To those who lost 50-60 lbs and more.

icemom011
icemom011 Posts: 999 Member
edited December 1 in Health and Weight Loss
Hi i have a lot of weight to lose, SW 223lbs, CW 196, GW 160-150. Do any of you have extra skin issues, I'm really don't want that, but of course i want to lose weight and go back to my younger self. What do you do to avoid it, is it possible to avoid at all, or it shouldn't even worry me, since i don't have 200 lbs to lose? Would appreciate all input, thank you all.

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  • itsbasschick
    itsbasschick Posts: 1,584 Member
    at my highest weight i was 242, but the longest time was around 190. i have lots of extra skin in the belly area, and nothing i did - lotions, losing slowly - affected it in any way. any arm and leg extra skin can be filled with muscle if you resistance train. if you're genetically fortunate, you may have better luck and your skin may shrink back more than mine did.
  • Cortneyrenee04
    Cortneyrenee04 Posts: 1,117 Member
    edited April 2016
    I agree... nothing you can do about it, really, so worrying doesn't help. It is what it is! It probably won't be terrible and it depends on where you carry your weight. My arms ended up being terribly saggy (it was humiliating to me!) so I got them "fixed" and the rest of me is easier for me to deal with. My thighs are saggy and my tummy is a little saggy... it's just part of it. I put lotion on every day but I'm pretty sure it only helps a little.

    (I started at 207, currently 135)
  • emdeesea
    emdeesea Posts: 1,823 Member
    Not for me, no. I started out at just under 200 and am now down to about 137 and did it very slowly. I doubt that had anything to do with it, since I think it's mostly a genetic thing, but I don't have any loose skin.
  • SweetestLibby
    SweetestLibby Posts: 607 Member
    jemhh wrote: »
    I don't think that you should worry about it because what is done is done and you cannot fix it at this point. I do have skin issues. I've gone from 202.5 to the high 140s. The following things affect your final "this is it" point with your skin:

    - genetics
    - age
    - how big you were
    - how long your were big

    People will tell you to lose weight slowly or use cocoa butter or lift weights to avoid loose skin but, ultimately, those will not affect whether or not your skin shrinks back. Losing weight slowly helps minimize the chance of your fat loss outpacing your skin's shrinkage rate. Cocoa butter gives you soft skin but doesn't help it shrink. Lifting weights help you to be strong and fit and look good plus gives you something to obsess over rather than the state of your skin. But none of them will actually make your skin shrink up more or faster.

    all of this.

    I went from 215 at my highest to 115 at my lowest (5 foot 4inches tall) - the skin around my hips/thighs and boobs had a bit of extra stretch and I have a sad face belly button but outside of that it was find. Not really noticeable to anyone but me (or if I pinch and pull the skin). I lost weight slowly during my mid 20s.

    I'm about 25 pounds up from my lowest and the extra stretch in my skin is still there but I'm a bit fuller (if that makes sense).
  • ReaderGirl3
    ReaderGirl3 Posts: 868 Member
    I've lost a little over 50lbs and had no skin sagging issues. A side note-my body continued to change shape for around a year after I started transitioning into maintenance.
  • ashleyjongepier
    ashleyjongepier Posts: 130 Member
    HW 360, CW 200-210 ish (haven't used my scale in 5 weeks so I'm not really sure but its around there.) gw is 130ish.

    I have had a baby I should start by saying also I was much larger than you. I do have lose skin. Most of it when I hit my correct weight will pull up but I will always have an over hang and lose skin on my arms and thighs. It doesn't bother me because I am so much healthier than before. When the time comes I will likely have my skin tucked if it bothers me that much then.
  • sarahlifts
    sarahlifts Posts: 610 Member
    My highest weight was 220 my lowest weight 141. I've had no skin loose skin issues save for my abs as a result of carrying a baby to full term.
  • VelvetMerkin
    VelvetMerkin Posts: 7 Member
    5'7" and went from 210 to 140. No extra skin.
  • jemhh
    jemhh Posts: 14,261 Member
    sarahlifts wrote: »
    My highest weight was 220 my lowest weight 141. I've had no skin loose skin issues save for my abs as a result of carrying a baby to full term.
    5'7" and went from 210 to 140. No extra skin.

    This is interesting since your stats are somewhat close to mine (202.5 to 147) but our results seem very different. I think it really speaks to the genetic aspect of this. I've continue to hold out hope, thinking that I just need to keep losing more fat but I am swiftly coming to the realization that this may not be the case. Lucky me.
  • Ninkyou
    Ninkyou Posts: 6,666 Member
    211 down to 133 currently. I do have a little bit of extra tummy skin, BUT, I just had a baby 15 months ago (got pregnant after losing 57 lbs, and I'm down 79 currently from SW), so there's that. I'm actually very okay with it. Honestly, I'd rather have a bit of extra skin than to have those pounds back.
  • icemom011
    icemom011 Posts: 999 Member
    jemhh wrote: »
    I don't think that you should worry about it because what is done is done and you cannot fix it at this point. I do have skin issues. I've gone from 202.5 to the high 140s. The following things affect your final "this is it" point with your skin:

    - genetics
    - age
    - how big you were
    - how long your were big

    People will tell you to lose weight slowly or use cocoa butter or lift weights to avoid loose skin but, ultimately, those will not affect whether or not your skin shrinks back. Losing weight slowly helps minimize the chance of your fat loss outpacing your skin's shrinkage rate. Cocoa butter gives you soft skin but doesn't help it shrink. Lifting weights help you to be strong and fit and look good plus gives you something to obsess over rather than the state of your skin. But none of them will actually make your skin shrink up more or faster.

