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Interesting way that people excuse their overweight / obesity
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midwesterner85 wrote: »The typical response based on CICO to someone who wants to lose faster is to cut calorie intake or increase calorie expenditure. In the case I provided as a personal example, that approach did not work.
This is a very common claim, but not one that has ever (to my knowledge) been supported empirically. What happens when you take people who "cannot lose weight" or for whom "CICO doesn't work" and put them in an experimental environment where all access to food is controlled and monitored? Somehow magically they start losing weight at the predicted rate. This has been confirmed time and time again... the short version is that people are REALLY bad at tracking caloric intake and expenditures. The law of thermodynamics doesn't magically not apply to people.
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Could midwesterner85's results have had something to do with the autoimmune disease that was mentioned? Is t one that affects the metabolism like Hashimoto's (low thyroid)?2
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Wicked_Seraph wrote: »
Yes, but there is a world of difference, I think, in saying that you weren't taking responsibility for your health vs saying that you were making excuses for being overweight.
"Excuse" puts a moral slant on something that really shouldn't have it. Being obese or overweight is neither good nor bad - it's simply how someone is at that point in time. I don't consider those who are obese - like myself, for one - to have committed some kind of moral failing. We simply made mistakes, and ultimately it's our choice whether or not to continue going down the same path or do something different.
I will 100% say that I wasn't taking personal responsibility for my health. I will agree that having the truth sugar-coated did nothing to help me - it made it so much easier to pretend that MY CHOICES weren't the cause of my obesity. I wanted desperately to think that I wasn't losing weight because of something else... because surely it wouldn't be because I was insufficient in some way? It's easier to attribute failure to one's genetics or metabolism than, as much as it sucks, admitting that you eat too much and need to knock that *kitten* off. I agree that in many cases, people are refusing to acknowledge their own shortcomings. But again... phrasing it as "making excuses" is shaming and puts people on the defensive.
To the bolded: Not necessarily. At least that's not how I think of it. I have zero interest in fat shaming. If someone chooses to remain overweight, it's their choice. I chose to stay fat for years. (I might assign a minor demerit, though only in my head, if I feel like they're making disastrous choices that impose serious costs on others).
To me, if someone asserts that they really, really want to lose weight, and then tells me stories about factors clearly under their control, claiming that those factors are somehow not in their hands, they are making excuses.
If they really, really want to lose weight, yet have factors outside their control that limit their ability to lose weight, those are reasons. If they explicitly choose to remain overweight, any explanation of how or why would also constitute reasons.
The "moral" implications (and "moral" is too strong a word for it IMO), if any, arise from the self-deception, unwillingness to work toward their own stated goals, refusal to accept responsibility for changing things they can in pursuit of those stated goals, and, yeah, kinda whiny-ness about all of the above.
It's not about the "being fat," "not taking responsibility for health," etc., in my view. It's about claiming to have goals, but refusing to strive.4 -
Wickedfaery73 wrote: »Could midwesterner85's results have had something to do with the autoimmune disease that was mentioned? Is t one that affects the metabolism like Hashimoto's (low thyroid)?
I think he said he's already been checked out by a doctor and they said he's fine, unless I'm misremembering things.1 -
I think he said he's already been checked out by a doctor and they said he's fine, unless I'm misremembering things.
You are mis-remembering things. What I said was that it was consistent throughout. I was losing slowly, then cut CI and started rapidly gaining, then raised calories to previous level and started losing slowly again without any change during that time to my health status or treatments.1 -
midwesterner85 wrote: »
You are mis-remembering things. What I said was that it was consistent throughout. I was losing slowly, then cut CI and started rapidly gaining, then raised calories to previous level and started losing slowly again without any change during that time to my health status or treatments.
Ummmm so does that mean you were diagnosed with a metabolic disorder or not....?
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Ummmm so does that mean you were diagnosed with a metabolic disorder or not....?
