After he cancelled our 2nd date....

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  • glassyo
    glassyo Posts: 7,652 Member
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    I say do what makes you happy as long as everyone is honest and on the same page.

    (And it's not illegal.)
  • brewingPHX
    brewingPHX Posts: 284 Member
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    _Waffle_ wrote: »
    brewingPHX wrote: »
    He just wants some kitten.

    Why so much shame on CIS heterosexual males?

    You don't know how he identifies!
  • librarydebster
    librarydebster Posts: 177 Member
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    Call me old fashioned but if you had a good date and then he texts you to make a date and then texts to break a date, it doesn't sound good. If a guy is really interested he should pick up the phone. Yep. The phone. If he's interested he will want to hear your voice and make sure you're still interested and keep a connection. Texts are too impersonal and easy.
  • TavistockToad
    TavistockToad Posts: 35,719 Member
    edited May 2016
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    librarydebster wrote: »
    Call me old fashioned but if you had a good date and then he texts you to make a date and then texts to break a date, it doesn't sound good. If a guy is really interested he should pick up the phone. Yep. The phone. If he's interested he will want to hear your voice and make sure you're still interested and keep a connection. Texts are too impersonal and easy.

    I would find a phone call weird... my husband only rings if somethings wrong... I don't think I remember him ever ringing me when we were dating...
  • petunia773
    petunia773 Posts: 473 Member
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    Go on the date with him tonight!! Geez!
  • synchkat
    synchkat Posts: 37,368 Member
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    _incogNEATo_ wrote: »
    I'm laffing at everybody saying "you deserve better."

    How do you know she's not a "C U Next Tuesday"?????

    What's happening on Tuesday??? Man I'm old
  • synchkat
    synchkat Posts: 37,368 Member
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    _MistahJ_ wrote: »
    synchkat wrote: »
    _incogNEATo_ wrote: »
    I'm laffing at everybody saying "you deserve better."

    How do you know she's not a "C U Next Tuesday"?????

    What's happening on Tuesday??? Man I'm old

    He's eating tacos, of course.

    Duh what was I thinking
  • solieco1
    solieco1 Posts: 1,559 Member
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    Trust your gut. If it feels wrong, walk now. If its just curious behavior but you like him, give it one more chance.
  • dbanks80
    dbanks80 Posts: 3,685 Member
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    Hauntinglyfit wrote: »
    This whole mental lambada sounds exhausting.

    Yeah glad I am not single this is mind blowing.

    I don't think it is a big deal. It's only one date.

  • frugalshrimp
    frugalshrimp Posts: 36 Member
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    1) No dates at home (not until at least the 5th date)
    2) Time to read "He's Not That Into You."
    3) There are awesome guys out there. Not give this one another thought.
  • myfavoriteyear
    myfavoriteyear Posts: 31 Member
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    Thanks so much for all the advice, I really appreciate it
  • toned_thugs_n_harmony
    toned_thugs_n_harmony Posts: 1,001 Member
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    maybe he text the wrong girl when he made the date, and quickly cancelled when he realized his mistake
  • salembambi
    salembambi Posts: 5,585 Member
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    Kittenisspooky wrote: »
    Tell him you made plans with someone else but if something opens up next week maybe you will get back to him.
    If he is interested in you he will not cancel again and it also tells him you have options and im sure you do. It gives you time to think as well

    and make sure you bang at least 5 other guys before you go on another date with him

    i would anyway
  • Ckoschik1981
    Ckoschik1981 Posts: 1 Member
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    Any time you have doubts or red flags this early on, it is usually for good reason.

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