should I fight for him ?

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  • pmastro724
    pmastro724 Posts: 122 Member
    I'd move on. He knows you are always available and knows exactly what to say to you. Don't waste your youth "fighting" for any man. Relationship shouldn't be so difficult. Why is his family against you? I think families play a big roll in relationships. If its meant to be - it will be! Good Luck!
  • lorrpb
    lorrpb Posts: 11,463 Member
    ?? This is a weight loss & fitness community, not a love & dating board.
  • BiggDaddy58
    BiggDaddy58 Posts: 406 Member
    YOU are beautiful. YOU have a lot to offer someone. YOU are worth fighting for. Fight for yourself first. Just be yourself and be free. Someone will find you.

    Maybe it will be him. Maybe it won't. It will not matter who it is..what will matter, is they found you and they want you.

    Set yourself FREE and be YOU. Just YOU for awhile. I think you'll find, you really like yourself. Give yourself the time to do that.
  • Hispanicprincess
    Hispanicprincess Posts: 53 Member
    Lasmartchika wrote: »
    Go for it. Get it out of your system and fight for him. No matter what we tell you, you'll follow your feelings (which are still clinging to him).

    BUT, just remember it's not gonna end well. It's gonna hurt like hell, but at least you'll know you're only second best for him - never the priority, never the only one.

    Only then you'll be able to move on and forget about him... and have your eyes open for the one who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated.

    This all the way! Your going you do what you want no matter what. So even the community telling you not won't matter, but then you'll learn. I wish you the best!
  • Lorraine7486
    Lorraine7486 Posts: 21 Member
    JustSomeEm wrote: »
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    I'm glad. I thought it was getting a bit mean.
  • Poodapie
    Poodapie Posts: 10 Member
    Understand you could be with an adonis right now but you're here asking about a TAKEN man. This isn't the movies or a romantic comedy called, "Your life." and this is NOT a fantasy. This is your heart and mental state being racked apart by someone who gets to lay down and *kitten* another woman every night. (Sorry about the language)

    Frankly, he deserves neither you or his current girlfriend. What if the shoes were switched and he was talking to his ex-girlfriend after you guys get back together. Telling her he made a mistake, that he wants her back, and that he was weak for something that wasn't really there.

    Wise up! Look at yourself and know YOU are worth more than B*LLSH*T. Keep your emotions in check because those same emotions cause weight gain, eating disorders, and bad decisions.
  • e9196tep
    e9196tep Posts: 57 Member
    He may still care about you but the fact is he's with her. Choice made. You will find the right guy but you need to be able to see him clearly and not through the the hopeful rose colored glasses your looking through now. Be strong and get past this. It's a choice.
  • yasef13
    yasef13 Posts: 63 Member
    NO.....JUST NO!
    sorry for yelling, but I speak from experience!
  • Machka9
    Machka9 Posts: 25,630 Member
    juliafitchick wrote: »
    We fought all the time, while in school I'd get crazy jealous and eventually he stopped trusting me we started to fade our stress was over top because we were both in school and so far away from everything we ever knew. Our relationship went south really quickly and we both have our faults. In my final year of school and his second he decided to end things. And just like that cold turkey I lost my best friend. My lover. My baby my soal mate... he was my everything.

    Sounds like a good relationship to me.

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