Expectations vs reality for weight loss

youngandaspiringxo
youngandaspiringxo Posts: 74 Member
edited December 1 in Health and Weight Loss
How is\was your weight loss journey compared to how you thought it was going to be? Easier? Harder? For me, it's been easier than I expected. I put off losing weight because I thought it would require me to exercise hours every day and eat cellery for dinner. I was surprised by how much I can actually eat and still consistently lose weight! Just have to be more mindful.

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  • jandsstevenson887
    jandsstevenson887 Posts: 296 Member
    Easier and I'm shocked with how consistent it has been
  • ReaderGirl3
    ReaderGirl3 Posts: 868 Member
    edited April 2016
    Easier. It was the first /only time I tried losing weight and it went better than I had been expecting. Maintenance is a whole different topic though :p
  • ilex70
    ilex70 Posts: 727 Member
    Easier this time. Seriously expected my rate of loss to slow way down.
  • Mentali
    Mentali Posts: 352 Member
    It's been relatively easy, but I also expected it to be. Every time I go off diet for a treat I worry that I'm going to struggle getting back on but I'm committed enough that it hasn't been an issue.
  • elaineamj
    elaineamj Posts: 347 Member
    It was easier than I expected - although I just recently had my first hump where I got tired of logging and ate too much for a couple of weeks and struggled to get committed again. I've gone back to logging - but as always, the first 1-2 weeks, I am starving. I'm just starting to get back to my zone where I am satisfied at a lower calorie intake. Can't wait to get to the point where I have plenty of extra calories to spare for treats, etc and don't feel deprived! I know that will happen in a little bit, just have to be patient and give my body time to adjust. It's so nice to see the scale moving downwards again!
  • jemhh
    jemhh Posts: 14,261 Member
    First 50 pounds = easy peasy lemon squeezy

    Final 15 pounds = exceedingly difficult in a mind-numbingly slow way

    Maintenance periods interspersed with cutting periods = super easy, fortunately have never had a problem with these
  • Maurissa77
    Maurissa77 Posts: 29 Member
    This is a helpful thread for someone on her fourth day of weight loss journey! You have all given me courage❤️
  • kommodevaran
    kommodevaran Posts: 17,890 Member
    Easier. Loss rate was as expected, but the amount of sacrifice and exertion needed this time, to lose, and even more so to maintain, has been amazingly small. All I have to do, is keep up a small ongoing effort.
  • Machka9
    Machka9 Posts: 25,683 Member
    Easier and I'm shocked with how consistent it has been

    This ^^.

    So easy and so predictable.

    Yeah, there have been a handful of "hangry" days, but I just tell myself that it's just a day, stick with it, and tomorrow I'll feel better.
  • RollTideTri
    RollTideTri Posts: 116 Member
    Maurissa77 wrote: »
    This is a helpful thread for someone on her fourth day of weight loss journey! You have all given me courage❤️

    Just be consistent and honest in your logging. That's the key. If you maintain your deficit you WILL lose weight, it's a proven scientific fact. I'm down 26 lbs in 3.5 months, losing right at the rate mfp predicts. And I'm far from a perfect logger. I just try to log every meal and get as close as I can.

    You got this!
  • shadow2soul
    shadow2soul Posts: 7,692 Member
    Before I found MFP = extremely hard
    With MFP = easier
    With fitbit + mfp = even easier (helped me see how my activity influenced how much I could eat)
    Last few pounds = a pain, but only because I don't have a lot of room for errors anymore. Still easier than before I found MFP
  • itsthehumidity
    itsthehumidity Posts: 351 Member
    I find weight loss very difficult. I've been successful, but as someone with a large appetite who tends to gain weight easily, I must weigh measure and track my intake to make any progress.

    It's easy in principle, but tough in execution. I can only eat about a third of the calories I really want just to maintain (even less to cut). I had to tell myself that hunger is an indication that I'm burning fat and a sign I'm doing a good job. The notion that I'll be hungry all day for almost every day of the rest of my life is hard to accept, but I want to be lean more than I want to be psychologically content.
  • StacyChrz
    StacyChrz Posts: 865 Member
    Easier, as long as I am being honest in logging my food.
  • elaineamj
    elaineamj Posts: 347 Member
    Maurissa77 wrote: »
    This is a helpful thread for someone on her fourth day of weight loss journey! You have all given me courage❤️

    For me the first 1-2 weeks are the hardest. I habit hack like crazy - lots of water/hot unsweetened herbal teas and tiny mint candies. A lot of struggle with not feeling satisfied from my meals. Hungry and always thinking about food. Then, it magically got easier. Suddenly I wonder how I'm going to eat all my calories for the day. I'm satisfied and still have 200-300 calories left. It's amazing - there's room for ice cream? Even though I had a 1000 calorie dinner the day before?

