I'm scared to go under a knife!!!

Acke1956
Acke1956 Posts: 1 Member
edited April 2016 in Health and Weight Loss
Hey. I’m 25 and my BMI ratio is around 29. I am quite worried about my weight. I am a teacher by profession. It really hurts when my students make fun of my figure. I tried dieting and exercise but I could only burn out a few calories. I am seriously considering a liposuction procedure in Toronto. But I’m scared to go under a knife. My friend says it is a very common procedure. How much fat can be removed using this procedure? Is there any chance of regaining the lost fat? Your suggestions are highly valuable!
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  • ElJefeChief
    ElJefeChief Posts: 650 Member
    edited April 2016
    My suggestion (and pardon me for being blunt)? Don't do it. Get your BMI down into the 22-23 range (using MFP, of course), get into a good exercise routine, and reap the benefits.

    If you had a BMI in the 40+ range and a significant history of failing diets, I might support getting gastric bypass based on medical necessity, but lipo is by definition a medically unnecessary procedure and IMHO silly for basically a person who could just stand to reduce their intake a bit and step up their fitness routine. You say you've tried. Try harder.

    You're 25, I'm sure you have better things to spend your money on. Spend it on a personal trainer, maybe a gym membership perhaps.
  • kaitlinfurby13
    kaitlinfurby13 Posts: 25 Member
    I wouldn't do it either. Lipo is really for people who are at their goal weight but have a specific area where they accumulate fat that they have trouble getting rid of through diet and exercise. If you are just looking to lose weight it won't do much for you.
  • fishshark
    fishshark Posts: 1,886 Member
    edited April 2016
    ive had plastic surgery (not lipo) and a good dr wont operate on you if you need to lose a lot of weight... unfortunately "good" drs are few and far between. it could seem like a quick fix but the % of over weight or high bf% people who gain it back after lip is insane because lifestyle changes were not made. My over wightish aunt has had lipo 4 times because her lifestyle. Kids are insensitive *kitten* so try not to let that get to you. If you were really exercising you would burn more then a few calories. Weight loss is slow and it takes so much hard work. Its hard and it sucks sometimes. My suggestion would be to work that butt off.. literally... and take the money you would spend on lipo and go on a bad *kitten* vacation during the summer. Lipo unfortunately is for skinny people that need the last bit off. you can do it if you want it.... when i was a kid i wanted to punch my mom (not literally) when she would tell me patience is a virtue and with weightloss its true.

    edit- when it says "kitten" it means i cussed so use ur imagination haha.
  • KateTii
    KateTii Posts: 886 Member
    All liposuction does is remove fat. Your body will happily put it back there if you're eating too much. There is a 100% chance you will regain the fat if you don't change the habits that put it there.

    The easiest way to lose weight is by diet - use this site and a food scale to count your calories and the weight will come off. It's much easier to not eat to excess than it is to exercise to excess.
  • kommodevaran
    kommodevaran Posts: 17,890 Member
    edited April 2016
    Acke1956 wrote: »
    Hey. I’m 25 and my BMI ratio is around 29. I am quite worried about my weight. I am a teacher by profession. It really hurts when my students make fun of my figure. I tried dieting and exercise but I could only burn out a few calories. I am seriously considering a liposuction procedure in Toronto. But I’m scared to go under a knife. My friend says it is a very common procedure. How much fat can be removed using this procedure? Is there any chance of regaining the lost fat? Your suggestions are highly valuable!

    At 29 you are overweight, but not obese, according to BMI. Kids will always look for weak spots, don't let them tear you down. And don't go under the knife to lose weight. Yes, it will come back if you do. True weight loss is achieved by taking in fewer calories than you burn. This means eating a little less and/or moving a little more, consistently, over time. It also means that you have to stop trying. Just do. Be serious about it, without depriving or exhausting yourself. You don't have to, and really shouldn't, do any drastic/weird stuff. Make a plan that you think you can stick to, and want to stick to, and follow it. Start with plotting in your stats in guided setup and pick a weight loss goal of 1.5 pounds per week. Use your food diary, weigh and log all your food. Then readjust goal to lose more slowly as you enter "normal" BMI. That's it. Done correctly, this will make you lose weight at a healthy rate.
  • size102b
    size102b Posts: 1,370 Member
    My grandmother in law had lipo then regained all the fat lost within weeks as she didn't change her lifestyle
    You I'd show those kids they are wrong by getting a new lifestyle tbh your barely overweight so I'm sure as said they're just being horrible as its bothering you it's working. On your profession you'll need to get used to it if it's not your weight it'll be your butt or nose or hair or relationship status.
    Ignore them that's the way it'll get to bullies more.
  • LivingtheLeanDream
    LivingtheLeanDream Posts: 13,342 Member
    Why can't you just go about weight loss the way that millions of people already do - count your calories, move more than you currently do and slowly and steady you will lose weight...
  • LazSommer
    LazSommer Posts: 1,851 Member
    I thought teachers were underpaid? Counting calories and exercise are more work but much cheaper than getting your fat vacuumed out.
  • Lounmoun
    Lounmoun Posts: 8,423 Member
    Acke1956 wrote: »
    Hey. I’m 25 and my BMI ratio is around 29. I am quite worried about my weight. I am a teacher by profession. It really hurts when my students make fun of my figure. I tried dieting and exercise but I could only burn out a few calories. I am seriously considering a liposuction procedure in Toronto. But I’m scared to go under a knife. My friend says it is a very common procedure. How much fat can be removed using this procedure? Is there any chance of regaining the lost fat? Your suggestions are highly valuable!

