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  • elianecnas
    elianecnas Posts: 41 Member
    Villae81 wrote: »
    Shouldn't you be happy now that you're divorced?

    I am much better off... but I can't talk to myself, sometimes your happy but feel alone too, you know..
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  • elianecnas
    elianecnas Posts: 41 Member
    MsAmandaNJ wrote: »
    I get it. You are not alone.

    Hahaha..thanks...
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  • MsAmandaNJ
    MsAmandaNJ Posts: 1,248 Member
    elianecnas wrote: »
    Villae81 wrote: »
    Shouldn't you be happy now that you're divorced?

    I am much better off... but I can't talk to myself, sometimes your happy but feel alone too, you know..
    Definitely. It's hard at first, things don't feel quite right - too much silence.
  • elianecnas
    elianecnas Posts: 41 Member
    PlaydohPants wrote: »
    elianecnas wrote: »
    Villae81 wrote: »
    Shouldn't you be happy now that you're divorced?

    I am much better off... but I can't talk to myself, sometimes your happy but feel alone too, you know..

    I understand that. Then you start talking to your dog and even he gets up to leave the room...*kitten*

    That's exactly right lol my dog does that...and I am like "hey yo come right back here" and he is like "nuh I need a nap" lol
  • MsAmandaNJ
    MsAmandaNJ Posts: 1,248 Member
    Villae81 wrote: »
    PlaydohPants wrote: »
    Villae81 wrote: »
    elianecnas wrote: »
    Villae81 wrote: »
    Shouldn't you be happy now that you're divorced?

    I am much better off... but I can't talk to myself, sometimes your happy but feel alone too, you know..

    I like being alone -.- So I wouldn't know

    Gosh you're so helpful

    Hey now I'm at least contributing by chatting -.-
    Are you, though? Hahahaha!
  • elianecnas
    elianecnas Posts: 41 Member
    MsAmandaNJ wrote: »
    elianecnas wrote: »
    Villae81 wrote: »
    Shouldn't you be happy now that you're divorced?

    I am much better off... but I can't talk to myself, sometimes your happy but feel alone too, you know..
    Definitely. It's hard at first, things don't feel quite right - too much silence.

    You nailed it... :)
  • elianecnas
    elianecnas Posts: 41 Member
    Villae81 wrote: »
    elianecnas wrote: »
    Villae81 wrote: »
    Shouldn't you be happy now that you're divorced?

    I am much better off... but I can't talk to myself, sometimes your happy but feel alone too, you know..

    I like being alone -.- So I wouldn't know

    :neutral:
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  • elianecnas
    elianecnas Posts: 41 Member
    Villae81 wrote: »
    I have staring contest with my dog he wins most of the time though

    :smiley:
  • MsAmandaNJ
    MsAmandaNJ Posts: 1,248 Member
    I know it's hard, there are ups and downs. But this opens a new chapter in your life, you may discover aspects about yourself you never knew were in there. When I got divorced, it gave me the opportunity to live by myself, WITH myself.
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  • elianecnas
    elianecnas Posts: 41 Member
    PlaydohPants wrote: »
    Villae81 wrote: »
    I have staring contest with my dog he wins most of the time though

    You know that makes him the alpha right?

    :blush::smiley:
  • elianecnas
    elianecnas Posts: 41 Member
    edited September 2016
    MsAmandaNJ wrote: »
    I know it's hard, there are ups and downs. But this opens a new chapter in your life, you may discover aspects about yourself you never knew were in there. When I got divorced, it gave me the opportunity to live by myself, WITH myself.

    Yeah, I have to think of that too... thanks for the tip, it is a great way to see it...I know things will get worse before gets better...but I am okay..I just have to keep my head busy... and brain focus... have lots of things to do so...I will keep moving on..
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    elianecnas wrote: »
    PlaydohPants wrote: »
    Why do you feel alone? Do you live alone?

    I just got divorced...

    I'm sorry to hear that; I wish you well.
  • elianecnas
    elianecnas Posts: 41 Member
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    elianecnas wrote: »
    PlaydohPants wrote: »
    Why do you feel alone? Do you live alone?

    I just got divorced...

    I'm sorry to hear that; I wish you well.

    Thank you!
  • MsAmandaNJ
    MsAmandaNJ Posts: 1,248 Member
    elianecnas wrote: »
    MsAmandaNJ wrote: »
    I know it's hard, there are ups and downs. But this opens a new chapter in your life, you may discover aspects about yourself you never knew were in there. When I got divorced, it gave me the opportunity to live by myself, WITH myself.

    Yeah, I have to think of that too... thanks for the tip, it is a great way to see it...I know things will get worse before gets better...but I am okay..I just have to keep my head busy... and brain focus... have lots of things to do so...I will keep moving on..

    You're welcome :-) you'll have great days and not so great days, but that's life - married or not. Keeping busy is good, but don't forget to give yourself time to process what's going on. I gotta get to bed, so have a nice night!
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    Many of us have been there. Just remember: This too shall pass

    It will take some time, but you'll be okay.
  • elianecnas
    elianecnas Posts: 41 Member
    PlaydohPants wrote: »
    elianecnas wrote: »
    PlaydohPants wrote: »
    Why do you feel alone? Do you live alone?

    I just got divorced...

    Sorry to hear that. When did it happen?

    5 months ago I got separated, divorce happened this month...that was my idea though...not complained about the divorce...just explaining why I am alone...lol
  • elianecnas
    elianecnas Posts: 41 Member
    edited September 2016
    MsAmandaNJ wrote: »
    elianecnas wrote: »
    MsAmandaNJ wrote: »
    I know it's hard, there are ups and downs. But this opens a new chapter in your life, you may discover aspects about yourself you never knew were in there. When I got divorced, it gave me the opportunity to live by myself, WITH myself.

    Yeah, I have to think of that too... thanks for the tip, it is a great way to see it...I know things will get worse before gets better...but I am okay..I just have to keep my head busy... and brain focus... have lots of things to do so...I will keep moving on..

    You're welcome :-) you'll have great days and not so great days, but that's life - married or not. Keeping busy is good, but don't forget to give yourself time to process what's going on. I gotta get to bed, so have a nice night!

    Hey thanks a lot, I really mean it...thank you...have a blessed night....take care :wink:
  • elianecnas
    elianecnas Posts: 41 Member
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Many of us have been there. Just remember: This too shall pass

    It will take some time, but you'll be okay.

    That's right...and thank you very much!!!
  • elianecnas
    elianecnas Posts: 41 Member
    Well thank you to all of you who replied and chatted with me...it was awesome you guys made my night...take care and be blessed...have a wonderful night...I hope to talk to you guys in another ocasion...
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  • cee134
    cee134 Posts: 33,711 Member
    MsAmandaNJ wrote: »
    My cat is in my lap, purring like a mo. Every once in a while, he pops his head up and stares just past my head. Kinda freaking me out.

    My cats do this alot. I just assume it's the dead murderer's ghost that lives in my wall.
  • cee134
    cee134 Posts: 33,711 Member
    edited September 2016
    Villae81 wrote: »
    I have staring contest with my dog he wins most of the time though

    That's a sign of dominance in dogs and he is asserting his dominance over you which is why he doesn't look away. You have to win.

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