I have auto-immune diseases, yes. Is there a way that my BMR suddenly dropped during the same time I cut CI? My RMR would have to be around 110 cal/day during that time for the CICO math to make sense.
This is why I knew so much about health during the entire time... I've been under the care of an endocrinologist for more than 20 years.1 -
midwesterner85 wrote: »
I have auto-immune diseases, yes. Is there a way that my BMR suddenly dropped during the same time I cut CI? My RMR would have to be around 110 cal/day during that time for the math to make sense.
Well, regardless, it still leaves us with only two explanations - you spontaneously generated body mass from nothing, or you didn't log accurately. You know which explanation I prefer.
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Packerjohn wrote: »Again, even if the pelvis widens, the person can reduce calories and/or increase exercise to avoid weight gain.
I never said they couldn't. However, it would mean they would need to become even leaner than they were at the younger age, and that the weight gain isn't necessarily unhealthy. I'm not quite sure why you can't grasp this concept.
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Wickedfaery73 wrote: »Could midwesterner85's results have had something to do with the autoimmune disease that was mentioned? Is t one that affects the metabolism like Hashimoto's (low thyroid)?
Also, Hashimoto's is very manageable. There are a number of people here who suffer from Hashimoto's and have still achieved great results.
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One excuse I hear a lot is that calorie counting is hard.
I spend around 5 to 10 minutes a day logging my food if it's not saved over from the previous day. How is that harder than being 100 lbs overweight someone please tell me.
Truth. Especially, since you have so many app or web options. It's not like back in the day when people had to actually look up the amount of calories a food had in a book. It's literally a version of googling nowadays.3 -
wackyfunster wrote: »Sure, but not enough to lower TDEE to 100. Even a 40% reduction in BMR is about the limit after months of starvation. An untreated thyroid condition that produced that level of metabolic slowdown would product severe health issues and likely death in a relatively short period of time.
Also, Hashimoto's is very manageable. There are a number of people here who suffer from Hashimoto's and have still achieved great results.
My daughter has Hashimoto's. I just asked because it was mentioned earlier he had a condition but never said what he had.0 -
There are a lot of theories floating around out there. One I was looking at recently is that the balance or lack of balance of gut flora and other microorganisms in your body play a part in determining what you crave and when you reach satiety. So yeh, I'd say my resident microorganisms are separate; they aren't human tissue.1
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Bold 1: Or that the methodologies for measuring either side of the energy equation are less effective for certain people.
Bold 2: While gravity always works, its effects are not always felt, for example in outer space.
What would be an example of the effects of CICO not being felt? The only one I can think of is when CI=CO. Are there other cases?
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Well, regardless, it still leaves us with only two explanations - you spontaneously generated body mass from nothing, or you didn't log accurately. You know which explanation I prefer.
Are we sure it wasn't water weight?0 -
Are we sure it wasn't water weight?
If the time frame was short enough, the probability of this starts approaching 1. Can someone fill me in? It's been pages and I don't want to search for where he gets into specifics.2 -
Are we sure it wasn't water weight?
Even that isn't "generating body mass from nothing." Water in, water out.
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Even that isn't "generating body mass from nothing." Water in, water out.
Yes, but I don't think he's actually claiming his extra pounds were generated from nothing. Or is he?0 -
What would be an example of the effects of CICO not being felt? The only one I can think of is when CI=CO. Are there other cases?
It seems like there's often a lot of effort to make this more complicated than it is. Here are assumption I make about all this:
1) No one here on these boards are able to precisely measure CI or CO.
2) Therefore, our calorie and exercise logging is based on estimates. Which are subject to instrumentation and human error (systematic and otherwise).
3) You can't violate the principle of Conservation of Energy (e.g., or "calories in, calories out")
Ergo, *any* person here who claims they gain weight on a calorie deficit is wrong. It's measurement error.8 -
It seems like there's often a lot of effort to make this more complicated than it is. Here are assumption I make about all this:
1) No one here on these boards are able to precisely measure CI or CO.
