Am I Being Too Unrealistic ?
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Capt_Apollo wrote: »myheartsabattleground wrote: »Talking to someone a while back, about how I would love a marriage where my husband wakes myself and his children (my step children) up, and tells me to get up, get changed and pack because he booked a last second trip to [insert place I went once, and would love to go again here].
"Hey baby, I know it's 6:30am... but get changed and pack. I've already got the kids up and the dogs in their vacation home. Just called the office and I'm using my unused vacation time to say... we're driving down to Rehoboth beach for a week!"
I bet you also want to be surprised with a car in the driveway on Christmas morning, right?? Without any concern about how much any of this cost or finances etc etc.
Grow up.
I want one with a red bow this year, the green wasn't my color.0 -
Capt_Apollo wrote: »myheartsabattleground wrote: »Talking to someone a while back, about how I would love a marriage where my husband wakes myself and his children (my step children) up, and tells me to get up, get changed and pack because he booked a last second trip to [insert place I went once, and would love to go again here].
"Hey baby, I know it's 6:30am... but get changed and pack. I've already got the kids up and the dogs in their vacation home. Just called the office and I'm using my unused vacation time to say... we're driving down to Rehoboth beach for a week!"
I bet you also want to be surprised with a car in the driveway on Christmas morning, right?? Without any concern about how much any of this cost or finances etc etc.
Grow up.
Porsche, please.0 -
I'd like to think imma be like that...especially since i love Rehoboth Beach. But on all seriousness Ive already started save for all the vacations i would like to take with my future wife, just because im having a boring 20s life lol.0
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Capt_Apollo wrote: »myheartsabattleground wrote: »Talking to someone a while back, about how I would love a marriage where my husband wakes myself and his children (my step children) up, and tells me to get up, get changed and pack because he booked a last second trip to [insert place I went once, and would love to go again here].
"Hey baby, I know it's 6:30am... but get changed and pack. I've already got the kids up and the dogs in their vacation home. Just called the office and I'm using my unused vacation time to say... we're driving down to Rehoboth beach for a week!"
I bet you also want to be surprised with a car in the driveway on Christmas morning, right?? Without any concern about how much any of this cost or finances etc etc.
Grow up.
Don't be ridiculous!
Just make sure my Hellcat has the 6.2 liter Hemi. I don't need a silly bow.0 -
Capt_Apollo wrote: »myheartsabattleground wrote: »Talking to someone a while back, about how I would love a marriage where my husband wakes myself and his children (my step children) up, and tells me to get up, get changed and pack because he booked a last second trip to [insert place I went once, and would love to go again here].
"Hey baby, I know it's 6:30am... but get changed and pack. I've already got the kids up and the dogs in their vacation home. Just called the office and I'm using my unused vacation time to say... we're driving down to Rehoboth beach for a week!"
I bet you also want to be surprised with a car in the driveway on Christmas morning, right?? Without any concern about how much any of this cost or finances etc etc.
Grow up.
Wow @Capt_Apollo, tell us how you really feel.0 -
Depends, did he clear taking the kids out of state with his ex?0
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myheartsabattleground wrote: »Talking to someone a while back, about how I would love a marriage where my husband wakes myself and his children (my step children) up, and tells me to get up, get changed and pack because he booked a last second trip to [insert place I went once, and would love to go again here].
"Hey baby, I know it's 6:30am... but get changed and pack. I've already got the kids up and the dogs in their vacation home. Just called the office and I'm using my unused vacation time to say... we're driving down to Rehoboth beach for a week!"
If he really loved you, he would wake you up to take you to Aruba. Just break up.0 -
Capt_Apollo wrote: »myheartsabattleground wrote: »Talking to someone a while back, about how I would love a marriage where my husband wakes myself and his children (my step children) up, and tells me to get up, get changed and pack because he booked a last second trip to [insert place I went once, and would love to go again here].
"Hey baby, I know it's 6:30am... but get changed and pack. I've already got the kids up and the dogs in their vacation home. Just called the office and I'm using my unused vacation time to say... we're driving down to Rehoboth beach for a week!"
I bet you also want to be surprised with a car in the driveway on Christmas morning, right?? Without any concern about how much any of this cost or finances etc etc.
Grow up.
Wow @Capt_Apollo, tell us how you really feel.
I'll tell you how he really feels...
Wait what?0 -
Mr_Bad_Example wrote: »myheartsabattleground wrote: »Talking to someone a while back, about how I would love a marriage where my husband wakes myself and his children (my step children) up, and tells me to get up, get changed and pack because he booked a last second trip to [insert place I went once, and would love to go again here].
"Hey baby, I know it's 6:30am... but get changed and pack. I've already got the kids up and the dogs in their vacation home. Just called the office and I'm using my unused vacation time to say... we're driving down to Rehoboth beach for a week!"
If he really loved you, he would wake you up to take you to Aruba. Just break up.
Right? Rehoboth is so ... domestic.0 -
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"Am I Being Too Unrealistic ?"
*Rolls eyes, sees brain*
To answer your question, yes.
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Everyone deserves to be in a relationship with someone who's thoughtful and caring (provided you're giving as you're receiving), but it's unrealistic to expect someone to know the particulars of what you want without telling them. Not to mention, incredibly unfair. There's nothing wrong with dropping hints or even flat-out telling someone what you like/want. However, we can't control the actions of others, so it may or may not happen. Try to be less focused on a particular outcome and more appreciative of all of the good in your relationship, current or in the future. Happiness =/= any one thing (even if a surprise beach trip sounds incredibly awesome).0
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Sounds delightful! Maybe play the role you want him to play; show him how its done! Giving CAN be as satisfying, if not more satisfying than receiving!0
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This is such a bizarrely specific fantasy.0
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For real?0
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