    I would not do liposuction.
    My suggestion is to use MFP. It is free and not painful or scary.
    Put in your correct age, height, weight and activity level and a reasonable goal like 1 lb a week. Start logging everything you consume as accurately as you can- get a food scale. Stick to your calorie goal. Reduce portion sizes of higher calorie foods. Increase your consumption of lower calorie foods like vegetables. Try to get enough protein. Eat in a way that you can for the rest of your life instead of a temporary diet. Be prepared for weight loss to take time... a year or more even.
    Exercise is good for your health. You can lose weight without exercise though as long as you have a calorie deficit. Do some moderate exercise. Log it and eat a portion of your exercise calories.

  • cb2bslim
    cb2bslim Posts: 153 Member
    My bmi was 28.0 when I started this last year. My first day of treadmill exercise was two 10 minute walks at 2.5 mph and 3.0 mph. The following week I was able to do 30 minutes at time. You will begin to exercise longer and harder at the weeks go on.

    You can do this yourself;) Weight loss can come free if you apply the correct tools. It's great to obtain a few friends who have the same goals. The friends are a great bonus for motivation, inspiration, giggles.... the list goes on.

    "My preference" when it comes to food choices are to try and stay away from prepackaged meals. I changed my white sliced bread to whole grain. Up your fiber gradually. Buy a food scale and use it.

    Here are some of my favorite meals: (entire whole) egg veggie & cheese omelet, PB&J, baked potato with broccoli and shredded cheddar, stew meat cooked w/ bullion cube over brown rice and veggie. Aim for the foods that you like. I eat everyday and it feels like I'm not dieting. It feels like I'm eating healthy with a grin on my face.

    A quick note on how I first started out. I followed a very strict high protein/low carb diet. Day in and day out it was the same foods. Egg whites every morning. I only lasted 2 weeks with the egg whites and lasted 1 month on that diet. However, I learned from that diet. It opened my mind to a healthier eating. And I found my new love for Greek yogurt. lol

    If you have the money for lipo, I suggest that you save it, join us mfp'ers, lose the weight and buy yourself a whole new kick *kitten* wardrobe when you hit goal. You can do this!!!

  • Owlfan88
    Owlfan88 Posts: 187 Member
    I would suggest some sort of activity tracker. You can get an app for your phone to count steps (but then you have to be carrying your phone all the time). I tried a couple of the cheaper trackers before getting a Fitbit charge HR for Christmas. The others worked, but I really liked the Fitbit challenges and the ability to sync with MFP. It really opened my eyes to how little I moved some days.
  • HamsterManV2
    HamsterManV2 Posts: 449 Member
    edited April 2016
    Here are some tips:

    Weight gain/loss is determined by one thing alone: calories in vs calories out. Simply go on google, type in "TDEE Calculator", and enter you age, height, sex, weight, and activity level.

    Using that number, eat -500 calories of that daily to lose 1lb per week. No ifs or buts. That means you might have to buy a digital weight scale and have a myfitnesspal account, and start measuring every single thing you put in your mouth for weeks and months. It takes 3500 calories of deficit a week for 1 lb of weight loss, so -500 calories daily will get you there.

    Remember, overweight people tend to underestimate how much they are eating (and inversely, underweight people overestimate how much they eat).

    Additional tips:
    Drink lots of water so you are not always hungry
    Drink a glass of water before a meal, it will help fill you up before you eat
    Replace sodas with diet sodas - 0 calories so that helps keep it low
    Eat lots of single ingredient foods - fish, chicken, fruits, etc. Obviously dressed to how you like it, but beware - sauces with olive oil or ranch is high in calories.
    Once your weight gets low enough, you can go at a -250 calories deficit for a loss of 0.5lbs per week (aka a slow cut).

    Beware: Fruit juices (filled with sugar and calories), too many nuts, spreadables (i.e. peanut butter), shakes (400 calories?? That's 2/3s of my meal!), starbucks fraps, and frozen microwavable meals.

