Are abs a turn on?

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  • jtegirl
    jtegirl Posts: 1,137 Member
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    jenmar22 wrote: »
    8weeks-before-after-2.jpg

    images?q=tbn:ANd9GcSmeIL7T4fegtyta6llxWogIy61dErn-iia3-hXHxPVm2wSSX7AzQ

    For both of these.... I, hands down, prefer the before pic

    I could deal with either the before or after. lol

  • Alienique
    Alienique Posts: 122 Member
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    In a word, yes. In several words, they're eye-catching, but not necessarily attention-holding.
  • Sharsou
    Sharsou Posts: 8,845 Member
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    Bringing back everyone to the topic of abs, I agree with every individual that abs, arms, chest, strong legs should not be a criteria to be with someone. If he's a knuckle head then no matter how fit he may be no normal girl would like him. To re-iterate I just wanted everyone's view about "does abs attract women/fems"? I don't workout to be a chic magnet and a set of good abs is not to impress anyone as far as I'm concerned but to make me feel good about my body!!
  • DeficitDuchess
    DeficitDuchess Posts: 3,099 Member
    edited September 2016
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    I don't workout to be a chic magnet and a set of good abs is not to impress anyone as far as I'm concerned but to make me feel good about my body!!

    Well that, impresses me!

    If he's a knuckle head then no matter how fit he may be no normal girl would like him.

    Unfortunately though, most narcissists're in denial; that they're!
  • Sharsou
    Sharsou Posts: 8,845 Member
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    I don't workout to be a chic magnet and a set of good abs is not to impress anyone as far as I'm concerned but to make me feel good about my body!!

    Well that, impresses me!
    If he's a knuckle head then no matter how fit he may be no normal girl would like him.

    Unfortunately though, most narcissists're in denial; that they're!

    Thx for that, glad someone is not on a judging spree on this thread :)

  • DeficitDuchess
    DeficitDuchess Posts: 3,099 Member
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    I don't workout to be a chic magnet and a set of good abs is not to impress anyone as far as I'm concerned but to make me feel good about my body!!

    Well that, impresses me!
    If he's a knuckle head then no matter how fit he may be no normal girl would like him.

    Unfortunately though, most narcissists're in denial; that they're!

    Thx for that, glad someone is not on a judging spree on this thread :)

    Your welcome!
  • jenmar222
    jenmar222 Posts: 9,271 Member
    edited September 2016
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    Bringing back everyone to the topic of abs, I agree with every individual that abs, arms, chest, strong legs should not be a criteria to be with someone. If he's a knuckle head then no matter how fit he may be no normal girl would like him. To re-iterate I just wanted everyone's view about "does abs attract women/fems"? I don't workout to be a chic magnet and a set of good abs is not to impress anyone as far as I'm concerned but to make me feel good about my body!!
    I don't workout to be a chic magnet and a set of good abs is not to impress anyone as far as I'm concerned but to make me feel good about my body!!

    Well that, impresses me!
    If he's a knuckle head then no matter how fit he may be no normal girl would like him.

    Unfortunately though, most narcissists're in denial; that they're!

    Thx for that, glad someone is not on a judging spree on this thread :)

    Wait? You think this thread is judgy? (people aren't talking about you. they're speaking in generalities it answer your question).... This is one of the nicer threads I've ever read :joy:

    Umm... Everyone is answering your question O_o
  • Sharsou
    Sharsou Posts: 8,845 Member
    edited September 2016
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    jenmar22 wrote: »
    Bringing back everyone to the topic of abs, I agree with every individual that abs, arms, chest, strong legs should not be a criteria to be with someone. If he's a knuckle head then no matter how fit he may be no normal girl would like him. To re-iterate I just wanted everyone's view about "does abs attract women/fems"? I don't workout to be a chic magnet and a set of good abs is not to impress anyone as far as I'm concerned but to make me feel good about my body!!
    I don't workout to be a chic magnet and a set of good abs is not to impress anyone as far as I'm concerned but to make me feel good about my body!!

    Well that, impresses me!
    If he's a knuckle head then no matter how fit he may be no normal girl would like him.

