about to give up, losing my motivation n ab to break up w ahole bf

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  • sshaw226
    sshaw226 Posts: 5 Member
    Hun the only person who can make you happy is YOU! You don't need a man to make you happy. Maybe being alone for a while will be good for you. You have to get on track and make you feel good about yourself. You have to love yourself FIRST. you have to look in a mirror and smile about who you are. If you aren't happy do something about it. If your not happy with him, leave him. If your not happy with your job, find a new one. If your unhappy with your weight, change that. But only you have to power to make those changes. No one else can tell you or make you do it. Only you! You are your number 1 coach and your number 1 bully. Try and find who is stronger! Find yourself!
  • Antd420
    Antd420 Posts: 161 Member
    desireeharper1 wrote: »
    Between living w my uncaring parents, working for no money, bipolar anxiety, n lows, he was the only person n my life I had to turn to but he's hurt my heart for so long there's nothing happy about us together but I feel the fit guys I'm attracted to won't want me untill I'm n shape, n I have nothing but a job I hate w little pay, tho I'm down on med leave now bc of my back, n w/o him I literally have not one person to call, no friends.. got rid of them a yr ago bc they were trouble. Very sad n lonely tonight.

    That's not true, I'm a fit guy and I don't necessarily look for just fit women. It's all about the personality for me.
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