    And remember, it is a marathon, not a sprint. The longer it takes for you to get to your goal, the more permanent it is. Losing 1 lb weekly = ~50lbs in a year, and I promise you this change is much more permanent than going for surgery. Please note that weight loss is not linear (pre this graph) but the general trend should be going down. Frankly, you don't need surgery to solve this, so do the above and you won't recognize yourself in a year.
  • Muscleflex79
    Muscleflex79 Posts: 1,917 Member
    lipo is more about body reshaping than weight loss - and everything will definitely come back if/when you go back to old habits.
  • snowflake954
    snowflake954 Posts: 8,399 Member
    People always think these surgeries are "No big deal". Whenever you have a procedure like this done, you put yourself at risk. It's a good idea to do it when you really need to. That's just my opinion, and I've had 3 c-sections.
  • Packerjohn
    Packerjohn Posts: 4,855 Member
    Several things:
    • Lipo is not the answer, as others have mentioned, it is a temporary fix at best, without behavior changes the weight will be back. Watch the diet and exercise.
    • If the kids are making disrespectful comments about your weight they are going to be doing the same with classmates. As an adult/teacher, it is your job to teach them respect/consideration for others, including proper discipline if they choose not to show respect.
    • Kids have been making fun of their teacher's appearance since the beginning of time, regardless of what the teacher looked like. Grow a thicker skin. If you can't, maybe teaching kids isn't the right field for you.
    Best of luck.
  • emmaprocopiou
    emmaprocopiou Posts: 246 Member
    I was around a bmi of 33 when I started on mfp back in Nov , I'm now around 26 and aiming for around 22/23.
    Don't let the taunts get to you, make it give you the push to do something about it in a healthy way.
    Log in your stats and start losing weight by following your deficit , it really is tha easy
  • coreyreichle
    coreyreichle Posts: 1,031 Member
    Acke1956 wrote: »
    Hey. I’m 25 and my BMI ratio is around 29. I am quite worried about my weight. I am a teacher by profession. It really hurts when my students make fun of my figure. I tried dieting and exercise but I could only burn out a few calories. I am seriously considering a liposuction procedure in Toronto. But I’m scared to go under a knife. My friend says it is a very common procedure. How much fat can be removed using this procedure? Is there any chance of regaining the lost fat? Your suggestions are highly valuable!

    Don't go under the knife. Eat fewer calories than you burn, and exercise more.

    I went from a BMI of 31 last year, to a BMI of 23 today. By doing exactly this.
  • Shells918
    Shells918 Posts: 1,070 Member
    I wouldn't do it either. Lipo is really for people who are at their goal weight but have a specific area where they accumulate fat that they have trouble getting rid of through diet and exercise. If you are just looking to lose weight it won't do much for you.

    This is so true. Any reputable plastic surgeon would not do this for you. You really have to get to your goal weight, or close to it, then assess the damages. When I was close to goal the last time I went for Lipo consultations and 2 plastic surgeons told me it wouldn't help and one shyster said "sure, come back Friday with cash". Needless to say, I even with the plastic surgeon's advice and had a tummy tuck with Lipo, and it made s big difference.
    BUT
    since I've gained some weight back, it's redistributed itself in different places, like my thighs , so my waist and belly look good, but my thighs are big.

    Kids will always make fun of something. I did my student teaching and it was enough for me dealing with them. Maybe your school needs to do a No Shame campaign because if they're saying stuff about their teacher, God only knows what they do to other students.
  • SLLeask
    SLLeask Posts: 489 Member
    If one of your students came to you and said I can't do this maths homework, would you just give them the answers or would you help them persevere and work at it? Of course you would help them through it, giving them the answers is cheating and would only solve the immediate problem, long term it's not going to help in the slightest. Lipo is the cheat answer. And yes, I can guarantee if you lipo the fat off now, it will come back 100% if you eat the same as you are doing now. Some doctors will spin all kind of garbage saying it can't come back. They are lying.

    You are 25, young enough to teach yourself as well as your students. If you can educate your students in whatever subjects you teach then you can educate yourself in good eating habits and finding an exercise you love so will stick to it. Use whatever tactics you use in the classroom on yourself.