    Unfortunately though, most narcissists're in denial; that they're!

    Thx for that, glad someone is not on a judging spree on this thread :)

    Wait? You think this thread is judgy? .... This is one of the nicer threads I've ever read :joy:

    Umm... Everyone is answering your question O_o

    lol.. Everyone has answered and also claimed that the person with abs being narcissist and awful lot.. >:)
  • DeficitDuchess
    DeficitDuchess Posts: 3,099 Member
    edited September 2016
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    jenmar22 wrote: »
    Bringing back everyone to the topic of abs, I agree with every individual that abs, arms, chest, strong legs should not be a criteria to be with someone. If he's a knuckle head then no matter how fit he may be no normal girl would like him. To re-iterate I just wanted everyone's view about "does abs attract women/fems"? I don't workout to be a chic magnet and a set of good abs is not to impress anyone as far as I'm concerned but to make me feel good about my body!!
    I don't workout to be a chic magnet and a set of good abs is not to impress anyone as far as I'm concerned but to make me feel good about my body!!

    Well that, impresses me!
    If he's a knuckle head then no matter how fit he may be no normal girl would like him.

    Unfortunately though, most narcissists're in denial; that they're!

    Thx for that, glad someone is not on a judging spree on this thread :)

    Wait? You think this thread is judgy? .... This is one of the nicer threads I've ever read :joy:

    Umm... Everyone is answering your question O_o

    lol.. Everyone has answered and also claimed that the person with abs being narcissist and awful lot.. >:)

    I don't believe that anyone implied, that you're a narcissist; I just said that "many guys (with abs), tend to be". I don't know you, to know; if that applies or not, to you; in particular though.
  • Sharsou
    Sharsou Posts: 8,845 Member
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    jenmar22 wrote: »
    Bringing back everyone to the topic of abs, I agree with every individual that abs, arms, chest, strong legs should not be a criteria to be with someone. If he's a knuckle head then no matter how fit he may be no normal girl would like him. To re-iterate I just wanted everyone's view about "does abs attract women/fems"? I don't workout to be a chic magnet and a set of good abs is not to impress anyone as far as I'm concerned but to make me feel good about my body!!
    I don't workout to be a chic magnet and a set of good abs is not to impress anyone as far as I'm concerned but to make me feel good about my body!!

    Well that, impresses me!
    If he's a knuckle head then no matter how fit he may be no normal girl would like him.

    Unfortunately though, most narcissists're in denial; that they're!

    Thx for that, glad someone is not on a judging spree on this thread :)

    Wait? You think this thread is judgy? .... This is one of the nicer threads I've ever read :joy:

    Umm... Everyone is answering your question O_o

    lol.. Everyone has answered and also claimed that the person with abs being narcissist and awful lot.. >:)

    I don't believe that anyone implied, that you're a narcissist; I just said that many guys (with abs) tend to be. I don't know you, to know; if that applies or not, to you; in particular.

    My bad! But it has been an insightful experience to know how ppl think and react.. At the end of the day all that matters is a level headed person, nice body is always a plus!
  • DeficitDuchess
    DeficitDuchess Posts: 3,099 Member
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    Sharsou wrote: »
    jenmar22 wrote: »
    Bringing back everyone to the topic of abs, I agree with every individual that abs, arms, chest, strong legs should not be a criteria to be with someone. If he's a knuckle head then no matter how fit he may be no normal girl would like him. To re-iterate I just wanted everyone's view about "does abs attract women/fems"? I don't workout to be a chic magnet and a set of good abs is not to impress anyone as far as I'm concerned but to make me feel good about my body!!
    I don't workout to be a chic magnet and a set of good abs is not to impress anyone as far as I'm concerned but to make me feel good about my body!!

    Well that, impresses me!
    If he's a knuckle head then no matter how fit he may be no normal girl would like him.

    Unfortunately though, most narcissists're in denial; that they're!