    Like I mentioned above, I'm getting back into logging again after being inconsistent for a couple of weeks. The last week has been more of a struggle - thinking of food all the time, hungry even after a meal that should be satisfying. Yesterday, I could feel my body start to adjust and I only dealt with mild hunger and mild cravings. Today, I am starting to feel full after my normal breakfast. I know it's going to get better pretty soon - just have to be patient.
  • youngandaspiringxo
    youngandaspiringxo Posts: 74 Member
    I agree! Definitely a lot easier when I'm honestly and consistently logging. It's almost fail proof.
  • blues4miles
    blues4miles Posts: 1,481 Member
    elaineamj wrote: »
    It was easier than I expected - although I just recently had my first hump where I got tired of logging and ate too much for a couple of weeks and struggled to get committed again. I've gone back to logging - but as always, the first 1-2 weeks, I am starving. I'm just starting to get back to my zone where I am satisfied at a lower calorie intake. Can't wait to get to the point where I have plenty of extra calories to spare for treats, etc and don't feel deprived! I know that will happen in a little bit, just have to be patient and give my body time to adjust. It's so nice to see the scale moving downwards again!

    I see we are twinsies again!

    Easier for me in the beginning this time. But then the inevitable 'fall of the wagon' happens. Got back on. Then fell off. So weight sort of at a standstill due to such inconsistency. I am logging all these binges, but the #'s are bad and explain why I am not losing and should consider myself lucky I am getting back on the wagon inbetween such that I'm not gaining yet. I sort of need to get back into the swing of things again rather than a couple days on, a couple days off. Not real hunger for me, just the emotional disappointment I can't eat until it hurts every single day.
  • dustedwithsugar
    dustedwithsugar Posts: 179 Member
    Before mfp it was very hard and I had no idea what I was doing. With mfp very easy, it's all about math. I don't struggle with diet at all but I'm very lazy about exercise. Also weight loss process is easy but being patient and realistic about how much I can lose is hard.
  • cross2bear
    cross2bear Posts: 1,106 Member
    Every fad diet, every other attempt at losing weight - they all started out the same - really easy, lose weight, feel good, look good then BAM! I end up going back to old habits because the program is either too restrictive, too complicated or just doesnt suit my individual needs. This time on CICO, easy start up, and has continued to be easy as there are no special foods, I eat what everyone else eats(just less of it), no deprivation, no restriction, no weird ingredients or other irrelevant factors to worry about - just eat and log, eat and log. This I can do. And I have lost about 60 lbs now since October and sometimes have to shake myself to believe that this is my new, happy reality.
  • elaineamj
    elaineamj Posts: 347 Member

    I see we are twinsies again!

    Easier for me in the beginning this time. But then the inevitable 'fall of the wagon' happens. Got back on. Then fell off. So weight sort of at a standstill due to such inconsistency. I am logging all these binges, but the #'s are bad and explain why I am not losing and should consider myself lucky I am getting back on the wagon inbetween such that I'm not gaining yet. I sort of need to get back into the swing of things again rather than a couple days on, a couple days off. Not real hunger for me, just the emotional disappointment I can't eat until it hurts every single day.

    Hi twin!

    I just got back on track - so time for you to do it too :)

    I think what threw me off was not allowing myself the indulgence I was craving. So when I finally got it, I binged bad, and kept it up for several days.

    Next time I get that TOM binging period again, I'm going to allow myself to eat at maintenance for a few days. Acknowledging that life happens every day and fitting into my plans seems to really help me. It's the feeling that I "fell off the wagon" that tends to send me into a downward spiral. I lost a whole month :( Oh well, it's just time right? And time passes no matter what - I have no weight loss deadlines.

    I like what @cross2bear said - just eat and log. It can be as easy as that. No point making it more difficult.

    If you are having trouble, then give yourself the permission to eat at maintenance for a week or so and then try cutting back from there.
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