    All the very best, you CAN do it.
  • enterdanger
    enterdanger Posts: 2,447 Member
    I'm not against plastic surgery. But I'd probably just use the money on a gym membership and maybe some therapy. No offense, but you really aren't that fat and maybe you have more of an issue with seeing yourself as you truly are. I wouldn't listen to what some jacka$$ kids said about my figure either.
  • Francl27
    Francl27 Posts: 26,371 Member
    Waste of money. Unless you change your eating habits, you'll just gain it back anyway.
  • RWClary
    RWClary Posts: 192 Member
    edited April 2016
    Acke1956 wrote: »
    Hey. I’m 25 and my BMI ratio is around 29. I am quite worried about my weight. I am a teacher by profession. It really hurts when my students make fun of my figure. I tried dieting and exercise but I could only burn out a few calories. I am seriously considering a liposuction procedure in Toronto. But I’m scared to go under a knife. My friend says it is a very common procedure. How much fat can be removed using this procedure? Is there any chance of regaining the lost fat? Your suggestions are highly valuable!
    Being fat is not your problem but merely a symptom of the problem.
    While liposuction can suck out some fat, it won't address the problem that made you fat, so yes, you'll regain the weight like most who seek the quick fix.
    Your problem is a bad diet and lack of exercise, and the solution is proper diet and smart regular exercise.
    It really that simple, but that solution, though free of charge, is a hard sell.
    People don't like the notion that hard work is the solution. MFP makes it much easier with loads of user friendly tools as well as community support.
    Try this for a few years, then see where you are after that.
    Good luck :)
  • PaulaWallaDingDong
    PaulaWallaDingDong Posts: 4,641 Member
    What can be said that hasn't been already? Lipo won't help you. It's a cosmetic procedure for people with cosmetic defects (real or perceived). It doesnt make heavy people thin.
  • kristen6350
    kristen6350 Posts: 1,094 Member
    In 2011 I was a 29 BMI. Now, I'm a 21 BMI. All I did was eat less and move more over a period of time.

    You won't be thin tomorrow, but you won't be with Lipo either.
  • jdhcm2006
    jdhcm2006 Posts: 2,254 Member
    To be 100% honest with you, it will a complete waste of your money. Unless you change the habits that made you overweight, you will gain all of it and maybe more back.

    When I started, my BMI was 30.2 which for my height is considered obese, now I'm around a BMI of 26.3, which is overweight, but I'm so happy with that number for now. My goal is to get to a healthy BMI and get stronger. My point is that you can do this without surgery. Utilize the great and free resource that is MFP.

    Take the money you would spend on surgery and purchase a digital food scale, some workout dvds or a gym membership and/or a personal trainer. Also, Youtube has free workouts, look into Fitness Blender, Tone It Up, Yoga with Adriene, HangTightwMarC, Zuzka Light, BodyFit By Amy, BodyRock, GymRa, and Athlean-XX. Start strength training, whether it's lifting heavy or body weight training. If you are worried about lifting heavy and form, this is where a good PT could be utilized. If you want something a little less traditional, but will still give you a great workout, I recommend looking into the aerial arts, which ranges from silks, trapeze, and pole dancing.

  • jkal1979
    jkal1979 Posts: 1,896 Member
    Lipo isn't a guarantee that the weight will stay off. If anything if you gain you will just end up with another problem area. You will still need to watch your diet (noun) and exercise. This is coming from someone who has had it done.

    If you are letting your students get to you, maybe it's time to teach them a lesson on bullying and how words can hurt people.
  • Optimistical1
    Optimistical1 Posts: 210 Member
    I worked for a cosmetic surgeon for 8 years. Liposuction starts at $3200 including surgery and anesthesia and is typically on recoomended for people who are at or close to goal weight. The doctor I worked for wouldn't even recommend the procedure unless the patients were at their goal weight, and even then it was usually only find in conjunction with a tummy tuck.

    Think about what happens when you lose weight quickly. You are normally left with loose skin. Liposuction does the same thing, if you are overweight and you get the fat taken out it can leave you looking lumpy and bumpy with loose skin. Secondly, your talking about spot reduction, not overall weight loss. You get a little far removed from your belly, thighs, or wherever you plan on having it, then you what about your face or other areas that hold fat.

    Lose weight through diet and lifestyle change. When you get to your goal weight spend the money saved on skin reduction/body conture surgery if you think you need it.
  • Optimistical1
    Optimistical1 Posts: 210 Member
    Typing on an iPhone in a hurry, please ignore all the typos.
  • xtina315
    xtina315 Posts: 218 Member
    Not worth it especially with all the risks like a fat embolism.
  • SarcasmIsMyLoveLanguage
    SarcasmIsMyLoveLanguage Posts: 2,668 Member
    I worked for a cosmetic surgeon for 8 years. Liposuction starts at $3200 including surgery and anesthesia and is typically on recoomended for people who are at or close to goal weight. The doctor I worked for wouldn't even recommend the procedure unless the patients were at their goal weight, and even then it was usually only find in conjunction with a tummy tuck.

    Think about what happens when you lose weight quickly. You are normally left with loose skin. Liposuction does the same thing, if you are overweight and you get the fat taken out it can leave you looking lumpy and bumpy with loose skin. Secondly, your talking about spot reduction, not overall weight loss. You get a little far removed from your belly, thighs, or wherever you plan on having it, then you what about your face or other areas that hold fat.

    Lose weight through diet and lifestyle change. When you get to your goal weight spend the money saved on skin reduction/body conture surgery if you think you need it.

    There you have it. Solid advice from someone who knows the procedure.