Question for girls only please!

flgirlsteph
flgirlsteph Posts: 125 Member
edited September 29 in Chit-Chat
Ok So long story short I was married 3 years and never wore condoms with my ex husband. Since Ive ended my marriage Ive slept with 2 guys one being my ex which i didnt use a condom with and had no issues. The next was just a stupid moment and i did use a condom but every since I used the condom I think i might be allergic to condoms...What are the symptoms of an allergy to them..Yes i know this is a fitness forum but ive seen worse posted on here lol. Any help would be great... no nasty comments either please!
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  • Shweedog
    Shweedog Posts: 883 Member
    I'm allergic. I get itchy and sore (raw-like) at the same time.
  • Was it a latex condom? Because you may just be starting a latex sensitivity/allergy (latex allergies are exposure based and can happen at any time)

    I have a severe latex allergy and can only use non-latex everything (condoms being one of them). There are a LOT of non-latex choices out there, made from polyurethane. Bit more expensive, but they're coming down in price.

    Hope that helps!
  • AHealthierRhonda
    AHealthierRhonda Posts: 881 Member
    It could be a latex allergy. Do you get a reaction with latex exam gloves or balloons? If it is something internal it could be something else (rougher sex, too much sex in one night...) I've had it happen (in my early 20's) with a bf that was a sex fanatic and wanted it constantly and several times a night. I got so swollen I could barely pee!! Hope you are feeling better soon!!!!!!
  • flinchyny
    flinchyny Posts: 106 Member
    Well, a latex allergy is a latex allergy ... so if you're allergic to latex condoms you'd also be allergic to other latex products like band-aids. I would check to see if these condoms were lubricated or have spermicide on them -- it's likely that something like that could be causing your problem (and to answer your question, an allergy would present as rednesss, itching, etc., though other conditions can cause these symptoms as well, so if the symptoms didn't resolve themselves, it'd be a good idea to get checked out by a doc).
  • linscave
    linscave Posts: 59 Member
    Latex allergy is quite common. Any itching or redness, or irritation, swelling may be symptoms of a latex allergy. You can buy latex free condoms. Even so I would have an STI screen done 1st to rule out any infection and if that is clear it may well be a latex allergy!
    Good Luck
  • abalicious
    abalicious Posts: 361 Member
    I'm allergic. I get itchy and sore (raw-like) at the same time.

    This happens to me as well. I don't think it's the latex though, I think it's lubricated condoms that I'm allergic to. It feels terrible but nothing I can't live with!
  • SaLandrum
    SaLandrum Posts: 141 Member
    Just adding my two cents ...
    It may be the lubricant that you are having problems with. I would check that out.

    I am allergic to Non-Oxyl 9 (a spermicide that is used in quite a few products on the market) and it causes redness, itching, swelling simular to a very bad yeast infection,
  • flgirlsteph
    flgirlsteph Posts: 125 Member
    Well there were 2 different kinds one was latex and the other was latex with spermicide i think. I've used condoms before rarely but i have i hate them i always seem to get a little reaction. But I did have alot of sex in one weekend so i guess it would be that as well. who knows all i know is it hurts lol!
  • Avalonis
    Avalonis Posts: 1,540 Member
    I did have alot of sex in one weekend so i guess it would be that as well. who knows all i know is it hurts lol!

    You bad girl.

    Oops wait, this was a girls only topic. Pretend I didn't say anything.
  • ImperfektAngel
    ImperfektAngel Posts: 811 Member
    I'm not sure what exactly of regular condoms I was allergic to but I tried Bare from Durex and I was fine with those
  • NA_Willie
    NA_Willie Posts: 340 Member
    I know this is a girls only topic but Id rather beat it than use condoms.

    ETA: Nothing is better than a girl telling you how much she hurts after sex. [I tear it up]
  • Avalonis
    Avalonis Posts: 1,540 Member
    I know this is a girls only topic but Id rather beat it than use condoms.

    ETA: Nothing is better than a girl telling you how much she hurts after sex. [I tear it up]

    You are so gonna burn for that comment.
  • NA_Willie
    NA_Willie Posts: 340 Member
    You are so gonna burn for that comment.
    At least we will know that both above comments are true.
  • sweebum
    sweebum Posts: 1,060 Member
    I'm allergic to latex and spermicide (which is more common than a latex allergy)

    Symptoms would be itching, pain, "drying up" and yeast infections. I use Lifestyles "Skyn" with no problems :smile:
  • flgirlsteph
    flgirlsteph Posts: 125 Member
    I know this is a girls only topic but Id rather beat it than use condoms.