    Thanks, and congratulations on your weight loss, jemhh;36153742. How long did it take for you to get there? I'm 5'7, 44yo. I have been overweight for many years, actually 18, starting from my second pregnancy. But fluctuated up and down for the most part of it, with the overall "up" tendency, hehe. I started in mid February, for health reasons, actually. So far I'm happy with my progress, but loads more to go.
  • icemom011
    icemom011 Posts: 999 Member
    HW 360, CW 200-210 ish (haven't used my scale in 5 weeks so I'm not really sure but its around there.) gw is 130ish.

    I have had a baby I should start by saying also I was much larger than you. I do have lose skin. Most of it when I hit my correct weight will pull up but I will always have an over hang and lose skin on my arms and thighs. It doesn't bother me because I am so much healthier than before. When the time comes I will likely have my skin tucked if it bothers me that much then.

    Wow, that's awesome ,ashleyjongepier. What doyou mean, skin will pull up when you hit your correct weight? Did you meant to say will be pulled up surgically? Was hoping to avoid that, plus i imagine it's expensive. Ugghh. Still, good for you, keep it up. Good luck.
  • icemom011
    icemom011 Posts: 999 Member
    Ninkyou wrote: »
    211 down to 133 currently. I do have a little bit of extra tummy skin, BUT, I just had a baby 15 months ago (got pregnant after losing 57 lbs, and I'm down 79 currently from SW), so there's that. I'm actually very okay with it. Honestly, I'd rather have a bit of extra skin than to have those pounds back.

    Agreed (grudgingly ). But still...
  • jemhh
    jemhh Posts: 14,261 Member
    icemom011 wrote: »
    jemhh wrote: »
    I don't think that you should worry about it because what is done is done and you cannot fix it at this point. I do have skin issues. I've gone from 202.5 to the high 140s. The following things affect your final "this is it" point with your skin:

    - genetics
    - age
    - how big you were
    - how long your were big

    People will tell you to lose weight slowly or use cocoa butter or lift weights to avoid loose skin but, ultimately, those will not affect whether or not your skin shrinks back. Losing weight slowly helps minimize the chance of your fat loss outpacing your skin's shrinkage rate. Cocoa butter gives you soft skin but doesn't help it shrink. Lifting weights help you to be strong and fit and look good plus gives you something to obsess over rather than the state of your skin. But none of them will actually make your skin shrink up more or faster.

    Thanks, and congratulations on your weight loss, jemhh;36153742. How long did it take for you to get there? I'm 5'7, 44yo. I have been overweight for many years, actually 18, starting from my second pregnancy. But fluctuated up and down for the most part of it, with the overall "up" tendency, hehe. I started in mid February, for health reasons, actually. So far I'm happy with my progress, but loads more to go.

    I lost the initial 52 pounds between January and December of 2014. Last year I mainly maintained between 148 and 152.5. Over the holidays I went up to 159 and then was back to 148 by the end of February of this year. Keep at it and you'll do fine. You may have ups and downs along the way but the long term downward trend is what matters most.
  • Machka9
    Machka9 Posts: 25,692 Member
    I've lost 55 lbs ... and yes, I've got some skin issues.

    Apparently my skin could tighten up in a couple years. It has been about 6 months since I reached 55 lbs lost ... so maybe another 18 months to go?

    We'll see.
  • CrabNebula
    CrabNebula Posts: 1,119 Member
    I have lost more than 100lbs. Yes, I have skin issues. Would I rather be obese than have extra skin? HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA, no.
  • kshama2001
    kshama2001 Posts: 28,052 Member
    So far I've lost 36 pounds with no loose skin. In fact, the dimpled skin under my arms has gone away. I am losing weight slowly, while exercising and strength training. I'm 49. I have 20-30 pounds to go.
  • kissedbythesunshine
    kissedbythesunshine Posts: 416 Member
    Hi. We have similar stats. I started at 222, currently 185, goal 160. Yes I have saggy skin on my breasts. It's like they have deflated. While I'm happy they are going away (weird for a woman to say this but I've always hated my big boobs), I am saddened by them just...I don't know how to explain it....just deflated. Saggy now. Not in any way saying this will happen to you. Just my experience. I have notice no other saggy skin.
  • advisingwench
    advisingwench Posts: 53 Member
    I've lost around 85 lbs. since 2012 (detailed weight loss story in my profile if you're curious.) I've been running for a year and a half and started strength training about 8 weeks ago.

