Body dismorphia - no judging please
Kdp2015
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Has anyone been successfully treated for this, if so what does it involve? How bad does it need to be before you get help, is it a thing in its own right or does it only need addressing if you have an eating disorder? Thanks
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It can get better on its own, but it's a good idea to seek professional help if you think you have it. I've been through a lot of therapy and usually it involves you talking through the issue, them providing some perspective, some exercises to help retrain your brain, and homework that you do whenever the issue pops up. You don't need to be diagnosed as having an eating disorder to seek help for mental health reasons.
Anything that causes mental stress and starts to negatively impact your life is a reason to seek help. It's easier to learn how to control or fix it early, rather than years down the road when you've damaged your mind, body, and personal relationships.3 -
Thank you usmcmp0
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I've had a couple of clients who had it (both females). And while I could help them get better with their physical fitness and shape, it was never enough even though both were in excellent shape and others would die to have their physiques. I suggested to both of them to consult a therapist. Consequently, I really never saw both after that.
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I've had a couple of clients who had it (both females). And while I could help them get better with their physical fitness and shape, it was never enough even though both were in excellent shape and others would die to have their physiques. I suggested to both of them to consult a therapist. Consequently, I really never saw both after that.
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That's sad, isn't it?0 -
It happens. While not my field of expertise, I've seen a few people who've had issues with body dysmorphia, most on the side of being too skinny. One was a guy who couldn't get big enough and he was pretty huge and juicin' hard.TavistockToad wrote: »I've had a couple of clients who had it (both females). And while I could help them get better with their physical fitness and shape, it was never enough even though both were in excellent shape and others would die to have their physiques. I suggested to both of them to consult a therapist. Consequently, I really never saw both after that.
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Been in fitness for 30 years and have studied kinesiology and nutrition
That's sad, isn't it?
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I'm not sure it's that bad really but I would really like to maintain now and I feel like my perception of myself is holding me back from that and I think about it a lot more than I probably should. I wouldn't say it makes me anxious but it does take up too much of my time and gets a bit 'in the way' of normal life.0
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I'm not sure it's that bad really but I would really like to maintain now and I feel like my perception of myself is holding me back from that and I think about it a lot more than I probably should. I wouldn't say it makes me anxious but it does take up too much of my time and gets a bit 'in the way' of normal life.
I'll be honest with you, I used to have a pal on here who was trying to maintain her weight but couldn't get over eating in a deficit.
She sounded very much like you in the way she talked about herself and the scale and her struggle to eat more.
Eventually, thankfully, she left mfp and went into a residential eating disorder programme.
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I love it here...I've never been that low in my calories and I'm not underweightTavistockToad wrote: »I'm not sure it's that bad really but I would really like to maintain now and I feel like my perception of myself is holding me back from that and I think about it a lot more than I probably should. I wouldn't say it makes me anxious but it does take up too much of my time and gets a bit 'in the way' of normal life.
I'll be honest with you, I used to have a pal on here who was trying to maintain her weight but couldn't get over eating in a deficit.
She sounded very much like you in the way she talked about herself and the scale and her struggle to eat more.
Eventually, thankfully, she left mfp and went into a residential eating disorder programme.
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I love it here...I've never been that low in my calories and I'm not underweightTavistockToad wrote: »I'm not sure it's that bad really but I would really like to maintain now and I feel like my perception of myself is holding me back from that and I think about it a lot more than I probably should. I wouldn't say it makes me anxious but it does take up too much of my time and gets a bit 'in the way' of normal life.
I'll be honest with you, I used to have a pal on here who was trying to maintain her weight but couldn't get over eating in a deficit.
She sounded very much like you in the way she talked about herself and the scale and her struggle to eat more.
Eventually, thankfully, she left mfp and went into a residential eating disorder programme.
I haven't said you were, it's the negative self talk I was referencing.
Which is easier to fix now than in 6 months if it becomes more serious.0 -
Am I turning into an mfp pain in the *kitten*??0
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I think what you're experiencing is partly normal but it can get out of control, like any anxiety disorder. Distraction and having things to do will stop the spinny brain.
*shrug*
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Lol I'm not sure it knows how to do anything other than spin!0
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Well, that's pretty common in anxiety or mania.
If it becomes intrusive it's time to address it with a professional.
In the meantime, try positive self-talk. . . reading motivational books, prayer, exercise, staying away from caffeine and alcohol. Hobbies. Distract distract distract.
Don't torture yourself with your own thoughts.
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Thank you I've always wanted to try counselling but feel like it would make things a lot worse before they got better.
I will look into positive self talk it sounds like what I need.
I gave up alcohol in February (a whole different story) can't go without my cups of tea and Diet Coke though.
I do try to keep busy but my distractions seem to easily turn into obsessions.0 -
@Kdp2015 Rumination & obsessive thinking can run the gamut from mildly annoying to severely debilitating. When it interferes with your quality of life and you can't seem to stop the monkey chatter, it is time to seek help. Nobody wants to ask for help - ugh!!! - but -
a) you are not alone,
b) you do not have to accept a lifetime of obsessions and dysmorphia, and
c) you deserve to be happy!!!
Seize the day and promise yourself you'll call a counselor tomorrow first thing and get an appointment.
Repeat after me: I am worth it.0 -
Whatever traumas or burdens you are carrying can be put down. You don't have to take them with you for the rest of your life. ((hug))
When you said you were afraid counseling would make things worse before better, that's what came to my mind. It's hard to face up to the past, but letting go of it is absolutely necessary for moving forward into a happier life. Unresolved past "stuff" can cause all kinds of problems in the now. Can't change it, may as well learn to live with it.
I'm with Karen, go stand in front of a mirror and say, "I love you."
Do that every day. Watch the miracle happen.
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I've not had any traumas to get over, my mum always took me to the Drs as a kid to find out what was wrong with me - they said I was withdrawn and quiet because I needed to get out and live a bit more - I've never really felt comfortable with Drs!0
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Oh, well that's really good that you have no past to worry about. There is nothing inherently wrong with being quiet and withdrawn...but when I am alone a lot I have to be especially mindful of what thoughts I am allowing to run my mind.
Mindfulness might be something you could research, try your Google. 1 -
You have to do what you think is right, I wish you the very, very best!1
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Hi @Kdp2015,
I also suffer from body dismorphia and have done for as long as I can remember, possibly even as young as 6/7. As I get older I am learning to love myself and accept what I have. I think the media plays a massive part in making us believe we must look a certain way. Remember that what you see in magazines and media outlets is very often misconstrued and that even the women we consider to be the most beautiful have body hang-ups. Please start to see yourself for the beautiful person that you are both physically and emotionally and do not let the way you look define you. We only have one life and the world is yours for the taking.1
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