant was "if you don't have the will, you'll not last"..
Well sorry for the long post, but I hope I helped you in any way
Best regards,
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felipeokumurasanches wrote: »hey john, thanks for sharing your story! I know the feeling about dropping the diet after some times since I also did it many times. But honestly, you don't have to seek motivation to be able to do it.. you just do it or don't.. motivation only goes so far, after the motivation is over, what you're left with is the WHY that made you first start it.. WHY do you want to lose weight? and pls don't answer me "it's because I want to be healthy", because that why is not powerful enough to keep you on track.. You need to find your REAL WHY.. is it because you want to be the example for your children? is it because you want to bang your wife real good (I don't mean to be desrespectiful, it's just men's conversation)? Just find your WHY and write it down somewhere you can see it everyday.. of course if your why is the second example I gave, then just write WHY real big in a paper so you can remember it! No one needs to know your WHY, only you.. of course you can share with whoever you want, and if that people can help you, great!
and a side note.. it all only comes down to you, honestly. For example I have a friend that he's huge obese, he's never been that big, and he knows I train hard, he and his girlfriend came to me asking to train together and *kitten* but I can't help him if he can't help himself, and what I meant was "if you don't have the will, you'll not last"..
Well sorry for the long post, but I hope I helped you in any way
Best regards,
Felipe
Felipe, your post did help. I guess that never having a defined "why" has been the reason for so many failures in my past.
My why, I want to be alive to grow old with my wife and see my boys have children and be a grandfather that can play with his grandkids and not just sit and watch. I couldn't do that today, but I will be able to in the future.
And I took no offense to your post at all, I am as big a realist as can be. No need to sugar coat anything with me.
Thanks!!
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Welcome John....set small goals, one day, one step, one pound at a time. Forget the past, each day is a new day. String a few days together and things will add up. You are worth it, the journey is worth it.0
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airangel59 wrote: »Welcome John....set small goals, one day, one step, one pound at a time. Forget the past, each day is a new day. String a few days together and things will add up. You are worth it, the journey is worth it.
Thank you so much!!
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Hey John,
I Started tracking my calories 6 weeks ago. At 5'9" 240 lbs, I decided to make a change... I'm down to 224 and so far, so good.
It's not easy, but it's not impossible either. I track everything I eat without falter. Iv'e turned it in to somewhat of a game. It's become almost fun to figure out my meals and track carbs, protein, and fat.
Occasionally I'll screw up and eat 100-200 calories over what I'm supposed to, but then I remember how I used to eat four slices of pizza, a cheese steak and french fries without a drop of remorse...
I'm taking it day by day and I think that's good advise..
Good luck and keep at it,
Ryan
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RazingOrange wrote: »Hey John,
I Started tracking my calories 6 weeks ago. At 5'9" 240 lbs, I decided to make a change... I'm down to 224 and so far, so good.
It's not easy, but it's not impossible either. I track everything I eat without falter. Iv'e turned it in to somewhat of a game. It's become almost fun to figure out my meals and track carbs, protein, and fat.
Occasionally I'll screw up and eat 100-200 calories over what I'm supposed to, but then I remember how I used to eat four slices of pizza, a cheese steak and french fries without a drop of remorse...
I'm taking it day by day and I think that's good advise..
Good luck and keep at it,
Ryan
Day by day, that is great advice!
Thank you Ryan!!
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Can someone tell my how to add friends here, I have no clue.0
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John, been in your shoes...joined WW more times than I can count...yo yo dieter...lost and regained it all and more. I found MFP right after got diagnosed with Type 2 (June 2012), I'm on day #1353. Hit my goal & have maintained my loss for about a year.0
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airangel59 wrote: »John, been in your shoes...joined WW more times than I can count...yo yo dieter...lost and regained it all and more. I found MFP right after got diagnosed with Type 2 (June 2012), I'm on day #1353. Hit my goal & have maintained my loss for about a year.
That is outstanding, day #1353 is quite an accomplishment!!