2) Therefore, our calorie and exercise logging is based on estimates. Which are subject to instrumentation and human error (systematic and otherwise).
3) You can't violate the principle of Conservation of Energy (e.g., or "calories in, calories out")
Ergo, *any* person here who claims they gain weight on a calorie deficit is wrong. It's measurement error.
I know all that, but @moe0303 compared the effects of gravity not always being felt to the effects of CICO not always being felt. I was just curious when, in his opinion, that might be the case aside from when CI=CO.0 -
I know all that, but @moe0303 compared the effects of gravity not always being felt to the effects of CICO not always being felt. I was just curious when, in his opinion, that might be the case aside from when CI=CO.
I guess still losing fat but retaining water?1 -
I like how this whole decreased calories and gained weight is being touted as this OMG when this happens to tons of women every single month.11
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Yes, but I don't think he's actually claiming his extra pounds were generated from nothing. Or is he?
I'm saying that there was an occasion where I cut calorie intake by 500 calories per day and the results were that I went from a small loss before to gaining 2 lbs/ week after cutting calories. I am not suggesting that it was any particular type of weight, because I really don't know. It very well could have water retention for some reason.1 -
stevencloser wrote: »
I guess still losing fat but retaining water?
Oh, yeah. I didn't think of that. Makes perfect sense.
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midwesterner85 wrote: »
I'm saying that there was an occasion where I cut calorie intake by 500 calories per day and the results were that I went from a small deficit before to gaining 2 lbs/ week after cutting calories. I am not suggesting that it was any particular type of weight, because I really don't know. It very well could have water retention for some reason.
Thanks for answering! I'm glad to hear it from the horse's mouth. I'm going to go with it was water weight, unless you were on some sleeping medication during that time and had a problem with "sleep-eating" that you didn't know about.
Edit: How long did the 2 lb/week gain last? Did you do something to make it stop, or did it stop on it's own? Did you start losing weight again after?1 -
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Thanks for answering! I'm glad to hear it from the horse's mouth. I'm going to go with it was water weight, unless you were on some sleeping medication during that time and had a problem with "sleep-eating" that you didn't know about.
Edit: How long did the 2 lb/week gain last? Did you do something to make it stop, or did it stop on it's own? Did you start losing weight again after?
It lasted just over 3 weeks and I gained about 8 lbs.. I didn't want to go on because I was gaining so fast and it was going to be harder to lose that again if it continued longer. At that point, I increased calorie intake to the previous level and started losing weight again (albeit just as slowly as before cutting calories).0 -
Yes, but I don't think he's actually claiming his extra pounds were generated from nothing. Or is he?
On page 8, he said that "maybe" one explanation for the results he got is that CICO didn't apply to him (e.g., "Maybe that explanation disproves CICO").
So, if it "disproves CICO," then it means he thinks it's possible the principle of Conservation of Energy doesn't apply and that mass can be generated from nothing (unless we're saying that water retention "disproves CICO." Which is pendantic and silly and I don't think anyone is arguing that)
There's really only two possibilities at play when someone gains (non water) weight and claims they're on a caloric deficit. One, they're measuring wrong. Two, they've discovered how to magically conjure up mass from nothing at all. Which would be totally cool.4 -
On page 8, he said that "maybe" one explanation for the results he got is that CICO didn't apply to him (e.g., "Maybe that explanation disproves CICO").
So, if it "disproves CICO," then it means he thinks it's possible the principle of Conservation of Energy doesn't apply and that mass can be generated from nothing (unless we're saying that water retention "disproves CICO." Which is pendantic and silly and I don't think anyone is arguing that)
There's really only two possibilities at play when someone gains (non water) weight and claims they're on a caloric deficit. One, they're measuring wrong. Two, they've discovered how to magically conjure up mass from nothing at all. Which would be totally cool.
Or, Three, they're not pooping.9 -
Or four, they're just habitual exaggerators.8
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