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mommyofanangelboy
mommyofanangelboy Posts: 68 Member
edited December 2024 in Motivation and Support
Has anyone ever got deleted as a "mfp friend" because they were doing fairly well with their weightloss?

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  • jgnatca
    jgnatca Posts: 14,464 Member
    Never happened to me.

    I've deleted inactive accounts and voluble "friends" with dissimilar values.
  • _Waffle_
    _Waffle_ Posts: 13,049 Member
    Including yourself?
  • lessismoreohio
    lessismoreohio Posts: 910 Member
    If a MFP friend deleted you, or anyone, because you were doing well with your weight loss, then it is best to wish them good luck and good riddance.
  • TavistockToad
    TavistockToad Posts: 35,719 Member
    I once got deleted because I could 'eat so much and still lose weight' :laugh:
  • arditarose
    arditarose Posts: 15,573 Member
    No. I think I was deleted once because I was whiny a bit and a friend didn't agree with my decision to cut and bulk.
  • maxpyne
    maxpyne Posts: 13 Member
    it means that you are on right track :smiley: !!!
  • MissusMoon
    MissusMoon Posts: 1,900 Member
    I got deleted because I was accused of being a friend collector and I never interacted with someone. Big nastygram message about it, too. I never interacted with the person because they never posted any losses, their diaries were always over, and there weren't really any status updates to comment on. Like, what was I supposed to do?
  • fireytiger
    fireytiger Posts: 236 Member
    I've had people comment about how much I can eat and still lose, as well as *what* I eat. I don't believe in cutting out any food groups or forbidding myself from ever eating fast food or somewhat unhealthy choices on occasion. Some people don't get that, but balance is what works for me, not restriction. I don't think i've had someone unfriend me over success though; if they did, they didn't tell me about it. lol
  • ponycyndi
    ponycyndi Posts: 858 Member
    I've deleted people, just because I didn't like to see their feed. But I've never felt the need to message someone to say, "I'm deleting you because I don't like you for (insert random reason here)"
  • queenliz99
    queenliz99 Posts: 15,317 Member
    enterdanger wrote: »
    I've only deleted people for 90 days or more of inactivity and consistently eating under 1200 calories and then whining that they don't feel good and they are dizzy and cold all the time. But swearing that undereating wasn't causing it.

    Oh, and I got deleted once cause I posted about beer too much. lol. That was my favorite.

    I'm not deleting you because of the beer consumption. Some people just don't get it!!
  • ccrdragon
    ccrdragon Posts: 3,374 Member
    I have deleted people because of inactivity and I did delete 1 guy because he kept posting his song list (one at a time all friggin' day)...
  • Pupslice
    Pupslice Posts: 213 Member
    I was deleted because I didn't want to see some guy's nekkid pictures. :D
  • jemhh
    jemhh Posts: 14,261 Member
    I'm not sure if anybody has ever deleted me as a friend or why it may have happened. How would you know?
  • RoseTheWarrior
    RoseTheWarrior Posts: 2,035 Member
    edited July 2016
    I've been deleted and I've deleted people. I never sent a message nor have I received a message about it. I delete people who don't log on for more than 25 days or who have a negative attitude. I have been deleted by at least one person who just didn't have the same view of the world as me. No problem. Did the person who deleted you TELL you that's why they deleted you? If so, you're better off without them. If not, that's a big assumption to make.
  • DeficitDuchess
    DeficitDuchess Posts: 3,099 Member
    I don't typically seek friend requests but did, when I joined a challenge group; that required it. I very much dislike, that requirement. I do delete those that don't sign in daily. I don't accept requests, from friend collectors & have deleted those, that try to have cyber sex with me. Basically I am an awful friend because I don't interact on my News Feed because of all of the automatic posts, that I have no interest in reading; like when someone becomes friends with someone. I do PM back & forth, with 1 friend; so that's nice!
  • lorrpb
    lorrpb Posts: 11,463 Member
    I have no idea if someone deletes me. Really, we're just screen names & avatars at the end of t h e day, so I wouldn't lose any sleep over it.
  • Alluminati
    Alluminati Posts: 6,208 Member
    I don't know, nor do I care.
  • stephanieluvspb
    stephanieluvspb Posts: 997 Member
    Did they tell you why they were deleting you or are you assuming?
  • nutmegoreo
    nutmegoreo Posts: 15,532 Member
    I delete for inactivity, that's about it. I haven't had too many problems with personality conflicts, but I don't add people often. I like a smaller, interactive list.
  • trogalicious
    trogalicious Posts: 4,584 Member
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  • queenliz99
    queenliz99 Posts: 15,317 Member
    trogalicious wrote: »
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    Adding you :D
  • Psychgrrl
    Psychgrrl Posts: 3,177 Member
    TavistockToad wrote: »
    I once got deleted because I could 'eat so much and still lose weight' :laugh:

    I thought that was the whole point!
  • enterdanger
    enterdanger Posts: 2,447 Member
    stephanieluvspb wrote: »
    Did they tell you why they were deleting you or are you assuming?

    Yes. I my case they took the time out of their day to message me and tell me that I drink too much beer and that was not helpful for them. It was pretty funny since I didn't know my beer consumption was enough to make other people gain weight too. lol
  • TavistockToad
    TavistockToad Posts: 35,719 Member
    Psychgrrl wrote: »
    TavistockToad wrote: »
    I once got deleted because I could 'eat so much and still lose weight' :laugh:

    I thought that was the whole point!

    Apparently not!
  • thatdesertgirl777
    thatdesertgirl777 Posts: 269 Member
    I've been known to delete people who chronically under eat. Nothing against them as a person, it just ticks me off when they don't listen, so I'd rather not see it. Or if you add 50 people a day to your account and end up with 1000 friends. To me you're looking for an audience, not friendships. I don't have time for people like that on my list.
  • CorneliusPhoton
    CorneliusPhoton Posts: 965 Member
    I usually respond favorably to friend requests. But if somebody requests *me*, I assume that it is because maybe they agreed with something I said somewhere and are willing to interact with me. If they already have hundreds of friends, I will hesitate to accept the request because there is no way that what I post will ever make it to the surface of their world. And being clinically depressed, I read way too much into the *lack* of reciprocal likes and interactions. Also, if I see nothing but "detox_mama_73 burned 3300 calories doing 13 minutes of elliptical" on a daily basis, I'll probably delete them because that's *kitten* impossible and annoying.
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