Eating disorders

I'm the exact same way! When I work out I literally weigh my self 10 times in a two hour period! If I don't even go down 1oz before I'm done; i fell my self mentally abusing my self. Trying to push myself harder & harder! Your not alone!!

The best thing you can do is get professional help.

Otherwise, all you can really do is keep telling yourself that your thought process is both unrealistic and unhealthy. But you also say that you over eat. Are you consciously tracking calories? I guess I'm slightly confused as to how you expect the scale to go down if you are supposedly overeating.

Some folks benefit from finding other ways of measuring success. Instead of focusing on the scale, use things like measuring your body, taking progress photos, setting fitness goals, ect. Fixating on the scale won't help in the long term because the changes you make need to last a lifetime. Fixating on the scale to the point of discouragement over fluctuations is already setting you up for failure.

vespiquenn wrote: »

The best thing you can do is get professional help.

Otherwise, all you can really do is keep telling yourself that your thought process is both unrealistic and unhealthy. But you also say that you over eat. Are you consciously tracking calories? I guess I'm slightly confused as to how you expect the scale to go down if you are supposedly overeating.

Some folks benefit from finding other ways of measuring success. Instead of focusing on the scale, use things like measuring your body, taking progress photos, setting fitness goals, ect. Fixating on the scale won't help in the long term because the changes you make need to last a lifetime. Fixating on the scale to the point of discouragement over fluctuations is already setting you up for failure.

And this!!!
Ive kept away from the scale entirely.
I take measurements once a week (its hard not to do 50 times a day!), and losing inches can be insanely encouraging.

EmanuellaBella wrote: »

Like-minded here I don't suffer from dysmorphia (I am sorry you are) but am being treated for 'moderate to severe binge eating disorder'. Oh, yay

I actually am on meds (so far so good) but they are specific to hard core binge eating disorder, so not something that would apply to you, I suppose, but I do use the meds in conjunction with cognitive behavioral therapy... which might be right up your alley. I've only just started, but I really think it's going to help. Is that something you can look into where you are? I was worried at first that it would be "well... if you eat when you're sad, you should journal" or "when you feel yourself binging, you should drink water and go for a brisk walk" (hahah!!) but it's not, not at all.

@EmanuellaBella Is it Vyvanse you're on? I'm glad you're feeling more hopeful and doing CBT. I'm new to DBT and hopefully that will help with my thinking.

To all of you also dealing with a binge disorder, it really does get better, I'm right there with you all in understanding how isolating it can feel at times. ugh Body dysmorphia... is some crazy stuff, I look in the mirror and I think ..wow, looking good, a bit later, I look in horror. It's quite confusing to my head what I actually look like as I see myself in so many different ways. I totally understand the scale issue, I battle with that obsession, it's not a good measuring tool but it's something I lean on at times. I much prefer if my clothes get loose or I have more energy. I actually don't care what the scale ends up saying in the end. As we build muscle to take the place of fat in our body the scale will no longer be very useful. So I'm trying hard to lessen it's grip now.

It does give a lonely feeling like you're the only one. But we aren't the only one, that's just another distortion in our minds.

Glad this thread was posted and the others of you shared where you're at. I ended up with tears down my cheeks as I wrote this. I feel close as we share so much in common, pain, confusion, yet trying to work through it to heal and get through the other side.

Amazing how that can happen on an online thread..

This. All of this. I've been on both ends of the spectrum (underweight, not eating enough, working out all the time.... To binge eating, no energy, no exercise). I have never been "overweight" by medical terms, but I have never been happy with my body. I really struggle with this. Right now I am trying to lose 10lbs. (5'10" currently 144ish). My head would be happier if I lost 15, 20, or 25... But I now I have to keep my goals more realistic.
Body dysphorphia San be all-consuming. I completely understand the daily highs and lows.

I'm a binge eater in recovery. I've been to 4 therapists and and two eating clinics. Mostly, the therapists told me to just break up with my boyfriend, which is a whole other issue in and of itself. I was diagnosed hypothyroid in 2011 and it's been a not so pleasant adventure since. Your thyroid messes up a lot of things. I am now gluten free and my anxiety is in full force. I am getting treated by a psychologist and controlling my anxiety with meds for the moment, but I had to take a good look at my diet and commit to a plan. I am presently on day 3 of a thyroid eating plan - and I do feel mentally better at least, or I want it to work so bad I feel mentally better. I cannot expect to lose weight though quickly, it can take a long time to heal especially when you way more. You have to fix it at the cellular level and when you have more cells, well you get the idea.

I have however started doing a lot of my own research and reading to get better. I want to be happy, my mind won't let me sometimes. I especially found codependent no more and kill all the marriage counselors helpful.

And I try not to keep trigger founds in the house and not to be home alone, that's when I start to eat, hungry or not. I find that when my diet is satisfying, I'm in better control of the binge.