Being Fat and ugly

kaoutarm55555 · October 2016

"You're Fat " "You're ugly " I hear this painful words at least one time everyday

Kullerva · October 2016

"Ugly" is totally subjective. I've always liked the phrase, "I'm not perfect, but parts of me are awesome." I like my eyes, for example, and my legs, even if my belly pouch makes me upset from time to time. In general, I like myself despite my faults, and I think you can too. Don't listen to the negative voices. They don't know you well enough to judge. Only your opinion of yourself matters because you're the only one in your skin. You're trying to do better for yourself. You can do it!

lessismoreohio · October 2016

I'm sorry you're hearing these words. I heard them when I was in school, so I know they can be painful. I don't know you, but I know you are a unique, precious and special human being (you were created that way) as we all are. Do not let other people define you. When they say these things to you, it is a reflection of their own fears and insecurities and not a reflection on you. Avoid these people if possible. If you cannot avoid them, set boundaries with them, silently forgive them and then try and ignore them.

dc8066 · October 2016

A kind and intelligent person would never say that to another person. Now, do you really want to pay attention what a mean idiot would say? Good luck to you on your journey ))