On days you just can't...
JessicaThompson12
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What do you do to motivate yourself on days when you literally just can't? Monday was cardio, Tuesday was Barre Legs and yesterday was supposed to be the 21 Day Fix Abs. It was a rough day at work and 10 mins in the video I just couldn't do it. My head wasn't in it. So I went for a 45 minute walk.
I'd like that to not be a habit what do you do to motivate yourself?
I'd like that to not be a habit what do you do to motivate yourself?
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I just do it. Like work or anything else that adults have to do.9
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I have to say, you went for a walk, so this is good, you just could have chosen to sit on the couch, but you decided to move.
I am part of an online fitness support group that is quite awesome, so if there is a day I lack motivation, I post it on their wall (it is on facebook) and then I get a lot of members telling me to post a picture after my workout is done. I have found that being part of a fitness support group really has helped me to stay motivated and not missing any workout.
Are you doing the 21 day fix?2 -
You know what.... I might not. And I'm quite the adult. Sometimes you have to listen to your body. Doesn't sound like you're slacking off for the 5th consecutive day or anything6
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If I just can't, then I just don't. But before I don't, I take a hard look at why I can't. If it's because I'm burned out, legitimately tired, not fueled properly, etc, then I don't beat myself up over taking a day off. Rest is good. If I'm just being lazy, well, that's when I need to put my big girl panties on and get it done. Maybe not the activity I had planned, but I do something else. Sounds like that's what you did.
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I have my main workout. That is lifting 3 days per week and yoga once a week. I consider that the same as my job. I only miss if I'm really sick. No excuses, ever. I do not make plans during those hours, if something comes up I tell them I can't make it until x time. If I don't feel like doing it, tough stuff, I have to. It's my "job". That being said...I have only programmed 4 workouts a week in, so I can still find time to have a life and get the things done that I need to do. When I'm not doing my regular workouts I usually still do things like hike, run, bike, etc. Those are just do as I can type of workouts. Though, you did say you tried to do a workout and ended up going for a 45 minute walk instead. I would call that a win...as long as you also adjusted your eating for the fact that you burned less calories in your workout.4
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CindyFooWho wrote: »You know what.... I might not. And I'm quite the adult. Sometimes you have to listen to your body. Doesn't sound like you're slacking off for the 5th consecutive day or anything
This. There are those days. And rest days are important. I just don't let it happen two days in a row because that's when bad trends start (unless I am sick or injured). That said, sometimes when I feel like skipping it, I do use the "Just Do It" mantra, because I always know that once I get started, I will immediately feel better.3 -
I find that once I start a workout, I can usually make myself get through it. But, I also don't stick 100% to a workout schedule. So, if I am doing P90X (as an example), I don't necessarily follow the calendar exactly. If it is plyometrics day and I am not feeling it, maybe I do chest and back instead, assuming that workout is scheduled for the same week (just being careful not to work the same muscle group two days in a row). Or if I am sore from an upper body workout, maybe I work my legs the next day instead of using a kettlebell.
It works for me to have a little flexibility in my schedule (lately because I seem to have strained a pectoral muscle so I am giving the upper body strength training a rest until I feel better). It took me a long time to get to this point -- I used to think everything was ruined and I would go on an eating binge if I messed up with one workout, but I've been able to get myself out of that mindset and I am much better off as a result. If walking 45 minutes is a release for you, log it as exercise and move on.0 -
If I have started my workout, I'll bring down the intensity and simply finish. If I'm feeling de-motivated before the workout, I'll pull up some motivational videos on Youtube.1
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JessicaThompson12 wrote: »What do you do to motivate yourself on days when you literally just can't? Monday was cardio, Tuesday was Barre Legs and yesterday was supposed to be the 21 Day Fix Abs. It was a rough day at work and 10 mins in the video I just couldn't do it. My head wasn't in it. So I went for a 45 minute walk.
I'd like that to not be a habit what do you do to motivate yourself?
I think you did the right thing. That's the general suggestion: if you don't feel like working out, give it 10 mins. Most of the time you'll keep going. This time you chose not to and did something else instead. I don't consider this a "just can't" day at ALL. You tried, made a decision, and then found an alternative. Win!8 -
I do indoor walking workout or something low impact like a dance when I don't feel like workout0
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I don't typically take rest days so if my body just can't, I just take one instead.1
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JessicaThompson12 wrote: »What do you do to motivate yourself on days when you literally just can't? Monday was cardio, Tuesday was Barre Legs and yesterday was supposed to be the 21 Day Fix Abs. It was a rough day at work and 10 mins in the video I just couldn't do it. My head wasn't in it. So I went for a 45 minute walk.