    I just noticed this morning that the loose skin and fat on my stomach seems to look better. It's still not perfect, but there's improvement. I've also noticed that the loose skin on my neck isn't as bad as it was. I'm not sure if it's because I switched moisturizers a few weeks ago or because I'm working those muscles by virtue of keeping my head steady during ab work and inverted rows, but the wrinkles that were there are much less pronounced than they were.

    At 46 I'd pretty much resigned myself to loose, saggy skin after significant loss, but now I'm hopeful that it won't be AS bad as I've imagined.
  • icemom011
    icemom011 Posts: 999 Member
    Hi. We have similar stats. I started at 222, currently 185, goal 160. Yes I have saggy skin on my breasts. It's like they have deflated. While I'm happy they are going away (weird for a woman to say this but I've always hated my big boobs), I am saddened by them just...I don't know how to explain it....just deflated. Saggy now. Not in any way saying this will happen to you. Just my experience. I have notice no other saggy skin.

    Mine are gone too. Sniff, sniff. Weren't that big to start with. This i find pretty upsetting actually. Hope my body will find other fat sitting around to get rid of and leaves boobs alone already.
  • kissedbythesunshine
    kissedbythesunshine Posts: 416 Member
    icemom011 wrote: »
    Hi. We have similar stats. I started at 222, currently 185, goal 160. Yes I have saggy skin on my breasts. It's like they have deflated. While I'm happy they are going away (weird for a woman to say this but I've always hated my big boobs), I am saddened by them just...I don't know how to explain it....just deflated. Saggy now. Not in any way saying this will happen to you. Just my experience. I have notice no other saggy skin.

    Mine are gone too. Sniff, sniff. Weren't that big to start with. This i find pretty upsetting actually. Hope my body will find other fat sitting around to get rid of and leaves boobs alone already.

    Yeah I was thinking of all the places I have lbs of fat sitting around it was strange my body went for the boobs, fingers, and legs first. I'm like "hello, you're free to remove fat from my stomach area now" lol.
  • Duchy82
    Duchy82 Posts: 560 Member
    Over 66lbs lost and I have no loose skin issues I'm not done yet as I want to lose another 9lbs but I can't imagine that those extra 9 will make a lot of difference to the current skin situation.
  • icemom011
    icemom011 Posts: 999 Member
    icemom011 wrote: »
    Hi. We have similar stats. I started at 222, currently 185, goal 160. Yes I have saggy skin on my breasts. It's like they have deflated. While I'm happy they are going away (weird for a woman to say this but I've always hated my big boobs), I am saddened by them just...I don't know how to explain it....just deflated. Saggy now. Not in any way saying this will happen to you. Just my experience. I have notice no other saggy skin.

    Mine are gone too. Sniff, sniff. Weren't that big to start with. This i find pretty upsetting actually. Hope my body will find other fat sitting around to get rid of and leaves boobs alone already.

    Yeah I was thinking of all the places I have lbs of fat sitting around it was strange my body went for the boobs, fingers, and legs first. I'm like "hello, you're free to remove fat from my stomach area now" lol.

    Yeah, happened to me in the past too. Not sure if it works same for everyone, but apparently I'm not alone. Let's have out skinnier fingers crossed though. Haha
  • icemom011
    icemom011 Posts: 999 Member
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  • Afura
    Afura Posts: 2,054 Member
    I see some loose skin near on my thighs, but with the rate of loss it seems to even out. So far, I'm still losing so it's hard to say what the outcome will be!
    There have been articles on people who have had significant weight loss and have lots of loose skin that they may eventually choose to have surgically removed. A lot of it is general age and skin elasticity, how much you lost as to how your body deals with it, as was mentioned above.
  • Francl27
    Francl27 Posts: 26,371 Member
    My stomach looks like a shar pei, same for my inner thighs, and I have a bit of loose skin on the top of my arms too. Maybe you'll get lucky.
  • Meganthedogmom
    Meganthedogmom Posts: 1,639 Member
    There's no sense worrying about it. Some people have extra skin, some don't, some more than others. I have lost 90lb and counting and I can tell there's extra skin. However, I've been overweight since I was a young child.

    It really depends on a lot of factors, but it doesn't help anything to worry about it.
  • zyxst
    zyxst Posts: 9,149 Member
    Went from 320 down to 140. Was morbidly obese for 35+ years. I have loose skin and flab. The flab may become loose skin if I can be bothered to lose more weight. The loose skin is there for good unless I develop some weird medical problem that will cover the cost of removal surgery.
  • VintageFeline
    VintageFeline Posts: 6,771 Member
    SW 220lb, CW 172lb with maybe another 20lb or so to go. No skin issues that I can see yet. I wasn't at my biggest for long though which I think also is a factor. Maybe 6 months to a year max, usually hovered a good 20lbs under that highest weight. I'm also small for my weight so again, not as big as some. There's so many factors involved, I'd agree it;s not worth worrying about until it happens and even then, better a healthy weight with loose skin than still dangerously overweight.
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