Anyone else not talking IRL about weight loss? Looking for friends/support in secret!

I need help staying committed to lose weight.

The only person in my life who knows I'm trying to lose weight and I openly talk about it to is my fiance. I rely on this community for support and motivation when I need it. Whenever I even mention losing weight to friends or family there super judgemental and unsupportive. This place is a great place for positive and uplifting support from people who understand what your going through, through all phases of getting in shape. I totally get where your coming from though. I've had a few friends try to sell me on body wraps and thrive a few times when I've mentioned anything. There's no use trying to explain those things don't work and are scams. And I also get people who judge me based on what I'm eating, like Greek yogurt and Berries or big salads or veggies and are not very nice when I say, "Oh I'm just trying to get into a little better shape and be a little healthier." It's annoying to say the least.

I doubt anyone IRL is even remotely interested in hearing about my diet and exercise lol so unless they bring it up I say nothing.

I shared my plans with just a few people when I started my diet in June. I picked the people who would be most helpful, or who needed to know. I'm following a plan under medical supervision that is very low carb and fat, high in protein, and very low calorie. A lot of people don't understand it, so they want to lecture me about how bad it is - which it is not. I trust my medical team.
Anyway, I understand not getting into it IRL. We can be friends here if you want! I don't judge at all

Only my partner knows and our 5yo son who loves to exercise with me (he does his own version of course). I don't discuss my fitness and weight goals with anyone. I only recently joined and hope to meet others to support me.

I keep my diet to myself also. At first I kept it quiet because I had failed so many times that it was embarrassing thinking that others could see how I couldn't stick with it. I then started to be successful and obviously people did start noticing my weight loss but with that became some negativity and jealousy and the need to question the way I went about things. i.e Everyone is different and responds to their own way of doing things. So the way my body responds is to eat 1600 cals a day, log everything, stick to a low carb, moderate fat and high protein diet and work out 3 - 4 days a week and have one cheat night a week. Suddenly all my friends and co-workers all became nutritionists etc over night and kept questioning me about it. I couldn't understand why it was a big deal when it was working! I was still eating things I wanted to eat and I enjoy working out so what does it matter? If I want to eat organic produce I will! I don't care if they think that's a waste of time...to me it's not! I would never EVER tell anyone else what to eat/do so I don't get why others would want to tell me. Therefore I keep it all to myself other than my partner who is so supportive. I've come to realise that my journey is personal to me so I want to keep it to just me

Anybody here want to add an an encouraging pal to walk the walk? Please message me. I've been on here for about a year and only have one or two friends I can count on for daily encouragement. If they bail on me idk what I'd do. Not looking for 100 fake friends or people who criticize the fact that I don't post what I eat or when I exercise. I'm too private for that. We all walk this fitness journey differently and for varying reasons. It's not my role to criticize anyone for their motivation, but to encourage everyone (who wants it) to stick with their plan. If you're up for that kind of support I'd love to hear from you.
A little bit about me: I'm 53, our kids (twins) are both in college now (I'm really feeling lost w/o them. We were besties)! Just transitioned back to the U.S. from my husband's job in Europe. Major move in so many respects. Have a great re-start week everyone!!

I don't broadcast the fact that I'm trying to loose weight, I live quite close to my in laws and they are very critical, to the point of being mean and bitchy, past experience has taught me to just keep it too myself. I have one accountability buddy, my best friend for the last 15 years, we no longer live in the same country, so we message each other each Monday with our weekly weigh in's.

I haven't told anyone IRL that I was trying to lose weight and get more active, well except my hubby. I am a very private person at the best of times and am not into the numerous "lose weight fast" scams out there. If asked directly I wouldn't lie but not broadcasting my goals. I have lost 25lbs so far since June 1st and have had one coworker ask me if I have lost weight (I'm sure because my scrubs are getting a bit baggy these days!! LOL) just a couple days ago and I told her I had and was trying to lose more. She didn't pry, just expressed her encouragement for me. I haven't posted much on mfp before but I read the posts for inspiration.
Anyone can feel free to add me as a friend. My diary is open to friends and I think we can inspire each other to continue on our journey to health!

I'm maintaining now, but when I first started losing weight I said nothing about my weight loss and went through the process practically alone. I was apart of another forum, but I wasn't very vocal. I'm quiet, very private and an introvert anyway so it wasn't shocking.

My husband of course knew and some people I am close to (my mom and brother), but that's it. Plus I didn't want all eyes on me and people watching me so I liked keeping quiet.

It worked really well for me until people started noticing "something different" about me. Then I could no longer hide. And then came the questions...ahhhhh!

If someone asked me a question I would answer, but I would never bring weight loss topics up. I only talked about health, fitness and nutrition with my online fitness friends and I still do the same today.

I quickly learned that most people aren't interested in hearing me talk about being mindful of my calories and how much I'm eating and that I workout everyday. They want to know what I used to lose the weight (a diet, a pill etc.), so I avoid giving details unless they specifically ask.

I haven't told anyone because I've witnessed too many people make grand announcements only to give up their efforts and feel even more embarrassed.

I'll let me efforts speak for themselves... hopefully.