Save me from myself. (Vent)

Oh man I would have had some not nice things to say.

He sounds like a superficial a**hole!! Sorry. He isn't worth your time or energy. Chin up and don't let this send you down a path you know isn't healthy. Hugs!!!!
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Honey, you look fantastic. Are you seriously even thinking of destroying everything you've worked so hard to achieve because some a**hole opened his pie hole and stuck his foot in it? NO YOU ARE NOT. You are MUCH better than that, and obviously much better than him.

Shake it off and move on. He's just one stepping stone closer to the man you are really looking for...a REAL man. So get to steppin' , pretty momma...he's not worth one more thought!

I'm shocked someone has the gall to say that to anyone. Even if someone isn't your type for whatever reason, who says that kind of stuff? What's a miserable person. You shouldn't rely on his opinion on you to make yourself happy. You don't know him and obviously he doesn't know you. Delete #, Delete Email, Delete from Life = Move on.

Don't let this douche destroy everything you've worked so hard for.

p.s I think you're beautiful

Wow what a jerk!! Trust me you'll find someone better!! You've got us here to help you, you look great in your profile pic!!

@h*le. I don't really need to tell you how much better off you are without someone who is going to judge you like that, do I? This is clearly his problem. He is going to have one helluva time finding someone to put up with him. Good riddance to bad rubbish! Say a prayer for him. He needs it. You, on the other hand, are worth so much more! Time for a pedicure. Or a nice long walk. Or some nice yoga. Peace. You are more than the sum of your parts. Much much more. As we get older, we get more comfortable in our skin...as it sags and bags and stretches. It doesn't matter how much there is of it. Youth and beauty are shallow, temporary things. Ask yourself this...is everyone over 40 worthless? Is everyone under 40 only worth their looks? Hardly. His attitude is a statement of our times. It is a sickness that pervades and defines our society. There is more. Much more. We only have to look for it, find it and embrace it to know it.

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P.S. You are gorgeous dahlink!

He's obviously not worth it and superficial. If he had said that to me, I would have beat the living crap out of him. Right there in the park. He doesn't deserve you... You will find someone better.

oh and ps... You're gorgeous!

My guess is he was probably not that good looking. He attitude was making up for a small __________. Don't let guys like that ruin things for you. I have found that most women in this world have a special beauty about them. I only exclude those that act like your "date."

Know what is special about you!

Think of it this way, you're weeding out the jerks. Now you're just one guy closer to meeting your prince who will love you no matter what your weight is.

Honey, you look fantastic. Are you seriously even thinking of destroying everything you've worked so hard to achieve because some a**hole opened his pie hole and stuck his foot in it? NO YOU ARE NOT. You are MUCH better than that, and obviously much better than him.

Shake it off and move on. He's just one stepping stone closer to the man you are really looking for...a REAL man. So get to steppin' , pretty momma...he's not worth one more thought!

can i hear an aaaaaaaamen?!?!?!

what an assbag! you're amazing girl! xoxox

There's a better one out there for you. I agree with another poster- at least he put it out there and you can move on with confidence. He's certainly entitled to pass up a gorgeous girl like yourself for someone that fits what he considers to be... whatever it is.

You're hot, and you'll find the right guy that will tell you so every day! Don't let it discourage you.

Thank you guys. The nausea hasn't subsided yet. But you made me smile through the frustrated tears.

Single mom. New in town. Trying to put myself out there. Shot down. Epic Fail.

Not a fail AT ALL. He saved you from dating a complete jerk. Some guys are closet buttholes and they waste YEARS of your life before they show their true colors.

You are powerful, you are in control, YOU make your own decisions.


I was a single mom for a long time. I met a man who loved my curves then and loves my less curvy body now. I met him randomly after purposefully dating a bunch of jerks. You did not fail. REPEAT-- YOU DID NOT FAIL.

And think about it, he probably wasn't even that cute, completely uninteresting and he's probably awful in bed. End of story.

ha, sure the guy may have been shallow, but whats worse is his complete lack of tact.

fair enough he may not have found you attractive (not saying you are or arent, just saynig different people like diferent things), but what makes this guy a complete *kitten* is the fact that he just came out and said it like that.

i personally have been out with someone that i didnt fancy for whatever reason, but i sure didnt make her feel bad about it.

everyone is judgemental, you cant deny that, but its how you handle it that makes you a decent person or not

edit: dont let this tool stop you from putting yourself out there. i was once extremely shy and never put myself in a position where i may be rejected. never had the balls to ask a girl out until my late teens / early 20s. but one day i had an epiphany. i thought to myself "you know what, who gives a toss, im going to go for what i want and if i get shot down so be it, its their loss, ill just move on to the next one"

HA! That's what I did! I gave myself a year to find the perfect man :laugh: That was January of 2007.

I met my husband on December 12, 2007. Gawd. Took him long enough! :laugh:

How about some nice immature comeback lines?

Well, you may be skinnier than I am, but you're a much bigger *kitten*.

Wow, I'm a lucky girl. Lucky I found out what a *kitten* you are on the first date!

I'm sorry, what was that? I was distracted by your bald spot. It probably wouldn't be such a big problem if you were taller.

How lovely it must be for you to have such an overinflated ego. Too bad it's so easily deflated by your little prick.

Hey, it's not MY fault you watch so much porn that you can't get it up for anyone actually willing to date you.

I'm GLAD I'm too big for you. Otherwise I might not have found out what an undateable creep you are until after we'd ****ed.

I am so sorry. Sorry for your ex girlfriends.

Well that's too bad, I guess you'll have to go back to dating prostitutes. Not that it really counts as 'dating'.

(study his face) It's awful funny how looks can be deceiving, isn't it? You don't LOOK like an *kitten*...

Wow, you are just the total package, aren't you? A giant **** AND a small penis.

I'm sorry, I didn't know you were autistic when I agreed to this date. Oh, you're not? I guess the only explanation is bad parenting then.

I bet you have a LOT of first dates. Not so much second or third dates, huh? That must be rough, being a huge creep.

Jeez, insecure much? Or are you just tactless and rude? Enjoy dating around, jerk! Lord knows you'll never find love...


I think getting picked on as a teenager might have warped my brain... I could seriously keep going...