I'd like that to not be a habit what do you do to motivate yourself?
I think you did the right thing. That's the general suggestion: if you don't feel like working out, give it 10 mins. Most of the time you'll keep going. This time you chose not to and did something else instead. I don't consider this a "just can't" day at ALL. You tried, made a decision, and then found an alternative. Win!
Usually lazy days I can get through. It might not be the best workout but I've done it. But yesterday was different. I was mentally tired. Thank you for making me feel better! I'm taking a day off work tomorrow to get my life together to avoid being so rundown lately.2 -
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lporter229 wrote: »CindyFooWho wrote: »You know what.... I might not. And I'm quite the adult. Sometimes you have to listen to your body. Doesn't sound like you're slacking off for the 5th consecutive day or anything
This. There are those days. And rest days are important. I just don't let it happen two days in a row because that's when bad trends start (unless I am sick or injured). That said, sometimes when I feel like skipping it, I do use the "Just Do It" mantra, because I always know that once I get started, I will immediately feel better.
Exactly. Tonight it's back to the abs video.0 -
CindyFooWho wrote: »You know what.... I might not. And I'm quite the adult. Sometimes you have to listen to your body. Doesn't sound like you're slacking off for the 5th consecutive day or anything
Listen to your body or your brain. Thank you!0 -
I have my main workout. That is lifting 3 days per week and yoga once a week. I consider that the same as my job. I only miss if I'm really sick. No excuses, ever. I do not make plans during those hours, if something comes up I tell them I can't make it until x time. If I don't feel like doing it, tough stuff, I have to. It's my "job". That being said...I have only programmed 4 workouts a week in, so I can still find time to have a life and get the things done that I need to do. When I'm not doing my regular workouts I usually still do things like hike, run, bike, etc. Those are just do as I can type of workouts. Though, you did say you tried to do a workout and ended up going for a 45 minute walk instead. I would call that a win...as long as you also adjusted your eating for the fact that you burned less calories in your workout.
Yup. I don't depend on the exercise calories so anything I "earn" from them is just extra.0 -
I'm having one of those days today. My body feels wiped out. I am taking it as a sign that my body needs to rest, so instead of a full gym session at lunch, I just went for a 30-minute walk outside. It is a nice day today so it was good for clearing out my head as well. Hopefully that's all I'll need and I'll be able to get back at it tomorrow.2
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I do what you did, which is at least try. Most of the time I'm glad I pushed myself and feel better afterward, but then again...I do have that occasional day where it just isn't gonna happen and I have to walk away. And that's perfectly fine. We all have our "off" days for whatever reason. I say at least give it a shot though because more times than not you'll be glad you did.2
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I just do my workout in the morning so I'm fresh and not tired. I'm often fatigued so it's the best way for me to make sure I get my workouts in. also I really enjoy what I do at the gym so I always look forward to doing it. it's important to make sure you're doing something that you like to do so that you won't even want to make excuses to not do it. because of these 2 factors, the only time I miss my workout is when I'm physically ill, like super ill, exhausted, no energy whatsoever.0
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I always think of how good a workout makes me feel after Ive done it...that always motivates me x1
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JessicaThompson12 wrote: »What do you do to motivate yourself on days when you literally just can't? Monday was cardio, Tuesday was Barre Legs and yesterday was supposed to be the 21 Day Fix Abs. It was a rough day at work and 10 mins in the video I just couldn't do it. My head wasn't in it. So I went for a 45 minute walk.
I'd like that to not be a habit what do you do to motivate yourself?
I think you did the right thing. That's the general suggestion: if you don't feel like working out, give it 10 mins. Most of the time you'll keep going. This time you chose not to and did something else instead. I don't consider this a "just can't" day at ALL. You tried, made a decision, and then found an alternative. Win!
So much this.1 -
It's about being honest with yourself and thinking of why you can't get through a workout or even try to workout. When our bodies are exhausted we need to consider the reasons and figure out if it can be pushed and challenged that day, or if I need to simply accept that I need a rest day! There is no right or wrong answer, as long as you're not enabling yourself and using this too often as an excuse!
I always try to remind myself of how great I feel after. But just three days ago I went through the same, I got up, got kids fed, lunches packed, off to school, I was dressed for the gym and ready to go.... And my body just felt overwhelmingly drained, I thought about it, evaluated, and opted to skip... I still ran errands and ended with over 13,000 steps plus ended up playing soccer with my youngest in the afternoon anyway.... But, most importantly, I didn't beat myself up over my decision!2
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