women who workout with men is it a distraction

edwardmack23
edwardmack23 Posts: 51 Member
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  • cmDaffy
    cmDaffy Posts: 6,991 Member
    No, but then again, they consider me one of them, I spot them, they spot me...
  • edwardmack23
    edwardmack23 Posts: 51 Member
    [qucmDaffy;35538672"]No, but then again, they consider me one of them, I spot them, they spot me...[/quote]

    That's cool So everybody is working
  • Peter_Brady
    Peter_Brady Posts: 3,750 Member
    Distraction in what way, and to who?

    There are a lot of male & female workout partners at my gym and almost all of them blend in with everyone else at the gym. There are a couple of couples that are pretty obnoxious with their lovebird behavior.
  • oh_happy_day
    oh_happy_day Posts: 1,137 Member
    No. We're working out hard and focusing on doing our thing.
  • edwardmack23
    edwardmack23 Posts: 51 Member
    Non_Stop wrote: »
    I'm there to be a beast, I will not be distracted.

    Indeed
  • Iguessicandothis
    Iguessicandothis Posts: 2,132 Member
    I'm too busy concentrating on my form and remembering to breathe. But while I'm stretching, it's nice to have a pleasant view to (discreetly) enjoy.
  • _SpookyKitten
    _SpookyKitten Posts: 35 Member
    I hate people
    Do not work out with anyone
    Lol
  • Kenda2427
    Kenda2427 Posts: 1,592 Member
    I typically only notice people who hog equipment, basically I just do my own thing. That said, I don't like the weight room with the big muscle bound guys grunting and dropping heavy weights. I just do my lifting in another area and it doesn't matter whose around there we are all pretty mellow, doing our own thing.
  • kk_inprogress
    kk_inprogress Posts: 3,077 Member
    Nope.
  • AlphaCajun
    AlphaCajun Posts: 290 Member
    I hate people
    Do not work out with anyone
    Lol

    :D This is so me lmao
  • hel11b
    hel11b Posts: 12 Member
    For me working out with men, especially while weight training helps me push myself more because I secretly want to lift as much weight as them (I do crossfit) and sometimes I can and it's really rewarding knowing that my gains transcend gender lines at times it's soo satisfying. Most of the time you end up so focused on your own progress and workout that it doesn't make any difference whatsoever. I also grew up with a brother though and we were always super competitive with each other, so that might be why I feel that way.
  • DoNotSpamMe73
    DoNotSpamMe73 Posts: 286 Member
    You have an issue with working out with girls or guys don't go to a co ed gym. Seriously though I never see any negative distraction in a gym, in fact I find people encouraged a lot.
  • hel11b
    hel11b Posts: 12 Member
    On another note they can also be extremely encouraging without babying you and letting you slack in your workout, that's how the guys at my gym are at least.
  • zyxst
    zyxst Posts: 9,149 Member
    AlphaCajun wrote: »
    I hate people
    Do not work out with anyone
    Lol

    :D This is so me lmao

    We should get together, except we hate people, so ...
  • faithhope7777
    faithhope7777 Posts: 11 Member
    Since I'm fairly new to working out , I'm so glad I pushed past my old self to get there , I'm proud of anyone that made the trip to the gym ( male or female)
  • Peter_Brady
    Peter_Brady Posts: 3,750 Member
    Kenda2427 wrote: »
    I typically only notice people who hog equipment

    And this is usually the only time I ever notice the rare lovebird behavior, when I am looking to get on a piece of equipment and they are carrying on. If they are hard at work, I think nothing of it. But if you are there to flirt with each other, stay out of the f'ing squat rack.
  • positivepowers
    positivepowers Posts: 902 Member
    I hate people
    Do not work out with anyone
    Lol