    ETA: Nothing is better than a girl telling you how much she hurts after sex. [I tear it up]

    LMAO well its not the rough self because im a huge fan of that.
  • flgirlsteph
    flgirlsteph Posts: 125 Member
    I did have alot of sex in one weekend so i guess it would be that as well. who knows all i know is it hurts lol!

    You bad girl.

    Oops wait, this was a girls only topic. Pretend I didn't say anything.

    yup Avalonis i sure was!
  • wonnder1
    wonnder1 Posts: 460
    I know this is a girls only topic but Id rather beat it than use condoms.


    And you can go right ahead.
  • flgirlsteph
    flgirlsteph Posts: 125 Member
    I know this is a girls only topic but Id rather beat it than use condoms.


    And you can go right ahead.

    rofl i cant say much i freaking hate condoms myself but hey what can u do when ur newly single after 3 yrs of not having to wear them.
  • NA_Willie
    NA_Willie Posts: 340 Member
    Im just saying Ive had sex with condoms like maybe five times (I wasnt nailing prostitutes for Gods sake) and it was terrible every time. The only redeeming thing was I was able to bust inside. Other than that Id rather beat it while playing with her titties.
  • keb80
    keb80 Posts: 394
    Im just saying Ive had sex with condoms like maybe five times (I wasnt nailing prostitutes for Gods sake) and it was terrible every time. The only redeeming thing was I was able to bust inside. Other than that Id rather beat it while playing with her titties.

    :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: OMG... so funny!! I feel violated just reading this!!! Thanks for making me LOL!!
  • juliecat1
    juliecat1 Posts: 3,450 Member
    Just adding my two cents ...
    It may be the lubricant that you are having problems with. I would check that out.

    I am allergic to Non-Oxyl 9 (a spermicide that is used in quite a few products on the market) and it causes redness, itching, swelling simular to a very bad yeast infection,


    Same here. I cant use anything with spermicide on it. Its awful! If it was a latex allergy, youd probably have similar reaction from bandages and gloves at the doctor.
  • Sissy4EverX3
    Sissy4EverX3 Posts: 247
    ... doesn't remember the days of condoms... 10 years of marriage has done this to me...
  • flgirlsteph
    flgirlsteph Posts: 125 Member
    Im just saying Ive had sex with condoms like maybe five times (I wasnt nailing prostitutes for Gods sake) and it was terrible every time. The only redeeming thing was I was able to bust inside. Other than that Id rather beat it while playing with her titties.

    :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: OMG... so funny!! I feel violated just reading this!!! Thanks for making me LOL!!

    it was so bad. If i knew every guy i sleep with is clean id rather never touch a condom again.. hate the feel of them and now this so yeah i kinda agree with him.
  • flgirlsteph
    flgirlsteph Posts: 125 Member
    Just adding my two cents ...
    It may be the lubricant that you are having problems with. I would check that out.

    I am allergic to Non-Oxyl 9 (a spermicide that is used in quite a few products on the market) and it causes redness, itching, swelling simular to a very bad yeast infection,


    Same here. I cant use anything with spermicide on it. Its awful! If it was a latex allergy, youd probably have similar reaction from bandages and gloves at the doctor.

    im starting to think its spermicide too.. cause nothing else latex bothers me
  • juliecat1
    juliecat1 Posts: 3,450 Member
    Probably. its more common than latex. You might try that Rephresh stuff. It rights the ph level and sort of soothes. And go easy on your bits for a while. :laugh:
  • flgirlsteph
    flgirlsteph Posts: 125 Member
    Probably. its more common than latex. You might try that Rephresh stuff. It rights the ph level and sort of soothes. And go easy on your bits for a while. :laugh:

    Haha i plan on it lol might have to become a nun since condoms suck!!! haha who am i kidding lol
  • ImperfektAngel
    ImperfektAngel Posts: 811 Member
    Im just saying Ive had sex with condoms like maybe five times (I wasnt nailing prostitutes for Gods sake) and it was terrible every time. The only redeeming thing was I was able to bust inside. Other than that Id rather beat it while playing with her titties.


    As a woman, I would rather the man not wear one but I dont want to get pregnant or get any diseases, so condoms it is!
  • emilymiesel
    emilymiesel Posts: 207 Member
    When I would use regular latex lubricated condoms I would get little bumps that itched and would go away within an hour or so. I have to use polyisoprene condoms if we use one. Normally dont tho! Feels like a garbage bag!! Bare is best (when monogomous!)
  • emilymiesel
    emilymiesel Posts: 207 Member
    Wanted to add no other latex bothers me either. Just condoms...
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