sad lonely need bf

rita27ny
rita27ny Posts: 820 Member
edited September 29 in Chit-Chat
Hi old and lonely and need bf.
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  • TonyaJ83
    TonyaJ83 Posts: 155
    LOL!! How about start going to some social functions & chat with some guys & see where it leads....
  • rita27ny
    rita27ny Posts: 820 Member
    Oh ya forgot to add fat cow too.
  • rita27ny
    rita27ny Posts: 820 Member
    Im 5'1
  • SarahofTwins
    SarahofTwins Posts: 1,169 Member
    There is always match.com...this wouldn't be a great place to look for one :indifferent:

    Keep your head up, we all have our good and bad days :flowerforyou:
  • rita27ny
    rita27ny Posts: 820 Member
    Thnks for Ur support.
  • Moneymama_123
    Moneymama_123 Posts: 17
    HI, I am so sorry you feel this way. I can see your picture and you are not a fat cow. Do you have kids? Because if so you could join a mom's group in your area and you can meet other people there If you do not have kids then maybe you could do a class at your local Parks and Rec and meet people that way. I met my BFF in my mom's group and i have met some of my other friends thru classes at Parks and Rec plus you can get in some good workouts.
  • rita27ny
    rita27ny Posts: 820 Member
    No kids yet. I'm 29 almost 30 Ahhh
  • BethanyMasters
    BethanyMasters Posts: 519 Member
    : /

    To be brutally honest the negativity is not attractive.

    It's hard for people to feel a certain way about you if you don't feel it about yourself.

    Have confidence in yourself.
    Love yourself.
    Appreciate yourself.
    Be happy with yourself.

    Once you do that then other people will love, appreciate, and be happy with you.
  • Moneymama_123
    Moneymama_123 Posts: 17
    Way harsh!!!
  • rita27ny
    rita27ny Posts: 820 Member
    Just hit a pitfall wonder if others feel the same
  • Moneymama_123
    Moneymama_123 Posts: 17
    Sometimes I do!!! There are days where I feel that I can do this and then are days where I think " No way.... I have so much father to go... Why bother"... I think everyone does. You spend so much time thinking one way that it takes time, and many pitfalls to change that way of thinking. Set small goals at first, like... " Let me make to my 5 % goal" then when you hit that try for your 10% goal. Just remember it did not take you one day to gain the weight... it wont take one day to lose it. You can do this!!!!
  • rita27ny
    rita27ny Posts: 820 Member
    Very diffcult. I lost 4lbs gained 3 bck. So tomorrow getting bck on track
  • katschi
    katschi Posts: 689 Member
    You're not alone.
    Hang in there.
  • TheTeeWhy
    TheTeeWhy Posts: 186
    Id go on a date with you!
  • PatientBear
    PatientBear Posts: 92
    Hi old and lonely and need bf.

    Do you like bears?
  • bunchesonothing
    bunchesonothing Posts: 1,015 Member
    If you're old, that must mean I'm old....

    :(
  • Ocarina
    Ocarina Posts: 1,550 Member
    I sense a troll!!
  • rita27ny
    rita27ny Posts: 820 Member
    Troll?
  • rita27ny
    rita27ny Posts: 820 Member
    Yaaa bears r so cute
  • TheTeeWhy
    TheTeeWhy Posts: 186
    Lets play count the trolls :D

    I count two!
  • PatientBear
    PatientBear Posts: 92
    Yaaa bears r so cute

    I have a mate, but some of my bear buddies don't. Do you like the forest, eating salmon and wrestling?
  • PatientBear
    PatientBear Posts: 92
    Yaaa bears r so cute

    Oops. Posted twice. Stupid claws get in my way when I type.
  • rita27ny
    rita27ny Posts: 820 Member
    LOL wrestling no. I like salmon and forest
  • PatientBear
    PatientBear Posts: 92
    LOL wrestling no. I like salmon and forest

    Hmmm...they like to wrestle. Maybe they'll be content with running through the meadow with you on their back. I'll ask.
  • jmatthews75
    jmatthews75 Posts: 525 Member
    so whats a troll?
  • thelassiemickyjames
    thelassiemickyjames Posts: 197
    Nothing is more attractive than a woman who has a life! Get outside, juggle multiple hobbies, including one that gets you moving like hiking, kayaking, climbing, cycling etc. Nothing is more exciting than a girl whos into cool sh**!
  • TheTeeWhy
    TheTeeWhy Posts: 186
    A troll is someone posting just to incite reactions and stuff. Usually joke topics like this one.
  • MightyMae1
    MightyMae1 Posts: 208
    Ah, the I'm-Almost-30 days. Don't have a pity party. Listen, when I was staring 30 in the face I got all like, "Poor me, I thought I'd be this or that by now." And then I realized that 30 is really something to celebrate. I mean, you're just now getting your "Official Adult" badge. (We say it's when you're 18, but that's a lie....they're still kids, Congress just wants their vote. HAHAHA!) So, be a big girl and get back on your plan tomorrow and best of luck to you! (Save a few calories for the "I'm-Officially-An-Adult-Because-I'm-30" beers. Maybe you'll meet a handsome hunk of man while you're out with your girls celebrating! :-)
  • thelassiemickyjames
    thelassiemickyjames Posts: 197
    oh really? all my great advice wasted! ha.. jk
  • frozenmom08
    frozenmom08 Posts: 5
    I finally realized that alone does not mean you have to be lonely. It took me awhile to get used to being alone and not call some jerk to keep me company just because I felt lonely. Wasted too much time in dead end relationships because I always had to be with someone. You are NOT a fat cow. I have a friend who is quite large and when we go out somewhere she oozes confidence and she gets hit on all the time!!! So I agree with feeling confident or at least fake it till you make it!

    I met my husband on match.com but I did have to kiss alot of frogs before I found my prince so it might be worth a try.
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