Do your spouse or boyfriend look at skinnier women

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  • zoeysasha37
    zoeysasha37 Posts: 7,088 Member
    kshama2001 wrote: »
    nikkithefatmodel wrote: »
    ???? My does it n I hate it

    You're married to her? I didn't get that impression from your last thread. Congrats! I think it's wonderful that your being of the same gender no longer prohibits you from being married.

    Since you hate her looking at skinnier women, and you are planning another butt augmentation, how does she feel about your upcoming procedure?
    kshama2001 wrote: »
    nikkithefatmodel wrote: »
    ???? My does it n I hate it

    You're married to her? I didn't get that impression from your last thread. Congrats! I think it's wonderful that your being of the same gender no longer prohibits you from being married.

    Since you hate her looking at skinnier women, and you are planning another butt augmentation, how does she feel about your upcoming procedure?

    I was also wondering this
  • Angela937
    Angela937 Posts: 514 Member
    Non_Stop wrote: »
    Your user name...stop it. Stop it right now. Don't be non_stop.

    Do you ever check out a hot guy? Enjoy sexy actors in movies? Same thing!
  • Angela937
    Angela937 Posts: 514 Member
    Non_Stop wrote: »
    Your user name...stop it. Stop it right now. Don't be non_stop.

    I meant to quote the author of this post, sorry!
  • Angela937
    Angela937 Posts: 514 Member
    nikkithefatmodel wrote: »
    ???? My does it n I hate it

    Do you ever check out a hot guy? Or a sexy actor in a movie? Same thing!
  • TavistockToad
    TavistockToad Posts: 35,719 Member
    Non_Stop wrote: »
    peppermintpudgy wrote: »
    Ummmmmm. No. Wouldn't marry a person who disrespected me like that. My body pillow is a total gentleman and only has eyes for me.

    On what planet do you live?

    :laugh:
  • callsitlikeiseeit
    callsitlikeiseeit Posts: 8,626 Member
    my ex did. my boyfriend does. skinnier, bigger, whatever catches their eye.

    we ALL look. as long as hes not going after it physically or emotionally, its not a big deal.

    i love my gym eye candy ;)
  • bunnerfly
    bunnerfly Posts: 197 Member
    We both look at women/men we find attractive. Occasionally, we'll discuss it, as I find a lot of the women he finds attractive, attractive as well.

    If he was openly comparing me to other women... Now that would be an issue. I think most of the issue comes when a partner compares THEMSELVES to someone else, and gets pissy because they feel inferior in some way because of their own insecurities.
  • bunnerfly
    bunnerfly Posts: 197 Member
    peppermintpudgy wrote: »
    Ummmmmm. No. Wouldn't marry a person who disrespected me like that. My body pillow is a total gentleman and only has eyes for me.

    I like you.

  • edwardmack23
    edwardmack23 Posts: 51 Member
    Well I like them thick so I look at thicker women but it's only a look
  • zyxst
    zyxst Posts: 9,149 Member
    senecarr wrote: »
    I just turn my waifu's eyes if she does that.
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    Guy on the left is pretty hot even though I only see half his face. 8/10 WB
  • trjjoy
    trjjoy Posts: 666 Member
    I've never seen him look at another woman. Ever. I'm sure he looks, but he's probably super discreet about it.
  • pie_eyes
    pie_eyes Posts: 12,964 Member
    HeidiMightyRawr wrote: »
    He looks at women he finds attractive, as do I with men I find attractive - but I don't think either of us make it obvious! Sometimes those women are skinnier, sometimes they're not. I honestly don't think their weight or size enters his head, it's more just physical attraction. If he finds them attractive, he'll look.

    The way I see it, it's natural to be attracted to others. It's only bad when he disrespects you in the process...makes you feel less attractive than them, puts you down, compares you or makes a point of looking / checking them out when he knows it upsets you (there are ways to be subtle!)

    If he's not doing any of those things and he makes you feel attractive, wanted, loved, I don't see the issue. Not saying it's not common to feel the way you are, lots of people do, men and women. I just think it's mostly due to insecurities on their part, which need to be addressed so you don't feel bad in the future. Because nobody deserves to feel like that.

    That accept I mostly don't look at other men

    Very rare for me
  • KeepingUpWithKari
    KeepingUpWithKari Posts: 287 Member
    Lol. Im ok with it cause I look at women and men hahaha
  • ladymuaythai
    ladymuaythai Posts: 1,298 Member
    Not that I'm aware of lmao. I'm sure if I noticed his neck would get snapped :lol:
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