    Thx for that, glad someone is not on a judging spree on this thread :)

    Wait? You think this thread is judgy? .... This is one of the nicer threads I've ever read :joy:

    Umm... Everyone is answering your question O_o

    lol.. Everyone has answered and also claimed that the person with abs being narcissist and awful lot.. >:)

    I don't believe that anyone implied, that you're a narcissist; I just said that many guys (with abs) tend to be. I don't know you, to know; if that applies or not, to you; in particular.

    My bad! But it has been an insightful experience to know how ppl think and react.. At the end of the day all that matters is a level headed person, nice body is always a plus!

    Exactly, it's a bonus!
  • _Sugar_interrupted
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    Even the nice things can't be nice things... :disappointed:
  • Sharsou
    Sharsou Posts: 8,845 Member
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    Even the nice things can't be nice things... :disappointed:

    In what context??
  • BinaryPulsar
    BinaryPulsar Posts: 8,927 Member
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    I wasn't judging. I honestly answered the question. I even made sure to clarify that personality wasn't correlated to body type. I have had visible abs all my life. I don't judge people for having visible abs. And people were just joking with me for a second that my answer sounded like a romantic comedy.
  • Fit4LifeGal79
    Fit4LifeGal79 Posts: 5,577 Member
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    I can appreciate nice abs but they're not a turn on unless I'm already attracted to the guy.
  • _Sugar_interrupted
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    Sharsou wrote: »
    Even the nice things can't be nice things... :disappointed:

    In what context??


    See below.

    Sharsou wrote: »
    jenmar22 wrote: »
    Bringing back everyone to the topic of abs, I agree with every individual that abs, arms, chest, strong legs should not be a criteria to be with someone. If he's a knuckle head then no matter how fit he may be no normal girl would like him. To re-iterate I just wanted everyone's view about "does abs attract women/fems"? I don't workout to be a chic magnet and a set of good abs is not to impress anyone as far as I'm concerned but to make me feel good about my body!!
    I don't workout to be a chic magnet and a set of good abs is not to impress anyone as far as I'm concerned but to make me feel good about my body!!

    Well that, impresses me!
    If he's a knuckle head then no matter how fit he may be no normal girl would like him.

    Unfortunately though, most narcissists're in denial; that they're!

    Thx for that, glad someone is not on a judging spree on this thread :)

    Wait? You think this thread is judgy? .... This is one of the nicer threads I've ever read :joy:

    Umm... Everyone is answering your question O_o

    lol.. Everyone has answered and also claimed that the person with abs being narcissist and awful lot.. >:)
    Sharsou wrote: »
    I don't workout to be a chic magnet and a set of good abs is not to impress anyone as far as I'm concerned but to make me feel good about my body!!

    Well that, impresses me!
    If he's a knuckle head then no matter how fit he may be no normal girl would like him.

    Unfortunately though, most narcissists're in denial; that they're!

    Thx for that, glad someone is not on a judging spree on this thread :)
    Sharsou wrote: »
    Bringing back everyone to the topic of abs, I agree with every individual that abs, arms, chest, strong legs should not be a criteria to be with someone. If he's a knuckle head then no matter how fit he may be no normal girl would like him. To re-iterate I just wanted everyone's view about "does abs attract women/fems"? I don't workout to be a chic magnet and a set of good abs is not to impress anyone as far as I'm concerned but to make me feel good about my body!!

  • salembambi
    salembambi Posts: 5,585 Member
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    Face > everything IMO

    yup basically , as long as they are at a decent weight chubby is cool
  • Domino_75
    Domino_75 Posts: 373 Member
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    Abs are attractive and are nice to look at, but don't mean anything if the guy with them is a jerk. Unfortunately, more often than not, guys with abs are jerks. Stereotypes suck, but they are stereotypes for a reason.
  • dragon_girl26
    dragon_girl26 Posts: 2,187 Member
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    Abs are nice, but there are many other features that make someone hot to me. Abs don't really rank on the list.
  • _dixiana_
    _dixiana_ Posts: 3,262 Member
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    Villae81 wrote: »
    You guys are crushing all the people who are maintaining their six pack :) errbody knows most guys wanting/has abs is hoping to pick up chicks with it

    And if they're a great person already then it's just a bonus.