How did weight loss change your life?
dbkyser
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We all can say loosing weight would not change us but I do not believe that. I think anyone who has been more than a little overweight knows many things changed. Low self esteem, no confidence etc.
So those who shed the weight what all changed for you?
So those who shed the weight what all changed for you?
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Awesome blood work panels and blood pressure.3
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I know for me sleep apnea is gone.2
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I used to take meds for 7 different issues, today that's zero. My wife has cut hers down by 50%.
Don't forget sex!3 -
I had terrible sleep apnea, which is now under control. My physical health overall is much better. My self esteem and confidence have declined but I'm working on them.1
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Weight loss has not ,so far, changed my life. I changed my life and then I was able to work on weight loss.
Anyway so far I do see an improvement in my knee pain now that I am 32 pounds lighter. Looking forward to losing the rest. Who knows maybe someday I will be able to run a little without pain.
I also have recently been noticing a change in my center of gravity and how I move in general.1 -
shadowfax_c11 wrote: »Weight loss has not ,so far, changed my life. I changed my life and then I was able to work on weight loss.
Anyway so far I do see an improvement in my knee pain now that I am 32 pounds lighter. Looking forward to losing the rest. Who knows maybe someday I will be able to run a little without pain.
I also have recently been noticing a change in my center of gravity and how I move in general.
This is exactly it for me too.. I changed my perspective on life and what was important.. and weight loss became a part of that picture for me.
Since losing an excess of 100lbs, my self confidence (while not really hampered when I was overweight) has really blossomed, my relationships have all improved as a result, my business took off and I've seen a level of success I believe can be linked back to the mental shift I had that led me down the path to a healthier lifestyle.
My body fat % is down from 30% to 17%, I can rollerblade for hours with my kid or jump on the trampoline with her, I can really challenge myself in the gym (now lifting excess of 225lbs on my deadlifts), sleep better at night, therefore making me more alert and ready to work or learn during the day. I'm overall just more happy and productive on the daily ..
This is a great thread - thank you for posing the question. I hope it helps those who've seen a measure of success look back fondly on their journey to realize how far they've come and will help motivate those who need the encouragement right now.3 -
I have only lost 15 pounds so far but it has already changed my life as I only feel half the pain in my hips I did before. I can't believe 15 pounds made such a difference!2
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I can buy clothes I want rather than what is in my size.
I can fit through doorways without having to turn sideways and really suck in the gut.
I make a better window than I do a door.
People aren't afraid to touch me for fear of the fat rubbing off onto them.6 -
Attention from girls for he first time ever is really nice..but now some people think I can be a dick sometimes, when I think they're just not used to me asserting myself..
It's been a give and take2 -
I can buy clothes I want rather than what is in my size.
This is a nice thing. Most plus size clothing is made to fit women who have equally plus sized chests. Being fat without a bigger chest means that most of those clothes just don't fit nicely. Now I can buy clothes and have them fit well straight off the rack. (See what I did there?)
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Thank you for this thread. I've had this strong urge to say screw it, order pizza and binge. Even went as far as to make an online order..then, luckily before I placed the order, to stop myself I came here and this thread really helped remind me what I'm working towards.6
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Got rid of constant pain, better sleep, reports of less snoring, better skin and hair, able to walk faster and farther, can touch my toes, better balance, spending less time sitting, more housework and yardwork getting done, feeling more energetic. Being colder more often. Less spontaneous eating.2
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queenliz99 wrote: »Awesome blood work panels and blood pressure.
This for me too. I got my glucose number stabilized into the 80s, down from the pre-diabetes range.1 -
I definitely have more energy and I'm strong, which I like (thanks weight lifting!!). I am more adventurous and have more confidence, I think because of the new energy and strength. I always felt so down about being fat, like it just showed everyone that I was lazy and lacked self control. That was all in my head of course, not like anyone said anything like that. So now I'm just more secure in myself when I meet people or interact with people in some ways. I'm proud of how hard I've had to work to lose 85 lbs and I think knowing I've done it makes me feel like I can take on just about anything. That's a good feeling!2
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made me healthy, more confident, made me bitchy about junk food0
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The biggest change for me is my mood. I don't feel depressed and miserable everyday anymore. I'm MUCH happier and look forward to my future now instead of sitting around hiding from the world and feeling sorry for myself all the time.
Second biggest change is that I feel better in general. I don't have the stomach distress from overeating. I don't wake up in the middle of the night with horrible acid reflux or rotten egg burps or other numerous strange bodily functions that would occur. I'm not exhausted all the time, I have energy, my feet don't hurt after shopping all day.
I really could go on and on, the reality is that losing 135 pounds has changed my life in so many ways. I'm so thankful I found mfp and the great community here who educated me on calories in vs out, food scales, TDEE, Fitbit, etc. I would not have been able to make a lifestyle change without the tools and resources here!5 -
The main things that changed for me: being able to buy clothes at normal clothing stores, and overall fitness. My resting heart rate has fallen by almost 20 beats per minute since losing weight and doing a lot of cardio, and today I hiked up and down a 500-foot bluff and felt great, while a year ago a ten-foot flight of stairs would leave me gasping for air.
Less joint pain and no more gastric reflux, either.2 -
*Way* less knee pain (torn meniscus, arthritis). Noticeably improved general sense of well-being, physically & psychologically - I don't know why . . . maybe reduced inflammation? Formerly high cholesterol/triglycerides are now solidly normal, and borderline blood pressure is now also fully normal.
I've been very active, as a rower, for a dozen years. My boat goes faster with 60 fewer pounds of me in it. Flexibility, which was already good for someone my age, is really excellent now, and improving. Now that I'm working on maintenance, I have more energy than before, and seemingly more mental clarity. Though I could walk pretty fast before (3.5-4mph pretty easily), I kind of lumbered. I now kind of scamper - I feel more spry and lively in how I move.