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Starting this accountability app. is the best thing in starting to live a healthy life John. I am on day 80, but my husband is on day 280 something.... I stopped because my sons were here visiting and life happens!
To add people just click on the picture, then it shows some options. Click on their name and then you will go to their profile. Just click "add friend". They will get a notice saying you have asked.
Remember losing weight isn't the key to happiness. Happiness is the key to losing weight. Be patient, and if you bite it, you write it. Not being truthful in the logging only hurts you, so be vigilant. I usually log my food after lunch, so then I can see how much I have left for dinner. I make a printout and then cross off what I have eaten and was is planned for dinner. This helps me stay on target.
This is a great journey, and is empowering. Nothing feels as good as getting healthy feels. I also did other programs, but this one is different, because its MINE. I am the leader here, and I choose what I wish to eat, and do.0 -
Starting this accountability app. is the best thing in starting to live a healthy life John. I am on day 80, but my husband is on day 280 something.... I stopped because my sons were here visiting and life happens!
To add people just click on the picture, then it shows some options. Click on their name and then you will go to their profile. Just click "add friend". They will get a notice saying you have asked.
Remember losing weight isn't the key to happiness. Happiness is the key to losing weight. Be patient, and if you bite it, you write it. Not being truthful in the logging only hurts you, so be vigilant. I usually log my food after lunch, so then I can see how much I have left for dinner. I make a printout and then cross off what I have eaten and was is planned for dinner. This helps me stay on target.
This is a great journey, and is empowering. Nothing feels as good as getting healthy feels. I also did other programs, but this one is different, because its MINE. I am the leader here, and I choose what I wish to eat, and do.
Thank you for the words of wisdom and the great advice, it is very much appreciated. I started logging 30 some odd days ago, but not with 100% accuracy. That all stops now.
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I have an index card pile of great sayings, and words of wisdom. I figure I need to "re-program" my brain so this is the last time I will lose these lbs! I go thru the pile every week, my food for thought.
The Most important ingredient in food preparation is my MOOD.
Maybe the journey isn't so much about becoming anything. Maybe it's unbecoming everything that isn't you, so you can be who you were meant to be in the first place.
I gain weight because my head makes food decisions that ignore what my body wants.
(ok there are some for YOUR index card pile. :-) You're welcome. I am old and wise so words of wisdom spew out of my brain all the time. hahaha.0 -
I have an index card pile of great sayings, and words of wisdom. I figure I need to "re-program" my brain so this is the last time I will lose these lbs! I go thru the pile every week, my food for thought.
The Most important ingredient in food preparation is my MOOD.
Maybe the journey isn't so much about becoming anything. Maybe it's unbecoming everything that isn't you, so you can be who you were meant to be in the first place.
I gain weight because my head makes food decisions that ignore what my body wants.
(ok there are some for YOUR index card pile. :-) You're welcome. I am old and wise so words of wisdom spew out of my brain all the time. hahaha.
I love it, thank you!!
One of the favorites of mine is one a friend just gave me. Sick of starting over? Stop giving up!!
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Starting this accountability app. is the best thing in starting to live a healthy life John. I am on day 80, but my husband is on day 280 something.... I stopped because my sons were here visiting and life happens!
To add people just click on the picture, then it shows some options. Click on their name and then you will go to their profile. Just click "add friend". They will get a notice saying you have asked.
Remember losing weight isn't the key to happiness. Happiness is the key to losing weight. Be patient, and if you bite it, you write it. Not being truthful in the logging only hurts you, so be vigilant. I usually log my food after lunch, so then I can see how much I have left for dinner. I make a printout and then cross off what I have eaten and was is planned for dinner. This helps me stay on target.
This is a great journey, and is empowering. Nothing feels as good as getting healthy feels. I also did other programs, but this one is different, because its MINE. I am the leader here, and I choose what I wish to eat, and do.
great advice
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yep, sound advice.
Take pleasure in persevering, that's what separates those who keep pushing forward from those who throw in the towel.
I don't wish for this journey to be my "one of many" tried and failed attempts. I will get it right this go around.0 -
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