After he cancelled our 2nd date....

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  • solieco1
    solieco1 Posts: 1,559 Member
    Trust your gut. If it feels wrong, walk now. If its just curious behavior but you like him, give it one more chance.
  • dbanks80
    dbanks80 Posts: 3,685 Member
    Hauntinglyfit wrote: »
    This whole mental lambada sounds exhausting.

    Yeah glad I am not single this is mind blowing.

    I don't think it is a big deal. It's only one date.

  • frugalshrimp
    frugalshrimp Posts: 36 Member
    1) No dates at home (not until at least the 5th date)
    2) Time to read "He's Not That Into You."
    3) There are awesome guys out there. Not give this one another thought.
  • myfavoriteyear
    myfavoriteyear Posts: 31 Member
    Thanks so much for all the advice, I really appreciate it
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  • toned_thugs_n_harmony
    toned_thugs_n_harmony Posts: 1,001 Member
    maybe he text the wrong girl when he made the date, and quickly cancelled when he realized his mistake
  • salembambi
    salembambi Posts: 5,585 Member
    Kittenisspooky wrote: »
    Tell him you made plans with someone else but if something opens up next week maybe you will get back to him.
    If he is interested in you he will not cancel again and it also tells him you have options and im sure you do. It gives you time to think as well

    and make sure you bang at least 5 other guys before you go on another date with him

    i would anyway
  • Ckoschik1981
    Ckoschik1981 Posts: 1 Member
    Any time you have doubts or red flags this early on, it is usually for good reason.
  • myfavoriteyear
    myfavoriteyear Posts: 31 Member
    Update - those of you who said not to play games i agree with you. But i didn't text him back last night. I really just didn't feel like going out anyway and i didn't want to text him if i wasn't feeling it.

    I was also scared to take the plunge and text him first. I had a pretty hard breakup about 3 months ago. But i felt like getting in touch this morning so i texted "good morning sexy..would love to get together." Long story short we're on for tonight. Hopefully he won't do the cancelling thing again without one hell of a good reason.
  • jenovatrix
    jenovatrix Posts: 219 Member
    myfavoriteyear wrote: »
    But i felt like getting in touch this morning so i texted "good morning sexy..would love to get together." Long story short we're on for tonight. Hopefully he won't do the cancelling thing again without one hell of a good reason.

    Make sure your birth control's filled I guess....
  • wilsoncl6
    wilsoncl6 Posts: 1,280 Member
    salembambi wrote: »
    Kittenisspooky wrote: »
    Tell him you made plans with someone else but if something opens up next week maybe you will get back to him.
    If he is interested in you he will not cancel again and it also tells him you have options and im sure you do. It gives you time to think as well

    and make sure you bang at least 5 other guys before you go on another date with him

    i would anyway

    Listen to her, she know's what she's talking about.
  • AngelinaB_
    AngelinaB_ Posts: 563 Member
    myfavoriteyear wrote: »
    I was also scared to take the plunge and text him first. I had a pretty hard breakup about 3 months ago. But i felt like getting in touch this morning so i texted "good morning sexy..would love to get together." Long story short we're on for tonight. Hopefully he won't do the cancelling thing again without one hell of a good reason.

    If I were the guy I know I have you in the bag and can play any games with you. Anyway, if you don't like to play games I guess you disclose yours already you know what I mean.

    To me, when he cancelled that would have turn me off so would have lost interest and pass...

    But everybody is different.

    Good luck on your casual hook up tonite. Have fun
  • wilsoncl6
    wilsoncl6 Posts: 1,280 Member
    myfavoriteyear wrote: »
    Update - those of you who said not to play games i agree with you. But i didn't text him back last night. I really just didn't feel like going out anyway and i didn't want to text him if i wasn't feeling it.

    I was also scared to take the plunge and text him first. I had a pretty hard breakup about 3 months ago. But i felt like getting in touch this morning so i texted "good morning sexy..would love to get together." Long story short we're on for tonight. Hopefully he won't do the cancelling thing again without one hell of a good reason.

    Sounds like somebody is getting some tonight. Make sure he wears a Jimmy hat.
  • groetzinger659
    groetzinger659 Posts: 47 Member
    personally I think because we have social media-we move much faster into relationships than we did 5 years ago.

    I don't understand why people get together so fast-what happened to getting to know each other for a month before-hanging out alone?

    I think if you like him-keep him at arms length=don't get bitchy at him about it-just sit back and give him enough rope and he will reveal himself-people are notorious for being on their best behavior the first 6 months-then they finally relax and you see the real person.

    There are many scammers out there-both men and women-the sad part is these same people have kids=and people wonder why kids have poor manners-they only mimic whats at home=so try to be a good example for the young ones in your life=I would give him another chance but no alone time for 6 months.
  • TavistockToad
    TavistockToad Posts: 35,719 Member
    wilsoncl6 wrote: »
    myfavoriteyear wrote: »
    Update - those of you who said not to play games i agree with you. But i didn't text him back last night. I really just didn't feel like going out anyway and i didn't want to text him if i wasn't feeling it.

    I was also scared to take the plunge and text him first. I had a pretty hard breakup about 3 months ago. But i felt like getting in touch this morning so i texted "good morning sexy..would love to get together." Long story short we're on for tonight. Hopefully he won't do the cancelling thing again without one hell of a good reason.

    Sounds like somebody is getting some tonight. Make sure he wears a Jimmy hat.

    :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
  • wilsoncl6
    wilsoncl6 Posts: 1,280 Member
    TannedTiger wrote: »
    Go for another date, and make sure to put out.

    Absolutely this. Wisdome of the ages in this post.
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  • tatilove1988
    tatilove1988 Posts: 330 Member
    myfavoriteyear wrote: »
    Update - those of you who said not to play games i agree with you. But i didn't text him back last night. I really just didn't feel like going out anyway and i didn't want to text him if i wasn't feeling it.

    I was also scared to take the plunge and text him first. I had a pretty hard breakup about 3 months ago. But i felt like getting in touch this morning so i texted "good morning sexy..would love to get together." Long story short we're on for tonight. Hopefully he won't do the cancelling thing again without one hell of a good reason.

    Can we have some details? Did you ask him why he cancelled before?
  • angelv0
    angelv0 Posts: 13 Member
    True
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