Unfortunately, I still seem to have sleep apnea - just not as severe.
And the clothes thing: It was super hard to get specialized active wear in plus sizes, like good bike shorts or kayaking wetsuits. Now it's easy. But regular clothes: I went from it being hard to get anything I liked because I was plus-sized (in plus, you can dress like a matron or a slut, but nothing in between!), to still kind of hard to get anything I like because I'm on the low end of what mainstream stores here stock. Maybe I'm just picky.0 -
I can run. My acid reflux is gone. I'm faster going up hills and find it easier. My girlfriend is happy with the changes to my body. Everyone keeps telling me I look skinny.1
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I am so close to buying close in EVERY store. The problem is that even when I was very fit and in the Air Force I was a L, XL or even XXL. I was just a big guy even when in fighting shape. Take that size and then get fat and you just pile on the X's and really have to order online.
The larger sizes also meant they would fit you through 15-20 lb weight fluctuations they were so baggy.
I love being able to fit into booths and not have to request a table, sitting down and putting shoes on and not getting food all over my shirt because I cant lean over my plate.2 -
-54 pounds has meant no more hip pain... No more needing to use scooters to shop... I can walk again! More energy and pride in my appearance. Sleep better.5
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I'm almost to my goal (20 out of 25) and it may sound cheesy or cliche, but my biggest life change - besides caring more about foods and what's in them - has been confidence. My clothes fit better, and going jean shopping and sliding on a pair of jeans 2 sizes smaller is a boost. I no longer tug and fidget with my clothes all day. Last year this time, I'd dread wearing my shorts around campus, but it's just too hot in Texas not to. So I'd wear them, and my thighs would rub as I walked across campus, so the inseams of the shorts would rise and I'd constantly pull at that. I'd stopped wearing my cute tops because they would never sit right. I hated giving class presentations (which is unfortunate as a BBA student because every darn class has some major pres) because I'd feel like a fattie in my business professional attire, so I'd mumble and stumble through the whole thing. Now my thighs don't rub, and I wear shorter shorts and don't give a what about it lol. I'm back to wearing my cute tops, and I feel good in them. I don't tug and fidget with my clothes all day, and I smile and speak up during presentations. I look in the mirror and smile now. It's a nice feeling
And then I guess another change is that I annoy my parents about food because now I'm "picky" (they eat fast food all the time and so now I'm a "food snob"). It's just sooo much fun whenever I go home for breaks ... Lol6 -
It has DRAMATICALLY relieved my pain due to pressure on L4, L5 .4
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I run faster. I look good in photos. I feel so proud of myself. I'm an example to my kids. Happiest I've been in years ☺️7
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I ran in a 10 mile race yesterday. Two years ago I couldn't even run around the block. If you had asked me whether I would ever be able to do this or even aspire to run in this race I would have laughed in your face. Losing weight and joining MFP allowed me to think for the first time ever that an outrageous goal like this was remotely possible. That is what has changed the most for me. I am not scared to try new or difficult things because I know that by taking baby steps every single day and finding support I can get there. The most important thing is to never give up.5
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I am far from even my half way goal, but I've noticed some good things:
- I have more energy/endurance. A year and a half ago, walking 3 blocks would have worn me out. Now, I can walk multiple miles and still be raring to go when I get back home. I can even jog for part of it!
- I have much less knee pain! As a result, I take much less medication for pain.
- I feel a little bit more confident. Due to the confidence, I've been able to say yes to dates and am dating a very wonderful guy now.
- I've finally lost enough weight where I can find some clothing in the plus size sections in some stores instead of having to get everything but socks online.
- I've not needed my asthma medicine as often when I exercise. 90% of the time I take it, it's for allergen exposure instead of just over exertion.3 -
I can buy clothes I want rather than what is in my size.
I can fit through doorways without having to turn sideways and really suck in the gut.
I make a better window than I do a door.
People aren't afraid to touch me for fear of the fat rubbing off onto them.
This really made me chuckle Congratulations on the weight loss though, it's a great achievement!
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It's actually a bit tough to answer because I've been this weight for 2 years now.
I'm more active than I used to be, and I can bend over without losing my breath, for sure. It's also nice to be able to shop in the normal size section (and wear Small! Crazy), have way more endurance (I can walk for hours without being tired), and I also cook now, which I never did, and it's actually fun to make tasty meals. I also occasionally find an outfit I think that I actually look nice in.
But overall my life hasn't changed that much, I think. My social life hasn't changed one bit, for one (I didn't have much of one and I still don't). I mean, you think that everything's suddenly going to be awesome when you lose the weight, but it's really not true. I don't think that my confidence and self-esteem have improved much because I'm still not happy with the way I look and don't think I will ever be, even if it's obviously better.
So yeah. Losing weight unfortunately doesn't fix everything.
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I can buy clothes I want rather than what is in my size.
I can fit through doorways without having to turn sideways and really suck in the gut.
I make a better window than I do a door.
People aren't afraid to touch me for fear of the fat rubbing off onto them.
This really made me chuckle Congratulations on the weight loss though, it's a great achievement!
It's true and it hurts. I have a friend who I only see once every 2-3 years because she lives in Australia. When I weighed 300+, her hugs goodbye would be minimal touching, aka "please don't let her think I like her". Saw her a year ago and she had no problem putting her arms around me in a "I really miss you" hard hug.0 -
Strangers (men and women) seem to be talking to me more. It is weird and I'd like them to stop.
Maybe I seem more cheerful and approachable?0
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