    This.
  • AbigailC17
    AbigailC17 Posts: 78 Member
    Distracted? The only thing I was distracted about was their thought of me being in the weight room. As a first timer, it was my biggest fear. Their criticism of me like my form is off, and she doesn't know what she is doing thought was the one distracting me from doing my "own" thing. Years passed of weightlifting. I am more concerned about activating certain muscles I want to feel. I get in the gym, and I do not let anyone distract me. I am in the gym to lift and look at myself in the mirror lmao
  • synchkat
    synchkat Posts: 37,368 Member
    This is why I don't go to the gym. I don't want to distract people that's when injuries happen Hahah
  • Cindy4FunFit
    Cindy4FunFit Posts: 2,732 Member
    The only thing I ever found truly distracting in a gym setting was this guy with an amazing form to his run; he had an attractive gait. (He was well rounded fitness- did lifting & cardio.) it was hypnotic to watch him run. No one has ever been his equal IMO and it inspired me to pursue "proper" running form.
  • edwardmack23
    edwardmack23 Posts: 51 Member
    synchkat wrote: »
    This is why I don't go to the gym. I don't want to distract people that's when injuries happen Hahah
  • cwolfman13
    cwolfman13 Posts: 41,865 Member
    I'm a guy, but I'm going to say no...there are plenty of women who work out in my gym...they seem to be pretty focused on the task at hand. Everyone is there for the same reason...to crush it.
  • JustMissTracy
    JustMissTracy Posts: 6,338 Member
    I remember this one guy distracting me once.....not sure what he was doing, but he kept making this huge "OOOOOF" sound behind me, every time he got to the top of his move....lol....another guy distracted me by getting on a treadmill in his thick wool sweater and dress shoes....the sweater smelled like he hadn't washed it in three years....VERY distracting!! I don't think this is what you meant tho...lol
  • devil_in_a_blue_dress
    devil_in_a_blue_dress Posts: 5,214 Member
    Are you asking women if men are a distraction? Or are you asking if women are a distraction?

    I only notice people acting stupid (equipment hog, using the power rack for bw squats, curls or other exercises that can be done elsewhere, horrendous form). And even then, I notice it - lol/grumble in my head and do what I am there to do.
  • primadonna__
    primadonna__ Posts: 2 Member
    At the beginning of my weight loss journey I found that my big old sweaty *kitten* was the distraction for others. It depends a whole lot on the gym. I used to go to an obnoxious, pretentious stepford-housewives-who-go-to-socialise-and-read-a-magazine kinda gym, and some of the people (men and women) seemed to genuinely be disgusted that a fat person would go to a gym to lose weight (ew, can you imagine?!). It really didn't bother me though, in fact it kind of motivated me to look that little bit better each time I went. Other than that I find others motivating, from the overweight person sweating their *kitten* off who makes you think "anyone can do it" to the sexy men who make you think "gimme -10 more kg and i'll bag your divine *kitten*" to the perfect looking women with perfect bodies in their perfect gym attire with matching shoes who make you think "I can be you too!" (i'm a straight female, btw). I think if other people distract you at the gym that reflects your own pessimistic attitude, you're there for yourself, right?!
  • AbigailC17
    AbigailC17 Posts: 78 Member
    edited February 2016
    The only thing I ever found truly distracting in a gym setting was this guy with an amazing form to his run; he had an attractive gait. (He was well rounded fitness- did lifting & cardio.) it was hypnotic to watch him run. No one has ever been his equal IMO and it inspired me to pursue "proper" running form.
    This post made me realize something (super embarrassed). How can I forget it! Well... there is this guy in my military gym. No one really caught my attention till he came in. He works out like a beast. Deadlifting super heavy in good form and his squats are amazing as well. Yes, those things distracted me but let me tell you. He has the most perkiest and muscular butt I have ever seen. He has good physique overall but his nice bum stands out the most. Anyway, dirty thoughts come to my mind haha. The thing I find the most attractive feature of a man is his Glutes. Back topic, I do not workout in the mornings anymore because that's when he usually comes. I don't want to come off as a gym creeper!
    911s1xp9s22c.png This Insta pic made me lol cuz I'm so glad that I'm not alone on this!
  • ninerbuff
    ninerbuff Posts: 48,989 Member
    Nah. What's distracting are dudes that stay in front of the mirror flexing and really don't have much muscle to flex.

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  • lizwrites1313
    lizwrites1313 Posts: 160 Member
    It doesn't bother me personally. I like people watching at the gym.
  • JustMissTracy
    JustMissTracy Posts: 6,338 Member
    mayabardon wrote: »
    The only thing I ever found truly distracting in a gym setting was this guy with an amazing form to his run; he had an attractive gait. (He was well rounded fitness- did lifting & cardio.) it was hypnotic to watch him run. No one has ever been his equal IMO and it inspired me to pursue "proper" running form.
    This post made me realize something (super embarrassed). How can I forget it! Well... there is this guy in my military gym. No one really caught my attention till he came in. He works out like a beast. Deadlifting super heavy in good form and his squats are amazing as well. Yes, those things distracted me but let me tell you. He has the most perkiest and muscular butt I have ever seen. He has good physique overall but his nice bum stands out the most. Anyway, dirty thoughts come to my mind haha. The thing I find the most attractive feature of a man is his Glutes. Back topic, I do not workout in the mornings anymore because that's when he usually comes. I don't want to come off as a gym creeper!
    911s1xp9s22c.png This Insta pic made me lol cuz I'm so glad that I'm not alone on this!

    This has already distracted me twice...
  • FitGirl0123
    FitGirl0123 Posts: 1,273 Member
    Nope not at all. We are there to lift.