Do u like getting flirted with?

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  • Crhan05
    Crhan05 Posts: 1,608 Member
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    I don't know who doesn't like it
  • saramickeydee
    saramickeydee Posts: 115 Member
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    No, subtlety is wasted on me and directness just gets rejected. :)
  • saramickeydee
    saramickeydee Posts: 115 Member
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    ejinvt wrote: »
    saramickeydee wrote: »
    No, subtlety is wasted on me and directness just gets rejected. :)

    You sound fun. ;)

    I have trouble with social cues - which makes for some pretty funny stories about when I THOUGHT I was being flirted with but I was wrong. :#
  • gcibsthom
    gcibsthom Posts: 30,138 Member
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    I think most people do enjoy it. When I do recognize it, yeah, it feels good. It's like ego massage....For the most part, though I have a hard time recognizing a flirt, even though I enjoy flirting....A woman would pretty much have to ask me for sex before I would recognize it...lol...cry
  • saramickeydee
    saramickeydee Posts: 115 Member
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    ejinvt wrote: »
    saramickeydee wrote: »
    ejinvt wrote: »
    saramickeydee wrote: »
    No, subtlety is wasted on me and directness just gets rejected. :)

    You sound fun. ;)

    I have trouble with social cues - which makes for some pretty funny stories about when I THOUGHT I was being flirted with but I was wrong. :#

    I invented social awkwardness, so...I get it. As for those stories...OMG, I can't even. You really should share. ;)

    Someday there will be a thread and I will consider contributing.
  • Stacy80651
    Stacy80651 Posts: 21 Member
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    Heck ya! It's fun and a good way to get to know someone!
  • that70sbaby
    that70sbaby Posts: 5 Member
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    joesgal22 wrote: »
    Why is it men say that they are usually not sure that they are being flirted with? Just curious.

    I think some guys are very humbled and/or maybe have low self esteem and have no clue how smart, sexy, and cool they are to some women. So they are unsure. Some women on the other hand know when they have sex appeal etc. and pick up on pick up lines, gestures etc. Also sometimes we can send mixed messages and they may not know when we are just being friendly or flirting or both lol.
  • Timshel_
    Timshel_ Posts: 22,834 Member
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    Still yes, though I usually have no clue.
  • LexiM1028
    LexiM1028 Posts: 47 Member
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    Definitely makes you feel better. Nothing wrong with it. I enjoy it
  • tcarp8
    tcarp8 Posts: 369 Member
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    Yes
  • synchkat
    synchkat Posts: 37,368 Member
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    I'm married. Flirting is wrong. :p
  • tcarp8
    tcarp8 Posts: 369 Member
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    synchkat wrote: »
    I'm married. Flirting is wrong. :p

    Wrong
  • synchkat
    synchkat Posts: 37,368 Member
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    tcarp8 wrote: »
    synchkat wrote: »
    I'm married. Flirting is wrong. :p

    Wrong

    According to many members here it is
  • jaxtraxdiet
    jaxtraxdiet Posts: 30 Member
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    I'm married and I'm a huge flirt, my husband loves it he thinks it's sexy.
  • vicvicious38
    vicvicious38 Posts: 62 Member
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    Yes
  • kevin3676
    kevin3676 Posts: 40 Member
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    Yup
  • brb_2013
    brb_2013 Posts: 1,197 Member
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    I do not, it makes me insanely uncomfortable even if I were remotely interested. In my mind you're talking about a stranger approaching me at a public place to flirt, and I'm just too shy. My resting beyotch face helps a LOT to avoid unwanted contact.

    The last time I was flirted with/hit on it was actually in a really threatening situation and the guy totally didn't get it and didn't leave it when I said to leave it. It was actually at my place of work (nanny in a family's private residence) and he was there, alone, with me, alone, to install a dryer. Lots of telling me I'm beautiful, saying my eyes were so gorgeous they were distracting him, etc. All perfectly kind things to say but the context was all wrong, I ended up calling his boss and he was let go. He had been a temp or something but yeah, flirting with me with get you ignored or fired.
  • dwatson925
    dwatson925 Posts: 143 Member
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    joesgal22 wrote: »
    Why is it men say that they are usually not sure that they are being flirted with? Just curious.
    joesgal22 wrote: »
    Why is it men say that they are usually not sure that they are being flirted with? Just curious.

    I guess I'm dense but I never think I am being flirted with.
  • Kvm11628
    Kvm11628 Posts: 7,386 Member
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    synchkat wrote: »
    I'm married. Flirting is wrong. :p

    Correct. I must be locked away in s safe place. Never to see another man ever again.

    Oh, I crack myself up.

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